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Ulrica, 39

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About Me

Hi there! I have tried this site before and it is probably my fault for not being specific on my last profile. Here goes and bare with me.1. If you are married I am not interested. I like to think I am a good person. I want my own man and not someone else's man. I do have morals. I understand certain situations. I don't like to be strung along and mislead. I will return the favor!2. Please approach me with some respect. I have a great sense of humor and let's not get off to a bad start.3. My children are not grown so I cannot drop everything to run off. They come first. There will be a place for you. I promise but you have to be patient. Their father is deceased so I am it.4. Honesty is a must! We make thousands of decisions daily and I believe they should be educated and and non regretful ones...again I will return the favor.5. I am looking for someone close to my age. This means no one excessively younger/ older. The reason for this is too much age and you can't find common ground and mutual interests.I hope this didn't seem too harsh but the first person I need to be honest with is myself. These are things I know that I don't want..hopefully I can meet someone that I enjoy spending time with and someone who enjoys spending time with me.My interests are: summer time and all that comes with it! Art, music, traveling ( love discovering new places), sports, races, and anything else I can find to get into. I am a very active and open minded person. I like different things. I am not going to write a book so anything else you would like to know just ask. Look forward to hearing from you. Hmmmm...surprise me! I wanna know what kind of person you really are.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Berna

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Rebelle à mes heures, mais sérieuse dans ce que j'entreprends.J’é.Qui est à la recherche d’une relation vraie, teintée d'humour et imprégné de complicité.Je dois dire que pour le moment je ne recherche rien de précis.Mais si jamais...ça se passe...Au plaisir : )

  • Belia

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I’m looking for a relationship, but I’m not looking to jump into anything without getting to know someone first. I’ve been married before, so I’m pretty sure it won’t kill me to take things slow and make sure we are compatible. If you are divorced, I’m totally OK with that. You had to leave her in order to find me…Right?Rock-star lifestyle would be fun, but I’m not looking to live that life and a guy that is looking for that is not for me.I work hard, pay my bills, enjoy the company of my friends. My sweet and sour personality is the reason behind my large gang of friends! You will be proud to have me on your arm when we go out in public and your friends will probably be envious, you will see my smile far more often than my frown, you will find yourself thinking seriously about my observations on life and current events.I want to know that you’re going to let me in and that you’re actually looking for someone to enhance your life in some way.What I want is for you to be open, kind and fun…that’s pretty much it, but let me be more succinct….I want to know you’re:*Sane, stable, no ADD issues accompanied by use of Adderall= nervous, easily angered or annoyed, false sense of well-being, nervous, chronic trouble sleeping…. :( not cool*Presentable- would love to see some recent photos, where you look like you put some effort in to your appearance*Available- no recent breakups or divorces…nuff said*Mature/Responsible- employed, living on your own (no roommates please, I like to run around n***d…suck it), you’re accountable for your decisions, and not afraid of your feelings*Enjoyable- be fun to hang out with, good conversationalist, no need for stand up comedy act.Would love to meet a mature, caring man who isn’t intimidated by a strong, intelligent, independent woman, somebody who I can love, somebody who I can trust. Just be yourself, everything else will fall into place.

