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Delois, 38

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About Me

I love music, either live or on the radio and love all types. I love watching sports, and yes I am a Cubs fan, sorry. I am involved with my girls whether it being school or just hanging out. They are a big part of my life, the reason I get up everyday and come first. And yes, I do have full custody of them! With that being said, they go to their father's every other weekend so that is when I have my most free time to hangout and get to know someone. I am very family orientated and would like to find someone who is also. Although they live about 5 hrs North, I try to make the trip at least once a month to see them. I love my job working with the geriatric population. I am a Triage nurse, M-F, and work with a great group of gals. I drink socially as my kids and their safety are important. I was in a marriage where alcohol became an issue so if you go to the bar a lot, keep looking. I appreciate honesty and will be upfront with you. I know what I want and am not afraid to voice it. I am looking for a one women guy as this has also been a problem in the past. I can only give respect if I get the same. I am not looking to relocate. I like the school system my girls are in. I like to play darts and bowl. I am no Barbie doll but not a BBW. Looks are not everything. Intelligence and humor can go along way. I am wanting to meet someone who loves to laugh at little things, who enjoys life, who isnt a bar fly, and likes to do things as a family. If you have children, thats great. I love children and treat others as my own. I am not wanting to take the place of their mother but will step up to be a role model. I enjoy one on one time in my spare time. I can tolerate texting but need that face to face communication. If this is a problem for you, then best off we go our separate ways. I value my free time and would like to spend it with someone who feels the same. I need a little heads up with making plans if during the week, but my weekends without girls are pretty open unless I am visiting my family.I have met some nice guys on here but if you don't have the time to get to know one another or hang out, then you might wanna keep looking. Any questions, just ask. I dont bite, well not hard! something not too distracting so we can talk. maybe a park or trails

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Faviola

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Ok, so I am going to write a bit more, since I had such a short profile initially...I would describe myself as intelligent, funny, sarcastic, beautiful (inside and out), determined, hard-working, sexy, caring, loyal, educated, independent, and not afraid to take on a challenge. I'm sure there are more great adjectives...I'm not into labels or plastic people. I prefer nice, respectful, good-hearted, sincere people. Life is too short to spend time with people doing things you don't enjoy (like going to clubs...not into that anymore). My time is precious, and with a two-year-old son, I don't get out much. So, I choose who I spend my time with and what I am doing wisely. If I choose to spend time with you, even on our first meeting, respect me and my time enough to show up, call with enough advanced notice if you are cancelling, and don't ask me last minute to do something (well, you can ask, but I will probably not be able to meet you). I don't have too many active hobbies right now. But, I am open to adopting some new ones--maybe I'll like some of yours?! I enjoy going to concerts and outdor festivals and such. I'm not into working out, but I'd love to take up some co-ed sports or activities. I am trying to lose some weight I gained after having my baby...so, I'm open to some working out too. It seems like every guy on here says he enjoys working out...no matter how chubby he looks in his pics. LOL. I like a man who takes care of himself, but not to the point of drinking protein shakes and being ridiculous about his meals. I love food. I am a foodie. One of my favorite things is going out to eat and drinking some nice wine. I am not going to enjoy going out to eat with you if you ask for your chicken breast plain, get veg *** carbs, say no to bread, and can't have a drink...BORING! I'd rather you be a little thick...a little! ;)Speaking of what I like in a man...I like tall guys. I won't *** message from you if you are at least 5'9", but I really prefer over 6'. I like thin/athletic builds, but a few extra pounds are ok as long as you carry them well and don't have a gut, love handles, etc. And, hey, maybe we can lose a few lbs together! I also go for light or lighter eyes. It's not necessarily a prerequisite, but I've noticed the guys that I've dated more seriously and longest all have light eyes. I also only date caucasian guys. I have ventured out, but, white guys are my thing. Oh, and another biggie...you have to have hair. I know a lot of guys my age are balding so they shave it off. But, a bald head doesn't do it for me. I'm sure there are plenty of great looking ladies that do like a smooth, bald head!If you are upset that you don't fit into my "taste" above, don't be. Its nothing personal. Everyone has a taste. Everyone has dating preferences. I don't need to hear from any of you about how shallow I am or how I'm missing out. That may well be true, but its not up to you to scold me for it. And, no, I don't think I'm perfect...far from it. Ok?!As for any baggage or drama...everyone has some, or you haven't lived...I am a woman...complicated, yet simple...independant, still looking for a knight in shining armor...have worked hard and accomplished a lot, and failed too...I have loved and lost, and been both too afraid to love, and afraid of never finding it...I am a control freak, but would love to have a man not too intimidated to take the reins...I have been hurt, used, ***, blown-off by men. This will obviously affect how I view men and love, but I am still open and hopeful that there is a man that is mature and man enough to realize what a real woman is and has to offer.I have many wonderful qualities, but I am not perfect (though this will be deleted forever, evidence destroyed, if I DO find someone--so you can never use my words against me) :)As I said above, I have a son. He is my world and takes up a lot of time. So, if that scares you, then I'm not right for you. I was never married to his father (less drama, I think). I'm not looking for a daddy for him. But, the man that I get involved with will have to be open to loving my son and taking care of him in a fatherly way, since he lives with me most of the time. There's no point in starting something with you if you already know you are done raising your kids or couldn't help love and raise another man's child. I AM looking to get married one day if I meet the right guy and I am his right girl. I am also open to having more children, if its possible.So, if you've read all this and think I am cute and have enough of what you are looking for and you think you have what I am looking for, please write to me. I look forward to hearing from you. Just NOT a movie, or anyhwhere else where we have to be quiet, or its too loud to talk...the point is to get to know each other, right?

