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Lecia, 40

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About Me

Well so far dating has not been a positive for me in any way, shape, or form. I wouldn't say I am a picky girlie, but I do know the kind of person that I click well with. I'm not writing a serious relationship off. But I don't have much faith left in the idea of being with Mr. Right. So let me tell you the basics on me and then I will tell you what I am looking for. I'm a pretty upfront person. I'd say I have a good head on my shoulders. I'm a TOTAL Gemini so I can be flip-floppy. But don't confuse that for flakey. I can be slightly stubborn at times, but fair, and I won't sugarcoat squat. I'm very strong willed. If I say I'm going to do something I do it. I'm also no pushover. I have a lot of ink and always adding. My ears are gauged, nose is pierced, and I don't dress like a soccer mom. I know when to tone things down. But will not change for anyone and wouldn't ask anyone to for me. I have a teenage son who lives with his grandma. Good reasons, not bad. I've also been happily divorced twice. I'm human and made bad choices. I wasn't letting my son grow up with bad role models. With that being said.. Who am I looking for? Basically people who enjoy the same interests I do. That is an absolute MUST. Physically I tend to go for tall men. Especially blondes. A bit of honesty.. I'm not attracted to bald men. It's not personal, many women are. I'm just not.. I'm sure some men don't like redheads ;. Men who are confident and know who they are. I do go to the gym and follow a good diet, so I prefer men who are the same, age ***. So I'm only interested in talking to men who are fairly local. If I were to hit it off with someone I would't want a long distance thing and I won't relocate ;) Sense of humor is a must. You have to be able to keep my wheels spinning. Not an easy task. Take a look at my interests. If you think we may mesh, hmu. If I'm interested I'll get back. If I don't please don't take it personally and good luck. If the company is right, it doesn't matter.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Fermina

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I've dated some really nice guys over the past year, but it just wasn't a match. I cannot say a bad word about any of them, I just didn't want to be with them. I learned a lot about what I want out of a guy.Chivalry and other gentlemanly acts- I am more than capable of opening my own door, but I really like it when you do it. I like it when men order for me, especially if they have paid attention enough to be able to order what I like. Finding Me Funny: I read that men don't like women that make them laugh, but I really enjoy making people laugh. Especially if it makes them wet their pants from laughing so hard. Conversationalists and Readers: I like words, though I am awful at crossword puzzles. I listen to audiobooks rather than music and read the news regularly. I like to read and I like being able to talk and share. Moderation in Most things: Fundamentalism in most forms is a turn off, unless it is a hatred of pickles. I'm with you on that one, but I do understand there are people that like them and I only control their existence inside my home. Support- Not financial support. I'm talking about cheerleading and ass kicking. I'm looking for someone wanting to step out of their comfort zone from time to time, able to keep his own identity and interested in finding someone to share experiences with. I like the first date to be something like a walk in a park or museum where we can talk, move and have something to discuss. I prefer eating at small local establishments over chain restaurants. I like the flexibility of ending or extending a date.

  • Cherish

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

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  • Delois

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I love music, either live or on the radio and love all types. I love watching sports, and yes I am a Cubs fan, sorry. I am involved with my girls whether it being school or just hanging out. They are a big part of my life, the reason I get up everyday and come first. And yes, I do have full custody of them! With that being said, they go to their father's every other weekend so that is when I have my most free time to hangout and get to know someone. I am very family orientated and would like to find someone who is also. Although they live about 5 hrs North, I try to make the trip at least once a month to see them. I love my job working with the geriatric population. I am a Triage nurse, M-F, and work with a great group of gals. I drink socially as my kids and their safety are important. I was in a marriage where alcohol became an issue so if you go to the bar a lot, keep looking. I appreciate honesty and will be upfront with you. I know what I want and am not afraid to voice it. I am looking for a one women guy as this has also been a problem in the past. I can only give respect if I get the same. I am not looking to relocate. I like the school system my girls are in. I like to play darts and bowl. I am no Barbie doll but not a BBW. Looks are not everything. Intelligence and humor can go along way. I am wanting to meet someone who loves to laugh at little things, who enjoys life, who isnt a bar fly, and likes to do things as a family. If you have children, thats great. I love children and treat others as my own. I am not wanting to take the place of their mother but will step up to be a role model. I enjoy one on one time in my spare time. I can tolerate texting but need that face to face communication. If this is a problem for you, then best off we go our separate ways. I value my free time and would like to spend it with someone who feels the same. I need a little heads up with making plans if during the week, but my weekends without girls are pretty open unless I am visiting my family.I have met some nice guys on here but if you don't have the time to get to know one another or hang out, then you might wanna keep looking. Any questions, just ask. I dont bite, well not hard! something not too distracting so we can talk. maybe a park or trails

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