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Harlow, 39

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About Me

I have been single by choice for a long time, but I'm feeling like my life is due for a change. I turned 39 recently and I am going to LIVE this 39th year. I'm ready... I'm ready for YOU! Well, assuming we would actually work as a couple. Few things about me:- I'm not needy. So if you want someone to need you in their life, well search on and godspeed. - I hate to be *** it. If you don't want to hang out with me again, then man up and say so. *** juvenile. (On that note - I don't react like a crazy b!tch when you choose to move on and just tell me flat out. Sure, I may feel sad if I really liked you, but I'm not going to drive past your house and / or stalk you on *** am financially independent, but I'm not wealthy. So if you offer to pay, I'd let you. But I don't expect it.- I'm sometimes a work-a-holic. I love what I do and here and there it consumes me. I'm sorry for that.- I'm spontaneous with restrictions. If you ask on Wednesday if I want to go away this weekend, I will probably say yes. If I've already taken off my skirt and curled up under a blanket, I probably won't want to go out tonight. - I believe in God, and I want you to believe in God. Don't just say you do - I've been down that road and it's too difficult to support lengthy travel.- I am sarcastic and sometimes too strong.- I am not girly - if you want a girl in high heels, I'm probably not for you. I wear them here and there, but I much prefer my birkenstocks.- Yes, I am hippie-ajacent. - I like PEACE. Everyone says they hate drama, but time after time, I'm pushed aside for the psycho chick that brings nothing but drama. I sincerely hate drama, I have enough work-related stress, when I talk to or spend time with you, I want it to be chill and easy. - I am not skinny. That doesn't mean I'm the fat chick that will do anything to get a man. I have superior familial relationships and a solid, supportive network of friends. I am good at what I do, and I like who I am. So don't step up to me thinking you can push me around b/c I'm a little bit chubby. I'm tougher than my height and size implies.I like: ***my second home -- festivals- touristy things- dancing in my living room / kitchen- reading- et. al. I like alternative looking people, people that aren't scared to be different, but aren't trying too hard to be so. *** you find me interesting, are adept at using spell check, and comment on something I've said and you'll probably get a response. If you're happy with meeting and NOT talking on the phone first, you get added points. Because I keep track... but then I will probably lose the point tally. Oh yeah - maybe if you have a job, a brain, a secure place to live, and a car... that would be good. I reserve the right to *** *** if I'm not attracted to you, I may tell you that as well. Half ass profiles aren't interesting either, so I may never find out how fascinating you are unless you complete it.Just be you, without apology. I’ll do the same. I think saying what you'd do on your first date is kind of lame, considering every person is different. So if I say go out for drinks, and you don't drink... well that'd be a silly first date, wouldn't it? So we'll talk about it and figure out a first date together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am a single mom looking for the right one. I have a daughter who is my everything. I am looking for the one who will take the whole package. I don't have time for games so if you are in it for one thing and games please don't message. I am over man telling me they want a relationship and then after awhile you find out they don't really have time for one. I want to build a relationship with someone so if you are not ready to do that please don't message me. I am a fun loving person. I like to have fun. I like to go to dinner and hang out downtown, movies etc. I go to church and I love my church. I do not want to write to much so we can have some conversation. I am not interested in anyone who is not for real. just go on one with me.

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I'm a professional bartender. I'm also an artist. mixed media painting sculpture photography music. I enjoy the outdoors. I also enjoy the comfort of my bed at 10 pillows. I live with 5 other people. our house is very chill and centrally located. I love to cook an experiment with food in the kitchen. I love to go out and eat sushi... sake. I like to supporting all the local franchises small busines... riding my bicycle in the neighborhood hitting up bars and restaurants. definitely hang out in a not crowded location so we can talk. go for a walk... get a Slurpee.

  • Sheryl

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm hardworking, have a a stable job that I've been at for almost 22 years. I own my home thanks to that job and love doing projects around the house from landscaping to redecorating. I mow my own grass and have been known to change a light bulb or two. I love to have a good time and laugh. I make the best out of any situation and try to make everything I do fun. I'm a little quite at first, taking in surroundings and the people, but then watch out. I enjoy good conversation, love to debate, need things to be logical and believe it or not I can admit when I'm wrong. I love trying anything (well almost anything) at least once. My latest adventure is looking to take on a 5k this Oct. I prefer listening to music over t.v, but have been know to sit back, be lazy and watch some t.v or a movie.I'm hoping to find someone who loves to laugh, doesn't take life or himself to seriously, and can have a good time in any situation. He takes care of his responsibilities and is willing to lend a hand when the need arises. Looking forward to making new friends and finding someone special to be in my life. Drop me a line and lets see what happens :) We can determine that, if and when we get there.

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