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About Me

Hi everyone... So far, it's happening kind of slowly.I moved here for a job about a year ago, and that's going great. I am the mother of two wonderful boys and I share custody. If you don't like children, that would be a problem. I like the usual things such as going out to eat, watching movies, and just being with friends. I like to go out occasionally but I also enjoy being at home and relaxing. In social situations, I am shy at first but it doesn't take long for me to come out of my shell. Once I do, I'm pretty outgoing. Since I am an only child I find that I do like to spend time by myself, but I can only do the alone thing for so long. Music is something I really enjoy and a far as the type of music I like, it's almost every type. I tend listen to mostly rock and alternative on the radio, but I'm starting to like country too. I would like to travel more, but once again, have limited time. I'm a friendly person (sometimes to a fault) and have been told that I have a tendency to be too nice. This also tends to make me a very trusting person though I am learning that I shouldn't give my trust away so freely. I tend to b full of energy and can talk to anyone! Like everyone else, I'm not perfect and readily admit my faults. As I have gotten older, I have become more blunt about how I feel and sometime am too blunt. I am trying to filter that. I do care about how I look and I do my best to maintain my appearance. That being said, I am not conceded. Please don't talk to me just because you like my appearance. I realize that first impressions come from what we see but I hope someone will take the time to get to know my personality before trying to get too serious. I'm not looking for someone just to sleep with. I would like to have a relationship with someone that is looking for the same thing.I honestly don't know exactly what I'm looking for in a guy (if I did, I guess I would have one by now). I would really like a guy who is an adult and not looking to play games. no commitment issues, please...The general attributes include honesty, a sense of humor, kindness, and intelligence. I have NO tolerance for drug use, heavy drinking, rudeness, or general stupidity. If my friends and parents won't like the way you treat me, please just stay away. Please, just be honest about who you are and the intentions you have.If you are still interested, feel free to write! It's hard to choose what to do on a first date until you talk to the person you are going on a date with. I like most anything as long as it isn't scary or dangerous....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

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