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Shelba, 36

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About Me

I am not interested in finding just any guy....interested in finding the right guy. I think men and women should complement each other. Myself – Passionate but grounded, analytical, and opinionated. I am not offended by a dirty joke and can dish out one of my own. I am independent but far from being a feminist. Sarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on. I am witty, have a wicked sense of humor, loyal and fun...and it would NEVER be boring. To put it in a TV perspective...I will say I am a mixture of Phil Dunphy (See Modern Family), Ron Swanson (Parks & Rec) & Monica Geller (Friends)...with a dash of Jess (New Girl). So yeah pretty much AWESOME!! Here is what I seek in a nutshell - I am looking for somebody who’s gonna respect you enough to go through the day-to-day bullsh*t and be honest with me....that to me is REAL ROMANCE. I enjoy cooking/baking music and concerts, checking out the local neighborhood dive bar, my dogs, traveling....I do like art and going to the theatre (but its OK if you don't...I realize its not for everyone). Love sports....especially baseball...Cardinals Baseball...Football (College and Pro) and Nascar....I know it gets a bad rap but I grew up around race cars and it is in my blood. I am always up for a fun adventure. I LOVE taking weekend road trips to random places... Urban Decay Photography is my new passion...currently looking into getting a proper camera. Wow...it seems like everyone on these dating sites is really, really busy on vacation, working out, running ***k's or partaking in extreme sports. Who has time to date?!? I better get busy training for that Iron Man. Also, if this site is a good *** what is happening in this world...there should be no obesity epidemic...You - Should be cute, kind, dog lover, hilarious, ambitious...I am going to stop here...why put limits on myself or people>What’s your story? What are you greatest pet-peeves and what makes you weak in your knees from joy and happiness. I think this really depends on the person...A great date really depends more on the company than the place.Note..a first date does not mean cuddling with you, showering with you, napping with you or the like. That also means I probably don't want to see photos of your junk...so keep it classy and in your pants. Also, if you are going to ask to borrow $40...probably best to not be dating...period. :) So sad I have to even list these...yes, these situations really happened.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am a single mom of 4 children, only 3 of them live with me. I love spending time with my kids, and keep very busy between their activities and work. I am lucky that I am a nurse, so I only have to work 3 shifts a week and my schedule is fairly flexible. It allows me to have time for my kids and also time for myself. I enjoy simple things: a walk in the park, going to the zoo, science center, six flags, float trips. A quiet night at home with family and friends is great too. I also enjoy a night out dancing on occasion. I would love to find someone to share my life with, who can accept my children as his own since they are with me full time. I am looking for someone who is honest, caring, who understands that my children's happiness means the world to me, and knows that a relationship takes communication and nurturing to last.

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    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    .lol) where I am originally from (yes, I have the accent! ; I hope to meet someone who can show me around up here. For example, I've never been to a winery. Most importantly, I am blessed to be the Mom of a beautiful little girl. Her Dad and I realized we're better friends than we were husband and wife. We divorced in April of 09'. He is remarried and the Army has him stationed in Tx. We get along for our daughter's sake as we should, so I have no drama. ;)I'm down to earth, loyal, and a good listener. I tend to be everybodies psychiatrist, too! :) I am a good friend to all who know me. If you wanna know just ask, because I'm an open book.I have closed one chapter of my life and I'm looking forward to starting the rest of the story not just the next chapter. I would just like to meet someone with similar values and interests who the sparks fly with! I wanna start with friends and go from there. Thanks for your attention!HAPPY FISHING!! ;)Note: I am not here looking for a fling!!! If all you are wanting is sex, keep on fishing!!! I am more than what is between my legs and on my chest, so if you're not willing to find that out, then I am definently not interested!!Also, I'm not prejudice by no means, but I am not interested in dating outside of my race. Dinner and a stroll in the park or maybe a drive just so we could talk and get to know each other, but I'd like for us to chat or text first not go straight to meeting. ;)

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