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Harlow, 39

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About Me

I have been single by choice for a long time, but I'm feeling like my life is due for a change. I turned 39 recently and I am going to LIVE this 39th year. I'm ready... I'm ready for YOU! Well, assuming we would actually work as a couple. Few things about me:- I'm not needy. So if you want someone to need you in their life, well search on and godspeed. - I hate to be *** it. If you don't want to hang out with me again, then man up and say so. *** juvenile. (On that note - I don't react like a crazy b!tch when you choose to move on and just tell me flat out. Sure, I may feel sad if I really liked you, but I'm not going to drive past your house and / or stalk you on *** am financially independent, but I'm not wealthy. So if you offer to pay, I'd let you. But I don't expect it.- I'm sometimes a work-a-holic. I love what I do and here and there it consumes me. I'm sorry for that.- I'm spontaneous with restrictions. If you ask on Wednesday if I want to go away this weekend, I will probably say yes. If I've already taken off my skirt and curled up under a blanket, I probably won't want to go out tonight. - I believe in God, and I want you to believe in God. Don't just say you do - I've been down that road and it's too difficult to support lengthy travel.- I am sarcastic and sometimes too strong.- I am not girly - if you want a girl in high heels, I'm probably not for you. I wear them here and there, but I much prefer my birkenstocks.- Yes, I am hippie-ajacent. - I like PEACE. Everyone says they hate drama, but time after time, I'm pushed aside for the psycho chick that brings nothing but drama. I sincerely hate drama, I have enough work-related stress, when I talk to or spend time with you, I want it to be chill and easy. - I am not skinny. That doesn't mean I'm the fat chick that will do anything to get a man. I have superior familial relationships and a solid, supportive network of friends. I am good at what I do, and I like who I am. So don't step up to me thinking you can push me around b/c I'm a little bit chubby. I'm tougher than my height and size implies.I like: ***my second home -- festivals- touristy things- dancing in my living room / kitchen- reading- et. al. I like alternative looking people, people that aren't scared to be different, but aren't trying too hard to be so. *** you find me interesting, are adept at using spell check, and comment on something I've said and you'll probably get a response. If you're happy with meeting and NOT talking on the phone first, you get added points. Because I keep track... but then I will probably lose the point tally. Oh yeah - maybe if you have a job, a brain, a secure place to live, and a car... that would be good. I reserve the right to *** *** if I'm not attracted to you, I may tell you that as well. Half ass profiles aren't interesting either, so I may never find out how fascinating you are unless you complete it.Just be you, without apology. I’ll do the same. I think saying what you'd do on your first date is kind of lame, considering every person is different. So if I say go out for drinks, and you don't drink... well that'd be a silly first date, wouldn't it? So we'll talk about it and figure out a first date together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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