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Harlow, 39

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About Me

I have been single by choice for a long time, but I'm feeling like my life is due for a change. I turned 39 recently and I am going to LIVE this 39th year. I'm ready... I'm ready for YOU! Well, assuming we would actually work as a couple. Few things about me:- I'm not needy. So if you want someone to need you in their life, well search on and godspeed. - I hate to be *** it. If you don't want to hang out with me again, then man up and say so. *** juvenile. (On that note - I don't react like a crazy b!tch when you choose to move on and just tell me flat out. Sure, I may feel sad if I really liked you, but I'm not going to drive past your house and / or stalk you on *** am financially independent, but I'm not wealthy. So if you offer to pay, I'd let you. But I don't expect it.- I'm sometimes a work-a-holic. I love what I do and here and there it consumes me. I'm sorry for that.- I'm spontaneous with restrictions. If you ask on Wednesday if I want to go away this weekend, I will probably say yes. If I've already taken off my skirt and curled up under a blanket, I probably won't want to go out tonight. - I believe in God, and I want you to believe in God. Don't just say you do - I've been down that road and it's too difficult to support lengthy travel.- I am sarcastic and sometimes too strong.- I am not girly - if you want a girl in high heels, I'm probably not for you. I wear them here and there, but I much prefer my birkenstocks.- Yes, I am hippie-ajacent. - I like PEACE. Everyone says they hate drama, but time after time, I'm pushed aside for the psycho chick that brings nothing but drama. I sincerely hate drama, I have enough work-related stress, when I talk to or spend time with you, I want it to be chill and easy. - I am not skinny. That doesn't mean I'm the fat chick that will do anything to get a man. I have superior familial relationships and a solid, supportive network of friends. I am good at what I do, and I like who I am. So don't step up to me thinking you can push me around b/c I'm a little bit chubby. I'm tougher than my height and size implies.I like: ***my second home -- festivals- touristy things- dancing in my living room / kitchen- reading- et. al. I like alternative looking people, people that aren't scared to be different, but aren't trying too hard to be so. *** you find me interesting, are adept at using spell check, and comment on something I've said and you'll probably get a response. If you're happy with meeting and NOT talking on the phone first, you get added points. Because I keep track... but then I will probably lose the point tally. Oh yeah - maybe if you have a job, a brain, a secure place to live, and a car... that would be good. I reserve the right to *** *** if I'm not attracted to you, I may tell you that as well. Half ass profiles aren't interesting either, so I may never find out how fascinating you are unless you complete it.Just be you, without apology. I’ll do the same. I think saying what you'd do on your first date is kind of lame, considering every person is different. So if I say go out for drinks, and you don't drink... well that'd be a silly first date, wouldn't it? So we'll talk about it and figure out a first date together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    !!!My goals are takin care of my 2 boys 12 & 16 yr old my boys are my life if u dont like kids u wont like me because they are my life and my duty in life is to keep them happy!!!I am real calm person dont like drama at all! I have positive outlook on life!My taste in music is mosty R/B some country just depends.Basically just missing that special man to make my life complete! My ideal 1st date is just get to go out to movies or maybe dinner and just see if we have anything in common. Just be treated like a lady I guess,

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I'm looking for someone who knows how to have fun WITHOUT drinking! Sounds easy, right? Seems to me everybody drinks. I am a busy mom who owns a small business. I go to church 3 times a week, I'm a member of The Church of Christ. I like to camp, amusement parks, bike rides, and just to hang out at home. Any questions just ask, I'm a very open person!

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    a *** me: I am a social worker for the state. I work Monday through Friday. evenings and weekends are mine :-). I want to meet and get to know someone truly awesome! I am faithful and loving. I am not looking for a one night stand nor am I in a rush to "get hitched". I have a house, car and I love my job. I am happy and Goofy and love to laugh. My geeky side loves civil war history. I value intelligence and meaningful conversation. I have 3 beautiful children who mean the world to me. I have the greatest friends and family! being healthy is important! I like to work out on my elliptical or hike. My interests are varied and vast. I usually find common ground with anyone. I can usually feel comfortable in most situations and talk with anyone.I Really do listen to almost all types of music. Country and pink are my favorite! I do think I sing just as good as they do when i am in my car by myself! I love camping and being out doors. I am becoming quite domesticated and knowledgeable completing projects around my house.Hope to hear from you soon!

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