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Hellen, 38

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UPDATE ***...I don't get on here that much SO when I do check this site and IF i am interested in you then you will hear back from me. UPDATE ***....Still on here and why, I HAVE NO CLUE!?!?!?!?! ALL my pics are current as current as can be. I am a REAL person. I also just recently got a promotion (store manager) so I work 45 to 55hrs a week. I spend my days off with my son or relaxing. I AM looking for a TRUE friend first and foremost. IF more develops GREAT, if not then its been nice. I WON'T waste either of our precious time IF I don't think anything will develop between us. UPDATE ***.....Ok, Really guys PLEASE PLEASE stop with the BS childish games!!!!! I'm a TRUE & FAITHFUL gal looking for the SAME in a MAN not a lil boy! UPDATE ***......Seriously guys stop with the BS games already!!!! I'm not a stupid gal that is going to fall for high school pick up lines. My time is precious to me so DON'T waste it. Im a very unique gal, if u wanna know just HOW unique just ask me. NOW, back to the show....LOLI have been on this site for close 4yrs now. Sometimes I think it is just a waste of time & then I think....WHAT IF??? I am a single mother to an awesome 17yr old son. He is my life & my world. He will ALWAYS come first. He keeps me busy with all that he is involved in(boy scouts, soccer, football) so I may not always have time to do things but that doesn't mean that I won't TRY to make time for myself &/or you.; I am also a promoter for the Visalus Sciences Body by Vi protein shakes. I am NOT on here looking for a father for my son or someone to support us. I am doing just fine on my own. I do own my own home & my truck is paid for as well. I am a very honest, faithful, truthful, loving, kind, caring, fun-loving gal. I don't have drama in my life NOR do I want it in my life. I don't play games with peoples' minds or their emotions NOR do I want that done to me. I'm not a gal to "throw out" the phrase I Love You very quickly either. I am looking for someone that will be my best friend, partner, lover, & soulmate. I am looking for a long term relationship. I have been single for over 3yrs now so I know how to be patient & wait for the right man to come along. Im not the type to just "settle" just to be in a comfy relationship.-girlfriend, or a BUNCH of gals hanging all over you......THAT'S a bad sign in my book. Please have CURRENT pics of yourself.....I don't care how you looked years ago. All my pics are as current as can be. IF you want just a one night stand, sex partner, "friend with benefits", or "fling" PLEASE don't waste my time or yours by *** First date.....Hmmmm, I would have to say in a nice restaurant so we could be able to talk with each other without a lot of background noise. Starbucks is nice as well.......... BUT then again, I do like to watch sports too ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Trace

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Hi everyone... So far, it's happening kind of slowly.I moved here for a job about a year ago, and that's going great. I am the mother of two wonderful boys and I share custody. If you don't like children, that would be a problem. I like the usual things such as going out to eat, watching movies, and just being with friends. I like to go out occasionally but I also enjoy being at home and relaxing. In social situations, I am shy at first but it doesn't take long for me to come out of my shell. Once I do, I'm pretty outgoing. Since I am an only child I find that I do like to spend time by myself, but I can only do the alone thing for so long. Music is something I really enjoy and a far as the type of music I like, it's almost every type. I tend listen to mostly rock and alternative on the radio, but I'm starting to like country too. I would like to travel more, but once again, have limited time. I'm a friendly person (sometimes to a fault) and have been told that I have a tendency to be too nice. This also tends to make me a very trusting person though I am learning that I shouldn't give my trust away so freely. I tend to b full of energy and can talk to anyone! Like everyone else, I'm not perfect and readily admit my faults. As I have gotten older, I have become more blunt about how I feel and sometime am too blunt. I am trying to filter that. I do care about how I look and I do my best to maintain my appearance. That being said, I am not conceded. Please don't talk to me just because you like my appearance. I realize that first impressions come from what we see but I hope someone will take the time to get to know my personality before trying to get too serious. I'm not looking for someone just to sleep with. I would like to have a relationship with someone that is looking for the same thing.I honestly don't know exactly what I'm looking for in a guy (if I did, I guess I would have one by now). I would really like a guy who is an adult and not looking to play games. no commitment issues, please...The general attributes include honesty, a sense of humor, kindness, and intelligence. I have NO tolerance for drug use, heavy drinking, rudeness, or general stupidity. If my friends and parents won't like the way you treat me, please just stay away. Please, just be honest about who you are and the intentions you have.If you are still interested, feel free to write! It's hard to choose what to do on a first date until you talk to the person you are going on a date with. I like most anything as long as it isn't scary or dangerous....

  • Amethyst

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I work hard, play hard and I am very devoted to my children ... Live Laugh and Love ... looking for someone who is equally confident in who they are and what they want out of life. This is my second time being on this site and I prefer to meet first and talk later. I really believe physical attraction and chemistry are essential! That does not mean looks are everything.... if we meet and "click" then lets get to know one another and go from there. We would have to enjoy each others company, be able to communicate freely and have lots of fun! I am not looking for a " hook up". I am very independent and hold a great job I've had for the past 15 years now. I was married for 14 years and I have been single for the last two years. I have 3 older children, I am done in the baby making department, so I prefer you to have your own because mine have a great father. I am open, honest, blunt and do not want games and I expect the same in return. Most importantly be real, positive and have a genuine kindness to others. I am annoyed easily by constant complainers, whiners and negative people who can not appreciate the little things in life god has given us. I am definitely not perfect(could eat healthier or work out more then I do) BUT I take care of myself and will not be attracted to someone who is clearly out of shape, has bad teeth, smells like they don't shower daily, dresses like a scrub or has no manners. I do require attention!! So if you live too far or your life is way to hectic to see me a couple times a week, then your not for me! I am not rich nor a gold digger but I must say that you have to be financially stable like myself. I enjoy our downtown, trying new experiences and Love the sun, water close by is a plus! Many more... Check out my interests. If we hit it off I expect you to show your interest and make me feel wanted, there should be no guessing game. I do not want a man I would have to worry if he was faithful or not. In return, I am a very nurturing, sexual, passionate and affectionate person, who loves to please her man. A quick meet and greet

  • Velva

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    It's so difficult to summarize myself in this little box. I'm tattooed and formerly pierced, but I also have a career in the corporate world. I'm highly logical, but I can be emotional too. I'm not a girly girl, but want doors to be opened for me and to be treated like a lady. I am equally comfortable in a dive bar playing darts or pool or a theater watching a play. I love to laugh and hang out with friends and I consider myself pretty low maintenance. You'll have to get to know to me:)I'm not on here just looking to get laid immediately. I'm looking to actually DATE someone, so please, if your intention is just to meet for a hookup save your time and don't ***

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