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Gary, 38

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About Me

First of all, I'm 43, not 38. Can't change my birth data, and I'm not doing this all over again. Looking for someone who wants to date (not "hang out") and eventually have a real relationship, with all the sacrifices and benefits that come with it. Me:- Athletic, affectionate, fun loving, intense, sincere, hopeless romantic, passionate.- Strong and independent but not a feminist by a long shot.- Not looking for a provider, but a companion to share my great life with.- Loyal and expect the sameYou:- Honest, mature (regardless of how old you are), gentleman, polite, able to communicate, emotionally and financially stable (doesn’t mean you have to be rich, I’m doing just fine on my own).- Open for a long term relationship if we click.- Live in my area, otherwise this is probably not going to work.- Please be IN SHAPE - good health is very important to me- I don’t care what your ethnic background is, as long as you are IN SHAPE. I do however have a thing for tall, dark, exotic looking men. Going for a walk if it's nice outside. Otherwise we'll just figure it out.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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