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About Me

DeLETE THIS PROFILE!!!!!!! Anybody Out There? Im Beginning To Wonder. Please Help!!!!! Im a 37 yr old professional and would love to find someone to share some quality time with. I'm looking for someone who can rock my world! I want to sleep with my socks on, dance In the rain, engage in an occasional food fight, meet your parents, laugh under the stars, place straws in my nose at the restaraunt to make you smile, hold your hand, kiss your lips and tell you that I love you. Are you out there? I do have four children ages 21(out on her own), 19, 17 and 4. They are the very reason I am who I am today. I've been divorced for 16 years and I bring no drama of any kind to the table for a new relationship. Past relationships are long since resolved and cordial in all areas . I've been very fortunate and blessed in many areas of my life as i have had just as many hurdles, obstacles and heartaches that i have had to endure along the way. I believe that our experiences through life and the way we choose to handle them are what shape the person we become. Our life is only as great as we allow it to be, I dont believe destiny or good luck plays much of a factor with exception of rare circumstance perhaps. I am strong minded, opinionated, independent and very capable of taking care of my family and those things I take great pride in. But now Its about us. Im ready to have someone take care of me and expect the same In return. With that being said, I'm very open to others ideas and feelings. I'm not afraid to admit when I'm wrong or to say I'm sorry. I'm also very caring and compassionate. There are many colors to my personality as rings true for most I think but overall, I'm real, down to earth, easy going, and blunt. Im looking for a relationship with substance. I have no time for nor interest in games and bullsh**. A great relationship does not consist of one trying to change the other, it comes from sharing similar likes and values. A balance of personalities , honesty, strong support system and open communication. Im not looking for a boy or a boy toy, I can pick either up at any bar any given night. Im looking for a real man with a good heart and with the intention to treat a woman the way a woman should be treated. If you think you measure up please feel free to drop me a line. Take care and Hope to find you soon! Nice dinner, drinks, casual conversation in a comfortable atmosphere to begin peeling back the layers to reveal if a second date may follow.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Annemarie

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    There aren't many of us left. For this reason, I really don't care for the cold, snow, etc. To those of you who are reading this...I am very selective with who I will meet up with. I am looking for a man who has high moral character, someone that can make me laugh so hard my sides hurt, and a man that loves trying new things! I am someone who is always looking for ways to better myself as well as making the world we live in a safe/clean place for my niece to grow up in! I'm not a crazy "Hippie", but i like to know that i am doing my part. I am an avid reader. I do my best to always see the good in every situation and have a positive response to it.As you can see.... I have a niece who I love dearly! She and I can play all day, non-stop! We are always finding something fun and exciting to do! Let's get together for coffee or a drink after our day is done to see if there's a spark. No need to waste time... Mine or yours! ; ). I look forward to meeting the right man, spontaneous and fun-loving!

  • Kimberlee

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    hey looks like im back again lol didnt really have much luck on here before but thought i would try again. i love having fun whether it be something planned or just on a whim. ive been told i have a great sense of humor a lil sarcastic but these days who isnt lol. i enjoy most water sports or hanging out a the beach or just going for a long drive to nowhere ...... i enjoy a man who is comfortable in his own skin and loves to laugh and have fun as well but knows when to be serious as well. i am a mom and my boys live with me so they do take up alot of my time but can always make time for someone special.....also i have been told im a lil too honest sometimes but i think that happens to be a great quality also im very trustworthy,loyal, and an all around fun loving kinda girl....interests includewatching moviesgoing for walkslistening to musicgoing for long drivescuddling on the couch and talking about our daysdislikesomeone who does drugssomeone who is rudesomeone who cant laugh at themselvesif you are known to lie or cheat u dont need to send me a message or if u dont know what your really looking for in life please move on all those who are open to tryin new things and have an open mind in general and who take care of themselves and there surrondings feel free and leave me a message and if i think there may be something there i will do my very best to message back as soon as possiblewell not real sure what else to say right now im sure more will come to me but for now ..... happy fishing not real sure im open to trying new things but for the most part something simple to see if we would like to spend more time together

  • Lynn

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am checking out what's out there....;) it appears that there are a lot good catches, and hopefully I am not reading too much into what is said. It gives me hope to believe that there are good guys out there.....and hopefully I can meet one, and see where it goes. I am 39, single and looking for something serious. I would like to start slow, but hopefully connect with a mature, respectful, funny, honest, intelligent, loyal man. Is that too much to ask for??? I am not looking for someone to take care of me, but someone to spend quality time with, and start a new life together.I moved to NC over five years ago from CA, and have made some really good friends, finally, however, they are all married. I am tired of being the third, or five wheel. I am finally at a place in my life, that I feel confident that there is someone out there for me. I am ready to take the next step, and put myself out there, and take a chance. Internet dating seems the easiest way these days, to connect, with singles.I work full time Monday through Friday. I work out at the gym a lot, and am a work in progress. I also work out with a personal trainer at least 2 days a week. I am dedicated to getting in better shape, and having fun learning new active ways to get there. I enjoy playing baseball/softball, basketball, as well as watching on tv and live. I enjoy all kinds of music, and am starting to even like a little country. lol. I am kindhearted, smart, funny, loyal, honest, and respectful. I treat people the way I would like to be treated. I was taught, if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything at all. I am a positive person, and want to be surrounded by positive people and attitudes.If you are at all interested, and have more questions, let me know...I look forward to hearing from you. If this has not intriqued you, I wish you all the best, hope you find what you are looking for! something casual, and see if there is a connection.

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