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Olyvia, 38

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About Me

Well...I'm trying this again it seems! Yay???? Ha! Not so much! The short of it at this point...although I'm never short on words...is that I have been back in the area for almost two years now after having been away for almost 15 years. I met someone pretty shortly after my move, but it just didn't end up working out despite all the effort in the world. Sooooo...This is Online Dating, Take 2!!! How's that for trying to think positive?!? So, in more than one way, I have my life back, you see...So, here I am! In a nutshell...I am a former teacher turned professor and have been working in higher education since ***. I am most certainly in the job of my dreams and am doing my very best to be my very best in it. That's pretty much how I do most things and it seems to be working for me for the most part! At this point, I am very happy with what I have been able to do with my life so far and am now looking forward to setting goals with someone else for all the exciting things that could come next. :) When it comes to interests or activities? I will take a stab at just about anything...unless it's going to hurt...I'll likely stay away from that if at all possible at this point in my life. Whoops! I did not see that one coming at ALL! I would not say I am really good at running, but I am excellent at racing against myself and sometimes pushing my limits significantly (obviously!). I love to do things that take place outside...Biking, hiking, camping, concerts, festivals, etc., so if you are into that sort of thing, that would be a bonus! Of course, I am an excellent talker...Typical, right??? :) I swear I can shut up. I promise! So...When it comes to a first date and this online business (and based on my experiences up to this point), I would prefer to get away from typing/texting as soon as possible and just plain meet for a beverage or something. Honestly, I'd even like to skip the phone! Real life is where true compatibility can be determined. I'm sure you've had the experience where all the extended fingertip tapping has you thinking you've found the girl of your dreams and then it just doesn't translate in person, right? Let's just not have that! Of course, beyond that, I can think of all kinds of super fun (and even romantical) things that could happen...Feel free to be the first man to ever truly sweep me off my feet. You'd be a dream come true! (And, I do know that romantical is not a real word...It just makes me giggle.) :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Richelle

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I view life as a journey to be lived, shared, laughed at, cried at, loved, lost, found and experienced fully. I love smiles and laughter and playing. I love good conversation. I love thoughts and ideas. I love to learn. I love to grow. I am only interested in relationships full of respect and love for one another. I believe in World Peace and live my life to promote that daily. I look for the good in others and focus my attention on that. I prefer to believe in people versus judging them. I am continually moved by the infinite connectedness of all things and I constantly push myself to foster that connection... whether it be saying "hi" to the people I pass during a trail run, or holding the door for someone behind me at the grocery store, or sharing a kind glance and a warm smile with the homeless guy on the corner, or helping a turtle cross the road safely. I am athletic, energetic, passionate, artistic, health-minded, and emotionally stable. Music moves me deeply, and writing is a life-long love of mine.My ideal match would be a guy who smiles (did I mention how much I love smiles :). I'm not interested in describing my ideal match in detail because that would be, well, not very romantic. I don't know exactly how my ideal match would be, but he'd read the paragraph above and think to himself "Wow, that chick sounds cool! I'd love to meet her." If, on the other hand, you found yourself rolling your eyes while reading it, well - I'm probably not your girl. I will say that similar interests are important, although not nearly as important as similar views on the metaphysical slices of life. Emotional stability is a must.And to save the best for last... I have a little guy who's a BIG part of my life. My ideal match would have space in his heart to love and cherish us both.

  • Katey

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I'm a real cool chic. But I wont play second best to anyone. You will never be my priority if I am only your option. I am a hopeless romantic, I believe in love at first sight. I believe true love never hurts, I believe in telling the truth. I still believe in love. I love being in love and with God all things are possible. Yes I wrote it... But originality would be nice.

  • May

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I'm an extreme hopscotch athlete. I translate ethnic slurs for Cuban refugees, I write award-winning operas, I manage time efficiently. Occasionally, I tread water for three days in a row. Four years ago I became a Colonel. I woo my man with my sensuous and goddess-like trombone playing, I can pilot bicycles up severe inclines with unflagging speed, and I cook thirty-minute brownies in twenty minutes. I know the exact location of every food item in the supermarket. On weekends, to let off steam, I participate in full-contact origami. Years ago I discovered the meaning of life but forgot to write it down. I have made extraordinary four course meals using only a toaster oven. I breed prizewinning clams. I am a self taught balloon twisting artist.--heart surgery, and I have spoken with Elvis. Children trust me.Please don't message me with one simple 'hi' or 'hey' or 'what's up'. I've taken the time to write a lot of things here- I deserve to know that you read through it. I will not respond to the small/short messages. ;) And perhaps to save you a little bit of time... I am not interested in dating black men.If you read all of that and are still smiling then you must know that I'm a smart ass and just trying to figure out what to say to catch your attention. I am seeking a long term relationship with someone who can make me smile, someone who is optimistic and is ready to move forward in a relationship. I have a son and I have cats, if you are opposed to either then you should move along. I come from a pretty large family and I like planning events to socialize with former classmates. If you aren't social then we probably wouldn't get along well. I don't go out with friends a lot, but when I do, I'd like to bring a date. The kind of guys I am generally attracted to are probably described as big or heavy, it's just who I am attracted to. If you think we would get along then send me a message and tell me which of the above things you believe are true about me. Let's see... a first date. I assume after the awkward introductions and the forced smiles eventually we'd calm down enough to have a bite to eat. Perhaps some light conversation talking about our families and what an interesting/horrible week it was at work. If it's nice enough outside maybe go to the park and walk around, grab an ice cream and eat it on a blanket while watching the ducks in the pond. Any kind of casual date would be great. I like comedy clubs, karaoke, having some drinks. I'm really up for just about anything.

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