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Voncile, 39
United States, Colorado, Brighton

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About Me

I am forthright, confident and independent. However, I strongly believe in the old-fashioned ways in that the man is head of household, ultimately. But, I also believe that in a relationship or marriage, each can wear one leg of those "pants" on a day-to-day basis. I WANT a man that will lead me! But doesn't mean I NEED for him to lead me; nor do I have the personality of "the quiet little woman"! A strong man will find this endearing; a passive and insecure man will find this intimidating. If you didn't just chuckle a lil bit, then I don't think we would connect. :-) I am a very warm, young-at-heart, well-mannered, mild tempered and patient woman. I AM that girl! ;) Things that are import to me: passion, chemistry, personal growth, my faith, making an impact in children’s lives, being a fantastic and active mom, volunteering (mainly where young women, children, infants or new life are involved), making the man in my life feel like a king, taking his breath away, freedom to be me, laughter, intimacy, friends and family, recognizing answered prayers or blessings and thanking GOD for them regularly, raising my kids to know HIS unconditional I enjoy taking care of myself (and expect the same in the one I'm with). I don't stress much. I have been described as witty, corny, thoughtful, sharp, perceptive, intuitive, fun, youthful, active and my most flattering compliment here lately, REAL! I’m not a giddy or fake kind of woman. I can dress in dresses or skirts and heels, but much prefer my jeans and a pair of wedges or boots. I’m not afraid to be me and thoroughly enjoy who “me” is.. lol.. Most people do!What I would hope to find, someone who: (are you still reading) enjoys making others laugh or can be silly and laugh at themself, respects me, is a tad old-fashioned and who still believes in chivalry, that enjoys my silly attention, doesn't get uncomfortable in moments of silence, can’t keep their hands off me (when in a relationship), is easy going and doesn’t stress about matters that you can’t change, loves to kiss, is confident, is assertive, only likes to cuddle for the first few minutes (lol), isn’t lazy, is generally peaceful and not judgmental of others. Later...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Rea from Brighton | Woman | 39 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I beleive life is way to short to have anyone negative in your life. I try to do things right inn my life (no im not perfect) cause karma can be harsh. I've learned not to hold grudges but to walk away. I try to treat people the way I want to be treated. To get respect you must give it. Im looking for someone to hang out and have fun with to see where things go. If it turns out to be more then thats great and if not thats ok too. I wont force a situation to be something its not. Once i commit to a relationship then im with you, not you and every other man. I expect the same, loyalty. I also will not deal with drama, control issues, trust issues, and someone who is self absorbed. Communication is a must. Im a good person with a big heart ,down to earth and will do what I can for someone.,but as soon as i get disrespected im done. To meet for lunch or dinner to see if there is an attraction or any chemistry and go from there.

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  • Pearlene from Brighton | Woman | 40 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am looking for the one who can truly appreciate me for who I am. Someone who is willing to put forth the effort and take time to get to know me.I am attracted to men who are take charge, leader types. Head of household. Protector and provider.If you are the type to wait for me to make all the plans, please do not hold your breath. I would feel bad when you turn blue and pass out. ;-) I will tell you what I like and when I can be available but feel you should take control and make the plans for us.I find it very frustrating to be with a man who can't make decisions.My 2 youngest boys ***& ***still live with me but see their father regularly.I have been single/divorced since Dec ***. I am ready to be in a loving relationship that will lead to marriage.** Everyone has their preference or type they are attracted to and I prefer men of color. I am attracted to men who are taller than me and older than me.** Yes, I do look like my pictures. :-)

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  • Marie from Brighton | Woman | 36 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I’m your average all American girl. I’m responsible, opinionated, hard headed, hard working, watch the news. Ok, that sounds a little boring, so I better include confident, smart, fun, silly, trustworthy, loyal, kind hearted, out going, with a great attitude on life, and always have a spare smile in my back pocket.I like to be out and about, and just enjoying what the day and or night brings. BBQing with friends and family, camping, catching a local concert,(I like pretty much all music from metal to classic rock to country to hip hop) Taking a motorcycle ride, or maybe getting a new tattoo? I'm looking for someone to laugh with, hang out with, be spontaneous with, and have fun with! someone who enjoys what they do for a living. One that has lived alone before. Is health conscious, can keep me on my toes and not afraid to rub them at night. That can keep my mind busy, but at ease. Someone that can keep my body flustered when away, and even more flustered when with me. I want to build a life time of silly memories with him. However, I do know that all great things come with time, and don’t expect this to all to happen over night. Start with something causal like coffee or drinks. Play it by ear,and go from there.

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