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Bula, 36
United States, Colorado, Durango

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I'll make this short and sweet like me. I'm 36, No kids.. recently unemployed (flag #1) and I'm a hopeless yet idealistic romantic. My parents have been married for over 45 years and they are still very much in love.. That is what I'm looking for, I want it all! A spiritual, emotional, physical and intellectual explosion of chemistry. I don't think you have to settle for one to have the other and I wont stop until I get it..(prob why I'm 36 and still single with no kids). I feel children should be brought into this world surrounded by love and desire by two people who feel the same way.. No baby's momma will I be, no offense to all those out there. I admire you. I have been through all walks of life and can pretty much have a conversation with just about anyone.. even a nut-job. I have a dark, yet light and wild sense of humor and LOVE to laugh. I can laugh at myself.. no problem, but I'm really looking for that guy who keeps me giggling all the time. I'm not looking for any "reformed bad buys".. that prob just means you used to be a****and you prob still are, plus I've prob done much worse than you have :) If your profile has shirtless pics of you in front of your jet-ski or pounding a Pabst at the lake with your bros.. actually if your shirtless at all please don't respond, it's just too cheesy for me and makes me feel embarrassed for you.. I'm not a prude but I do have a strong set of morals and values that I try to adhere. I have traveled the world, taught middle school for 7 years and did some independent consulting and care-giving up until now. Although I would still like to work and am avidly job searching what I really want in life is to be the worlds most bad ass mom/caregiver. I'm a Cancer, we are born to nurture and love with abandon. Some might call me a free spirit or one who leads an alternative lifestyle but I don't like labels much. I have the soul of a pirate and I love the ocean. I feel most calm and serene hanging out on one the cliffs on the northern coast.. LOVE to fish and camp too. I've dated a couple of times on this site and I can honestly say with the exception of one (who is now in jail for stalking, assaulting, and car jacking etc.) we are still friends to this day. I believe everyone has value and friendships are important. People enter and exit your life for specific reasons, we just don't know what they are yet... right? I'm looking for a grown man who is non-judgmental, passionate, likes music, will dance at a wedding, bring me flowers sometimes and wants to find the one special lady for the rest of his life. Not into the bar scene at all.. not partying till i puke kinda love lol. I will stop now before you really start to figure out how odd I am :) Hmm. All depends on how we click, what we are into. I love good coffee and good chocolate.. Hanging out at the park, going to the zoo. Anything goes with me. I'm not looking for a one night wild blow out though.. sorry wrong girl, that will get us nowhere. Hit me up and tell me about yourself.. what band best describes YOU at the moment? For me.. I'd say the Black Keys. Be creative and tell me something funny or different, lets have fun and not just say " Hello beautiful, how was your day?" ...blahhh lol. I'm really looking to get to know some from the inside out. Not just a superficial meet and greet. let's get deep aight?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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