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Harlow, 39

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About Me

I have been single by choice for a long time, but I'm feeling like my life is due for a change. I turned 39 recently and I am going to LIVE this 39th year. I'm ready... I'm ready for YOU! Well, assuming we would actually work as a couple. Few things about me:- I'm not needy. So if you want someone to need you in their life, well search on and godspeed. - I hate to be *** it. If you don't want to hang out with me again, then man up and say so. *** juvenile. (On that note - I don't react like a crazy b!tch when you choose to move on and just tell me flat out. Sure, I may feel sad if I really liked you, but I'm not going to drive past your house and / or stalk you on *** am financially independent, but I'm not wealthy. So if you offer to pay, I'd let you. But I don't expect it.- I'm sometimes a work-a-holic. I love what I do and here and there it consumes me. I'm sorry for that.- I'm spontaneous with restrictions. If you ask on Wednesday if I want to go away this weekend, I will probably say yes. If I've already taken off my skirt and curled up under a blanket, I probably won't want to go out tonight. - I believe in God, and I want you to believe in God. Don't just say you do - I've been down that road and it's too difficult to support lengthy travel.- I am sarcastic and sometimes too strong.- I am not girly - if you want a girl in high heels, I'm probably not for you. I wear them here and there, but I much prefer my birkenstocks.- Yes, I am hippie-ajacent. - I like PEACE. Everyone says they hate drama, but time after time, I'm pushed aside for the psycho chick that brings nothing but drama. I sincerely hate drama, I have enough work-related stress, when I talk to or spend time with you, I want it to be chill and easy. - I am not skinny. That doesn't mean I'm the fat chick that will do anything to get a man. I have superior familial relationships and a solid, supportive network of friends. I am good at what I do, and I like who I am. So don't step up to me thinking you can push me around b/c I'm a little bit chubby. I'm tougher than my height and size implies.I like: ***my second home -- festivals- touristy things- dancing in my living room / kitchen- reading- et. al. I like alternative looking people, people that aren't scared to be different, but aren't trying too hard to be so. *** you find me interesting, are adept at using spell check, and comment on something I've said and you'll probably get a response. If you're happy with meeting and NOT talking on the phone first, you get added points. Because I keep track... but then I will probably lose the point tally. Oh yeah - maybe if you have a job, a brain, a secure place to live, and a car... that would be good. I reserve the right to *** *** if I'm not attracted to you, I may tell you that as well. Half ass profiles aren't interesting either, so I may never find out how fascinating you are unless you complete it.Just be you, without apology. I’ll do the same. I think saying what you'd do on your first date is kind of lame, considering every person is different. So if I say go out for drinks, and you don't drink... well that'd be a silly first date, wouldn't it? So we'll talk about it and figure out a first date together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am at a point in my life where I know what I want. I know what I can and can't live with. I am a very giving, caring and loyal person and am looking for a person to share things with. I just finished my master's degree while being a single mom of three kids and working full time. I'm not needy but do enjoy the company and affection of a significant other. I love to hang with my friends with or without our kids. Love to grill in the summer and sit out on my deck and enjoy the weather. Love to camp and float in the summer time and sit infront of a bonfire in the fall/winter. I like to shoot pool though I'm not any good. Love to dance and go out once in awhile. I'm up to try new things, there's alot in life I haven't done while being a single mom and finishing school. I love music it is huge for me. Listen to a little bit of everything, except classical. I guess we'll see how this goes. PLEASE DO NOT SEND ME UN INVITED PICS!!!! Not sure what type of women that works on, but I'm NOT one of them!!! Also I am not looking for a hookup so please don't waste my time. Guys with pictures making kissy lips/duck faces need not contact me either women look stupid doing it you can't imagine how ridiculious men looking doing it!!!!!I do have 7 tattoos and my nose pierced all of them are coverable but if you have a problem with that then we won't work. Anything that allows for good conversation.......

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Just looking more or less for friends and someone to do things with. If anything comes of it well cross that road when we get there

  • Shaun

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Looking for someone to compliment my own personality and lifestyle... Sing in the car just because and love anything with melted cheese..come on who doesn't love cheese and football? Be comfortable being yourself because doesn't matter who you are with just that they are positive and like trying new things. If there is a connection great and if we just turn out to be friends also great! Calling it first date makes it sound formal and/or interview. However in order to know if chemistry need to meet in person so best first date would be roller skating, concert, sporting event, bouncy house or arcade. I love skee ball be fun to see if I could still play while on roller skates and chewing gum.

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