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Voncile, 39

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About Me

I am forthright, confident and independent. However, I strongly believe in the old-fashioned ways in that the man is head of household, ultimately. But, I also believe that in a relationship or marriage, each can wear one leg of those "pants" on a day-to-day basis. I WANT a man that will lead me! But doesn't mean I NEED for him to lead me; nor do I have the personality of "the quiet little woman"! A strong man will find this endearing; a passive and insecure man will find this intimidating. If you didn't just chuckle a lil bit, then I don't think we would connect. :-) I am a very warm, young-at-heart, well-mannered, mild tempered and patient woman. I AM that girl! ;) Things that are import to me: passion, chemistry, personal growth, my faith, making an impact in children’s lives, being a fantastic and active mom, volunteering (mainly where young women, children, infants or new life are involved), making the man in my life feel like a king, taking his breath away, freedom to be me, laughter, intimacy, friends and family, recognizing answered prayers or blessings and thanking GOD for them regularly, raising my kids to know HIS unconditional I enjoy taking care of myself (and expect the same in the one I'm with). I don't stress much. I have been described as witty, corny, thoughtful, sharp, perceptive, intuitive, fun, youthful, active and my most flattering compliment here lately, REAL! I’m not a giddy or fake kind of woman. I can dress in dresses or skirts and heels, but much prefer my jeans and a pair of wedges or boots. I’m not afraid to be me and thoroughly enjoy who “me” is.. lol.. Most people do!What I would hope to find, someone who: (are you still reading) enjoys making others laugh or can be silly and laugh at themself, respects me, is a tad old-fashioned and who still believes in chivalry, that enjoys my silly attention, doesn't get uncomfortable in moments of silence, can’t keep their hands off me (when in a relationship), is easy going and doesn’t stress about matters that you can’t change, loves to kiss, is confident, is assertive, only likes to cuddle for the first few minutes (lol), isn’t lazy, is generally peaceful and not judgmental of others. Later...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cassy

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    First thing's first - I have six kids. Yes, 6. My oldest is over 18, so I have five at home (2 teenagers, 3 littles). I understand that is a lot of kids, but I'm not looking for a daddy for them. If that scares you off or is too much for you to handle, that's awesome, thank you for reading my profile. They are the light of my life and keep me very busy. I would say they are my greatest accomplishment as they're pretty damn awesome.Now that I've gotten that out of the way... Looking for someone that appreciates honesty, loyalty and sarcasm. I'm too old for drama or crazies. I'm one of the sweetest, most down to earth people you'll ever meet, but am also brutally honest. I can be shy at first, but once I know someone I am pretty outgoing. I may also swear like a sailor sometimes. Eff 'em if they can't take a joke. I am passionate and independent, witty and a huge smart ass. I'm very liberal and don't associate with bigots or racists. I never learned to swim and am not a huge outdoors person, although I do love the ocean. I was born on the Fourth of July, but I really couldn't care less about fireworks. I try to eat well and exercise with the kids, but I am far from being a health nut or someone that goes to the gym every day. My last two long-term relationships were with Virgos, so I'm trying to avoid dating another, but we do seem to be attracted to each other. Love a guy with tattoos and one who doesn't mind them on women. I just have a few but want many more. I love it here, especially the rain (I'd much rather have rain than snow and below-zero temps!). I love Margaritas and Mexican food. I'm pretty sure I could eat it daily but I haven't actually tried. I'm Italian and cook pretty well, too. I'm looking for normal. Someone who is caring and down to earth, open minded and funny. Someone who appreciates those qualities in their girl. Someone who thinks it's AWESOME and is amazed that I have 6 kids. I am not looking to date around and certainly not looking to just hook up. I want someone whose goal is to have a serious relationship. I'm looking for my best friend & partner in crime.

  • Jan

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    Woman. 73 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 66-73

    Visiting my son in Westminster and would enjoy socializing when here.

  • Gary

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    First of all, I'm 43, not 38. Can't change my birth data, and I'm not doing this all over again. Looking for someone who wants to date (not "hang out") and eventually have a real relationship, with all the sacrifices and benefits that come with it. Me:- Athletic, affectionate, fun loving, intense, sincere, hopeless romantic, passionate.- Strong and independent but not a feminist by a long shot.- Not looking for a provider, but a companion to share my great life with.- Loyal and expect the sameYou:- Honest, mature (regardless of how old you are), gentleman, polite, able to communicate, emotionally and financially stable (doesn’t mean you have to be rich, I’m doing just fine on my own).- Open for a long term relationship if we click.- Live in my area, otherwise this is probably not going to work.- Please be IN SHAPE - good health is very important to me- I don’t care what your ethnic background is, as long as you are IN SHAPE. I do however have a thing for tall, dark, exotic looking men. Going for a walk if it's nice outside. Otherwise we'll just figure it out.

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