  • Halina

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    After doing a lot of wondering if I should be here, I have decided, why not? I am going through some health issues and a little fresh from a relationship which is why I want to be friends first. Dealing with Fibromyalgia, which can be painful from time to time and I'm also tired sometimes. I'm not rich.. but not too broke to pay my own pay unless you absolutely insist. So, if that puts you off, look for a woman with money who rock climbs. I don't see why it would be a problem for people who want just friends or friends with potential, but unless you have a big heart and your own money, lol, we may not fit as more than friends. I don't really like being alone and "sick" or just dead tired, but brain fully on at times, but I also hate to burden others with my problems. Any ideas? I wonder if this will weed out the ones who are looking for the wrong thing and keep the ones with good hearts, minds, and motives.. This was some of the worst of it. We all have our issues in life. It's just a matter of who keeps trying to overcome them.I love music, especially live, and movies . Movies have gotten me through some rough moments by being able to take my world away and immerse my imagination into theirs. I'm a firm believer that the mind is powerful and many things can be done by using it in the right ways. I'm not looking to be too serious at first right now, but want to have a good time and get to know you well. I need new people who are refreshing, interesting, kind, FUN and diverse!!! Intelligence would be fantastic, too. No, don't feed me bullsht and think that's gonna do it! I'm one honest girl who prefers to be around the same... except I prefer guys. lol Obviously a gamer or a liar isn't gonna say that's them, but if you think you are, move along. I want REAL friends because I love REAL people. I'm far from perfect, but I try to be upfront about my intentions and needs when that conversation arises. If we meet and click after awhile, I wouldn't be totally opposed to taking it to a different level, but I'm just being very cautious about it right now. If all I get from being here are some really good friends and good times, then it's worth it, right?***IMPORTANT: I do NOT want to be a text buddy. I'm don't mind texting a little, but there are many things that can be misunderstood or misconstrued, not to mention you cannot get a real feel for a person that way. If we chat here and it's cool, then I do give you my number, texting awhile is fine, but I want to hear a voice, too, especially before meeting you.***My looks are considered pretty in a more exotic type way, but I'm not skinny Barbie or her evil twin SWITCHED INTERNET PIC BARBIE... dun dun dunnnn! Come to think of it, I'm not Barbie at all! LOL! I have curves, but they're in good places and I'm good at shaping back up which I'm doing! I will probably never be a complete health nut, but prefer to eat healthy and get exercise through fun activities ;D like...dancing or swimming. Hey, you, get your mind out of the gutter! LOL! I want to take some Yoga soon, though. Will my yoga friend pls message again as I lost your message and wanna do that?!Will write more later, but if you wanna know somethin', just ASK! I'm really just looking for good friends right now, people to hang out with or have fun doing things. Just need some fun in my life other than the usual day to day. Doing what I can to stay busy and preoccupied. Idle hands are the devil's playground and all that! I like people who can teach me new things and who aren't judgmental. Took the needs test. The biggest thing I think I disagree with is that I actually DO need some "me time". I don't want to be glued to someone else ALL the time. That's not healthy. Regarding the wanting a relationship, I do eventually, but right now friends are what I need most. I don't want to think past that just yet except I'd be lying if I said I didn't miss the good things that come with a relationship. I'm working hard on various aspects of my life and need people who are fun, supportive, caring, and understanding which I try to be as well. Although I DO eventually want a relationship, I really want to feel comfortable with you first.BTW, I'm a fly by my seat kind of person. Plans tend to be a jinx for me. So please don't try to pin me down right away to a certain anything. I prefer to get to know you a little bit first and go from there. Like chat here or online first, then move to texting , if good, then the phone, then meet if we do alright. That being said, I'm not trying to waste your time or mine and I'm not going to try and go on and on for nothing like I've heard many complain about. If we're cool and both free at the same time wanting to go do something, talk about it and do it. Not that I won't make plans. I just have a lot going on at home right now. Am ***friendly, but no hard drugs which is why I checked the no drugs about messaging. I don't consider weed a drug unless you cannot live without it barring health issues...People who feel they have to have it to feel normal ALL the time tend to annoy me. Hippie parents. lol What can I say? BTW, I rarely smoke tobacco these days. Actually I vape preferring a blend of coffee, vanilla, and caramel. Snickerdoodle is yummy, too. LoL! NOW, if you managed to read this book, I want to thank and commend you! If I sound like someone you'd be interested in knowing or you think I might enjoy your company, message me :D Let's go!! It's been awhile and sadly, we sort of skipped that part during my last major relationship. So let's make it a non-stressful event... or non-event. Be natural and have a good time enjoying each other's company doing whatever we feel like doing at that time whether it be coffee, music, etc. As long as you don't ask me to pay for yours, I'm open! LOL Maybe call it a meet or meet and hang out *** a date. Just the word date brings on a certain stigma to it with expectation attached, don't you think? Yes, I know some of you consider this a dating site. I consider it a SOCIAL site so be sociable. :D Dates come and go. A true friend does not go.Don't get me wrong, I love the old fashioned notion of a date where doors are opened and held, the man walks by your side and not six paces ahead of you, and looks you directly in the eye when he speaks to you. Occasionally picking up a check is awesome, too, but that's not the reason I'm here AT ALL, I assure you. Meeting at an out of the way kinda place - coffee house or restaurant is fine. If things go well, could end up anywhere doing anything. Live music is always great, but I'm fairly easy to please most of the time and would love to have someone bring me up to speed on some of the newer, decent bands of the last few years.

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