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Charlette, 40

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About Me

I am a 40 year old professional who loves animals and music. I am a very honest, considerate, genuine, silly woman who loves to laugh. I have been told time and again that I am very easy to talk to and I make people feel very comfortable. I was once described to have a "professional demeanor with an engaging personality". I liked that! :) I am looking for a relaxed, genuine man who can be honest with me and with himself. I have my own interests and like for my guy to have his own also. If you don't care for kids, then we probably won't get along because I am very much a kid at heart. I love to play! I really would like to meet an open minded, optimistic man. we need to lift one another up. :) I am open to trying new things with someone kind who is willing to lead the way. I do not need to be with a man ***but am loyal when we are apart. I expect the same.I would really like a man who thinks of ME as well as others and not just himself. I really pay attention to manners as I feel I am very mannerly and considerate. I like a versatile guy, a man who can adapt in different scenarios. I am a very understanding and realistic person who does not judge and would like a man who is the same.We cannot all be right for each other and we all deserve to have what truly brings us joy. After getting to know each other and one or both of us realize the genuine desire for a romantic relationship is not there then it needs to be said (and yes I know this can happen after the first meeting). I'm still not sure why so many people just "disappear". You can tell someone that they aren't really the right fit for you without being cruel. Heck, we have text messaging. It doesn't get any easier than that! You don't even have to speak the words. Geeeeez, MAN UP already. I am happy with who I am and know I have a lot to offer the right man but am content being alone with my pets, my friends and my family until I find "the one" who excites me. It's hard to describe who we are and what we want with words, ACTIONS tell all (I guess this is where the disappearing guys get off on a technicality, lol). I'm really not that complicated. If you would like to learn more please message me. P.S. A nice set of teeth and one who smiles is a big thing for me! Also, if you are a little cluttered or untidy that's ok but I am a bit of organized gal so if we spend much time together I might start alphabetizing your canned goods and color coding your t-shirts. Can you handle it? ;-) Are you scared now? lol. Good Luck out there! Something simple where we can just chat and see if we have a connection of any kind.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Let me start by saying I prefer dark men, I'll I give anyone a chance, but prefer African American men. I love to work out I participate in the sport of crossfit & I love it & want someone open to becoming my 'swolemate' lol. If you don't work out I'm ok with that as long as you do something to stay healthy. 2 of my kids, my sister & niece also crossfit, so its a family thing. I can talk about crossfit all day so you may have to learn to love it too or learn to passively listen :) I am very family oriented, my parents are still a huge part of my life. I tend to be quite sarcastic which I get from my father, you'd have to learn to tell the difference between my sarcasm and me being serious or you may get your feelings hurt.I love all types of music but prefer rap n hip hop overall. I wouldn't mind going to see local bands to expand my horizons.So what I am looking for is an honest, funny, polite, quirky, smart,all around nice MAN. If you still talk to all of your ex's, I'm not interested, if you keep your phone constantly hidden and locked, I'm not interested, if you are not happy with yourself and still let the way others percieve you bother you, I'm not interested.; part of a normal family so they fight sometimes, I do have to repeat myself, but the wonderful fun loving times definitely outweigh the headaches. We also love the Lord so please if you're not a man of faith, I'm not interested. Well thanks for reading my novel, just trying to be honest and not waste anyones time. Anywhere we can talk and get to know each other

  • Mika

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Well, I am a single woman that just hasn't been able to find a genuine man. I work alot to keep myself busy cause I really don't have any friends that I associate with to hang out with. So i am looking for a man that I can enjoy time with. I like country, r&b, some rap and easy listening music. I am easy to get along with, out going and likes to just be with someone that i can talk to and come home to when it makes it that time in the relationship. I would like to keep setting goals in life and acheiving them one step at a time. I am that one person that people like to be around and you know looks aren't everything. its whats inside thsts makes you want to be with that person. So don't be afraid to send a message, if you have read all the way to here then why not send me a message, you know you want to...:)"Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. "~ Dr. Seuss Possibly a place to just sit down to get to know each other....:}

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