  • Deloris

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    OK I'M GONNA START OF BY SAYING THIS...I AM SELF CONFIDENT, INTELLIGENT AND COMPLETELY AND UTTERLY COMFORTABLE WITH HOW I LOOK....IF YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED, THATS FINE BUT *** WASTING YOUR TIME AND MINE BY MESSAGING ME AND TELLING ME HOW YOU DISAPPROVE OF ME AND MY PICS JUST CLICK OFF MY PAGE...NO BIG DEAL. IM NOT HERE TO CHANGE MYSELF TO FIT YOU'RE LIKING. IM ME....TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT. THERE ARE PLENTY OF REPULSIVE, NARCISSISTIC MEN ON HERE BUT SINCE I HAVE A LIFE I DONT FEEL THE NEED TO WASTE MY TIME TO MESSAGE SOMEONE IM CLEARLY NOT INTERESTED IN...CALL ME CRAZY BUT I HAVE BETTER THINGS TO DO. I DO HOWEVER FEEL FOR THESE 'MEN' SINCE THEU OBVIOUSLY HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM....NORMAL HAPPY PEOPLE DONT GO LOOKING TO INSULT PEOPLE THAT DONT KNOW..I'M BASICALLY ON HERE JUST LOOKING TO SEE WHATS OUT HERE. I'M SINGLE WITH 2 KIDS. I'M NOT REALLY LOOKING FOR ANYTHING SERIOUS. I'M BASICALLY LOOKING TO MEET NEW PEOPLE AND MAKE NEW FRIENDS. IF YOU WANT TO KNOW ANYTHING MORE JUST ASK.....NOT TO SOUND RACIST BUT I DATE WHITEANDAND PUERTO RICAN AND NO I'M NOT WILLING TO CHANGBUYVYHCTE THAT....AND YES I HAVE CLEAVAGE IN MOST OF MY PICS BUT I AM NOT....REPEAT I AM NOT HERE LOOKING FOR JUST SEX....I AM A NICE GIRL AND ALTHO I LIKE SEX ALOT I WOULD LOVE TO GET TO KNOW A GOOD MAN TO SPEND TIME WITH ENJOYING ALL SORTS OFOF FUN TIME TOGETHER .....THE POINT ISIS IM NOT HERE TO BE USED FOR WHATEVER REASON. IF WE CANT DATE AND DO OTHER THINGS BESIDES JUST SEX THEN DO NOT BOTHER WASTING UR TIME OR MINE BY MESSAGING ME!!!!!

  • Melonie

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Hello! I moved to the States in ***. I like it so much here that I haven't left.I love to go to the concerts, I like outdoors, traveling, fitness, running, skiing, hiking, movies, wineries/tastings, F-1 races. My taste in music is easygoing. I like everything from coutry to reggae but no techno pls. I enjoy a good bottle of red and cheese and crackers. I never say no for Tiramisu. I do try to control my sweet tooth but Tiramisu is beyond that. ;-)I am a heartful. I am honest, trustworthy, outgoing, funny, adventurous, giving, loyal, independent. I love life and love to laugh. I dream big. I got the loudest laugh in neighborhood so be aware and don't get scared. I have my Lucy moments but they only will make a day brighter in their own way. My goal in life is to be true to myself all the way to the end. To be happy no matter what happens and bring happiness to other's lives as well. I am also back in school for nursing. It will take couple of years but will be very awarding after I graduate.Shoot me a message. Looking forward to hear from you. Peace.

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