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Joella, 40

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About Me

Okay I admit it. It is near impossible to capture, express, or submit my core essence on a dating website. I really wanted to. I have a unique, quirky, startlingly honest, fun, easy going, outgoing, and kind to others personality. I enjoy writing, reading some, learning or experiencing more, and feeling the good in life the most. Hmm… now to capture this on here and mix in whacky humor too. Yes I agree impossible. I do believe in finding life and not waiting for it to come to me. I’m told I’m spontaneous and always up for any adventure be it big or small. I’ll check online, go with friend’s last minute, and even long term plan an event. I find being flexible and finding the simple joys in the moment make better entertainment than too much organization. All best laid plans will fall apart so enjoy the ravel. I like thinking, talking, ruminating, laughing, teasing, playing, star gazing, camping, and all the other human luxuries. Snuggling to a movie or watching TV, but moving, exercising, and feeling the sun on my face just as much. I don’t want to be unhealthy or over weight and will work to keep it in the happy enough for health, but fat enough for shrimp cream sauce over tortellini. You must enjoy life meaning moving, experiencing new things, romancing, and dancing! (I’m not great either, but I’m game to improve.) I’ I enjoy new people, new places, new stories, and poking and touching historical anything. Toss me in and I’ll poke every button in the abandoned train in the trespassing yard. (Sign is just for liability right?) I need taller than me, somewhat happily healthy, affectionate, willing to work out, loves getting out whether it be a play or the wilderness. *** live close and it sounds close. First Date: Hmmm... I think I just want to meet in a restaraunt in case the person I go out with is a nut!; R laughing, playing, and a comedy club. Outdoor activities are the best.), and trying the local cuisine. All awesome things to do. Looking at the stars late at night on a hammock and talking over stress of the day, to fun of the day, to laughter and life or sharing intimate thoughts. I guess that isn't a first date. Again I'm looking for light-hearted fun, while hoping to run across that special someone. Ahhh... who knows. Relax and discover the joys that make life worth living.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Apryl

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    NO GAME PLAYERS -I AM LOOKING FOR A REAL RELATIONSHIP !!!ME*Don't have children but I AM GREAT WITH CHILDREN !!*I am a Christian woman BUT DON'T JUDGE A BOOK BY IT'S COVER.....*I am DRAMA FREE AND EMOTIONAL BAGGAGE FREE !! *I have a GREAT SENSE OF HUMOR & I look for the same in a mate....*Low maintenance woman-STILL A HOPELESS ROMANTIC !! I love flowers, gifts, thoughtful/creative dates, cards, sweet calls,emails and texts, doors opened and chairs pulled out..... chivalry.*I am independent & a highly college educated woman. This does not mean that I am a snob or that I think I am smarter than anyone else...*I am: very kind, open-minded, honest, trustworthy, generous and compassionat woman. Very DOWN TO EARTH but a little shy at first :-)*I treat others with respect and I expect the same. *I am on the exercising/eating healthy track- I AM NOT PERFECT BUT I AM A WORK IN PROGRESS!!! * I love to laugh and joke around with my partner. *Enjoy a relaxing evening at home or a night out on the town. * I am open to trying new things and exploring new places. .*I am a laid back person that tackles life's obstacles as they come. I am a big city girl with old fashioned values.MY PARTNER IN CRIME... *PLEASE BE A GROWN UP- ....I am looking for a PARTNER IN LIFE !! .*GOOD MORALS AND VALUES......knows how to treat people and shows other respect*Hopelessly romantic- (flowers, candlelit dinners, open doors, woo me~ this doesn't cost $, be creative) :-)*Giving & Loving heart.....really wanting a "true relationship"*Open minded/non judgemental*Great personality & Awesome sense of humor (FUNNY !!)* GOOD LISTENER ANDGOOD COMMUNICATOR.....* Honest, kind, caring, compassionate, giving* Not soley focused on looks (they must appreciate inner beauty & outer beauty in a woman)* Must know that a women's personality is most important! * My partner must live a healthy lifestyle: eating, exercising (I am a work in progress but on the right path) I DON'T EXPECT PERFECTION !!ANY ADDITIONAL QUESTIONS....JUST ASK !!!! Coffee or dessert to see if we connect...

  • Nina

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    So this is the part i tell u a little about me well here goes nothing lol I'm a single mom with 3 kids 16 And twins that are 9 My kids are my everything they live with me it's just me and them, I have a huge heart and a lot of love to give someone that won't take advantage of it and that can love me the same in return! I love my family were really close and like to do most things together, I have amazing friends that I like to spend time with as well. I have a good head on my shoulders and I'm ready to start a new chapter in my life hopefully I can find an honest person that I can share the next chapter with, I had thought I had met mr right on here before only to find out that was a waste of time I obviously wasn't mrs right for him so I'm trying again please all I ask is for honesty if ur looking for a FWB I'm not interested! I don't want drama or BS! I want a man that knows how to treat a woman be gentelmen and take a lady out before u try to crawl into her bed! I love camping and cottage life good music good times and just spending quality time with someone that wants to spend it with me :) love long drives to nowhere. Not into the bar scene a pub with nachos or wings and ice cold drinks I'm good to go love sports especially hockey born and bread leaf fan over here DON'T LAUGH! True blue!! Any other questions drop by and say hi! Be a gentleman and take a woman out, not interested in men coming to my home for a first date :)please DO NOT msg me if all you are interested in is text sex, phone sex or FWB only thanks :)

  • Tomi

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Hi. I am 37. I love this area and I am here to stay. I have a 10 yr old son, who is the love of my life. He keeps me very busy. I love to be outside in the sun. We spend a lot of time at the pool and on the lake. I love to travel, from nice fancy vacations to just a last minute weekend getaway. I love the beach, as well as the mountains. I enjoy going out to dinner or cooking at home. I am very easy going. I enjoy curling up on the couch with someone important to me. I am willing to try anything at least once especially if it is something import to someone I care about. I have strong family values and am looking for some who does as well. So if you are only looking for a hook up please do not contact me. Don't get me wrong- I love sex - lots of it. But there is much more to me than just that. I also have a brain. I am a strong independent woman- if you can't handle that- don't contact me! Also, if you have plans of giving me a sad story about traveling out of the country and asking me for thousands of dollars to help out - don't bother. i will not ever do that. Please do not be offended- but I don't date black men- sorry just a personal preference. Open to any thing.

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