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Shirl, 38

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About Me

If i add you as a favorite, its because I'm interested.I'm very open and honest. If I like you, you will know. If I don't, you will know. I like to stay active and really anything can be fun with the right people. I listen to all types of music including country. I also love to go country dancing. Im witty and sarcastic I love to play and tease. I also have tattoos, if that is an issue keep moving.I don't have a specific type and I'm very personality driven. I don't date other ethnicities. Please don't take it personal. I don't need a man to "rescue" me financially or any other way. I'm independent and confident. My friends say I'm super responsible but I still know how to have fun. They call me when they need advice (or someone with a truck lol). I'm not looking for a hookup so move on if that's all you're about. No really, that doesn't mean try harder.I have two kids. My daughter is 18 and I have her full time. My son is 9 and I share custody with his dad. Well a first MEETING should be short, like meet for drinks to see if there is a connection. However if a connection is there, can definitely last longer.An actual DATE, should be longer with dinner or a mutual interest we have in common to get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Reita

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am easy going and fun and I try not to take myself too serious. I've been married and divorced and I am just looking to meet someone to hang out with, have a few drinks and some decent conversation. I am comfortable in my own skin and am not afraid to get dirty. I like to be outdoors whenever possible. I can slip on my favorite jeans and t-shirt and hang with friends or rock that little black dress and hit the town. I just like to have fun.What I am looking for: I am not looking to hook-up, so if that's your deal, please move on. I am looking for a true gentleman that knows how to treat a woman. Someone who can roll with the punches and just have fun. Eventually I'd like to find 'the one' but I am not on a mission to find a husband.The first thing people notice about me are my blue eyes and second is usually my accent. I lived my whole life in the south so my accent is here to stay, as is my love for country music.I have 2 kids (one is an adult), the other is 14. I am not looking to have more children, but am absolutely fine with dating a man that has children.As for hobbies I like to be outside as much as possible. I am a runner but not a gym rat. I LOVE Football season and enjoy watching both College and NFL.The kind of woman I am: Most of my 'girl' friends say I am a Tom-Boy, but don't let that fool you. Yes I love to do things that boys like to do, that is mainly because I have a 14 year old son that keeps me very active. I am not a 'bleacher' Mom, I am the mom that gets out there and plays football, baseball, rides her dirt bike and have on occasion coached, in an effort to be both Mom and Dad to my son. Even though I love to get dirty, I love SHOES and shopping just like any other woman. I do not 'need' a man to take care of me, I can do that. I am looking for a partner that can compliment me and respect my independence. I am a southern woman at heart, I believe a man should be respected above all else. That being said, I expect to be treated with respect and kindness. For a first date I'd prefer a place where we can chat and get to know each other, like for coffee or a beer. I am not a woman that needs to be 'wined and dined', I just want to get to know you and see if there is chemistry.

  • Karli

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Educated, loving, kind, smart, humorous and well traveled. I am a christian. I enjoy bike riding, playing cards, pool, new adventures, tinkering with photos/videos and reading. I have a great job that I love. I prefer music over TV and in fact I do not have cable by choice...and enjoy all music. I just moved to a new area and I am thoroughly enjoying a journey of discovery! I have been to most cities in the US and I have been abroad. *** MUST READ***- do not respond), seeking someone with comparable income, do not *** you are not at least 6 ft, I tend to be attracted to taller men, I am completely okay with kids (big families are cool) and I only have 1 daughter. Not sure if I want to personally have more kids. Interested in learning more about vegetarian and/or healthy cooking style and proper exercising. If I don't respond to you immediately please don't get upset or take offense, I have full custody of my daughter and I work full time so my personal time is limited and often spent with my daughter, cleaning, cooking, shopping blah blah....I have ***male cats - a bonus if you can train my cats to go potty outside hahaha or if you like to cook! Surprise me. Life is short let's make it exciting & a different kind of journey.

  • Esther

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am a all around good woman ... Enough said :)

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