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Lecia, 40
United States, Colorado, Canon City

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About Me

Well so far dating has not been a positive for me in any way, shape, or form. I wouldn't say I am a picky girlie, but I do know the kind of person that I click well with. I'm not writing a serious relationship off. But I don't have much faith left in the idea of being with Mr. Right. So let me tell you the basics on me and then I will tell you what I am looking for. I'm a pretty upfront person. I'd say I have a good head on my shoulders. I'm a TOTAL Gemini so I can be flip-floppy. But don't confuse that for flakey. I can be slightly stubborn at times, but fair, and I won't sugarcoat squat. I'm very strong willed. If I say I'm going to do something I do it. I'm also no pushover. I have a lot of ink and always adding. My ears are gauged, nose is pierced, and I don't dress like a soccer mom. I know when to tone things down. But will not change for anyone and wouldn't ask anyone to for me. I have a teenage son who lives with his grandma. Good reasons, not bad. I've also been happily divorced twice. I'm human and made bad choices. I wasn't letting my son grow up with bad role models. With that being said.. Who am I looking for? Basically people who enjoy the same interests I do. That is an absolute MUST. Physically I tend to go for tall men. Especially blondes. A bit of honesty.. I'm not attracted to bald men. It's not personal, many women are. I'm just not.. I'm sure some men don't like redheads ;. Men who are confident and know who they are. I do go to the gym and follow a good diet, so I prefer men who are the same, age ***. So I'm only interested in talking to men who are fairly local. If I were to hit it off with someone I would't want a long distance thing and I won't relocate ;) Sense of humor is a must. You have to be able to keep my wheels spinning. Not an easy task. Take a look at my interests. If you think we may mesh, hmu. If I'm interested I'll get back. If I don't please don't take it personally and good luck. If the company is right, it doesn't matter.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Funk Chinese German Japanese Vietnamese Crime Documentary History Romance Western
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