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Mellisa, 39

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About Me

I'm an easy going person who is very independent. I enjoy running, taking walks, hiking, biking, zip lining, ice skating, swimming, traveling.... basically there isn't much that I don't like to do or am at least willing to try once. I am a VERY active person and you will find me spending my time doing anything other than sitting around. I am looking for someone who prefers to spend their time active as well. My primary goal is to have fun doing whatever I happen to be doing!! :) Life is too short to be serious all of the time, and I certainly get enough of that working and being a parent. I strive to attain that perfect balance in life - good luck with that - right?! ;)Finally, I should add that if you are needy, controlling, dependent, looking for a sugar momma, have an agenda or simply do not have your life together... I'm afraid I will NOT be interested. I have myself and my life together and am most compatible with those who can offer the same in return. Adding more here.... If you aren't a nice, decent man you would be wasting your time....ugh. :) Coffee, dinners, one or two drinks. I don't really think it matters as long as there is a mutual attraction.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cherrie

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I like to relax but also like to go out and do fun things such as the beach or going out on the water in a boat, and horseback riding (although its been awhile). However I do like going out at night and going for a drives or going out for drinks and pool (billiards). I like alll kinds of different movies but I especially like scary ones and scary books too. My favorite kind of music is rap and some house & techno but mainly rap. I am attracted to confident men but not arrogant. I like a man that knows how to do things and not need someone to do it for them. I hate thieves and users. I want to be able to respect you. I have no need for someone who has to live off a woman so call me old fashioned but I have no problem cooking and taking care of a man I am with like in the house or in bed but I don't want to financially take care of a man. Oh and I don't want a crackhead or a junkie been there done that, hated it. I am not a planner please don't ask: " So what do you want to do?" Have something in mind, I am openminded to doing new things.

  • Harlow

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I have been single by choice for a long time, but I'm feeling like my life is due for a change. I turned 39 recently and I am going to LIVE this 39th year. I'm ready... I'm ready for YOU! Well, assuming we would actually work as a couple. Few things about me:- I'm not needy. So if you want someone to need you in their life, well search on and godspeed. - I hate to be *** it. If you don't want to hang out with me again, then man up and say so. *** juvenile. (On that note - I don't react like a crazy b!tch when you choose to move on and just tell me flat out. Sure, I may feel sad if I really liked you, but I'm not going to drive past your house and / or stalk you on *** am financially independent, but I'm not wealthy. So if you offer to pay, I'd let you. But I don't expect it.- I'm sometimes a work-a-holic. I love what I do and here and there it consumes me. I'm sorry for that.- I'm spontaneous with restrictions. If you ask on Wednesday if I want to go away this weekend, I will probably say yes. If I've already taken off my skirt and curled up under a blanket, I probably won't want to go out tonight. - I believe in God, and I want you to believe in God. Don't just say you do - I've been down that road and it's too difficult to support lengthy travel.- I am sarcastic and sometimes too strong.- I am not girly - if you want a girl in high heels, I'm probably not for you. I wear them here and there, but I much prefer my birkenstocks.- Yes, I am hippie-ajacent. - I like PEACE. Everyone says they hate drama, but time after time, I'm pushed aside for the psycho chick that brings nothing but drama. I sincerely hate drama, I have enough work-related stress, when I talk to or spend time with you, I want it to be chill and easy. - I am not skinny. That doesn't mean I'm the fat chick that will do anything to get a man. I have superior familial relationships and a solid, supportive network of friends. I am good at what I do, and I like who I am. So don't step up to me thinking you can push me around b/c I'm a little bit chubby. I'm tougher than my height and size implies.I like: ***my second home -- festivals- touristy things- dancing in my living room / kitchen- reading- et. al. I like alternative looking people, people that aren't scared to be different, but aren't trying too hard to be so. *** you find me interesting, are adept at using spell check, and comment on something I've said and you'll probably get a response. If you're happy with meeting and NOT talking on the phone first, you get added points. Because I keep track... but then I will probably lose the point tally. Oh yeah - maybe if you have a job, a brain, a secure place to live, and a car... that would be good. I reserve the right to *** *** if I'm not attracted to you, I may tell you that as well. Half ass profiles aren't interesting either, so I may never find out how fascinating you are unless you complete it.Just be you, without apology. I’ll do the same. I think saying what you'd do on your first date is kind of lame, considering every person is different. So if I say go out for drinks, and you don't drink... well that'd be a silly first date, wouldn't it? So we'll talk about it and figure out a first date together.

  • Jelissa

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm sometimes a complete contradiction, I've lived enough to know who I am and be comfortable with that, but not enough to be jaded (which I hope never happens). I'm both a mature woman who makes her way in the world and wide eyed innocent who looks for good in everyone and everything in the world. I am full of curiosity, so I love to check out anything and everything! They say curiosity killed the cat, but I'm still here! Say hit to me, I promise I won't draw blood, maybe we'll hit it off, make friends, or even more. I'll let you pick!

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