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About Me

I am looking to start a new chapter in my life and want to find someone to share that chapter with. I'm up for pretty much anything. I like to try new things and am up for a challenge. I wear my heart on my sleeve, so if I like you, you'll know it. I'm not about games and don't like drama. If you're looking for Ms. Right Now and not willing to put in the time trying to get to know me, please don't waste our time. I am a single mom and that time is valuable. I'm looking for someone that is honest and funny. I'm pretty sarcastic so if you don't get sarcasm, I'm not your girl. If I still sound like someone you'd like to spend time with, yay! :) Something low key and casual. Grabbing a drink or dinner. I think having a good conversation and seeing if we're on the same page is what's most important.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Zariah

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Anyone want to hit up the driving range?TO CLEAR THINGS UP: I am looking for Guys AND/OR Girls. I prefer ladies who are who are slim to athletic to average body and guys who are slim to athletic to average body. I do not like guys or girls who are bigger than I am. I am bisexual and do not have a preference over male vs female when it comes to a relationship. It is about the connection I have with that person regardless of their gender. I am a very sexual being BUT that does not mean I am here just looking for a 3some or random hook ups. I am looking to make genuine connections with real people. Please do not message me asking for sex. If I want it to go there, I will bring it up.Let’s get the negatives out of the way first. RACIAL PREFERENCES - I am NOT attracted to black men/women, Hispanic/latino men, Asian men, Middle Eastern men/women. If you fall into any of those categories and you ***, I will immediately block you because I know you have not read my profile. I am not interested or attracted and you cannot make me change my mind. And if you *** about that too – I will also block you. AGE - If you are older than my youngest uncle - I am not interested. My uncle is 50. So you MUST be under 50. Also prefer that you be 21 or older - you need to be able to get into the same places I can.NO GAMES - I am far too old to play any games - unless we are in the bedroom. I am only interested in REAL, HONEST, GENUINE people who WANT to meet IN PERSON.NO FACE PHOTO = NO RESPONSE - And I want to state also that this means a CURRENT photo. I don’t want to see a photo from 4 years ago. It needs to be in the last 6 months. Everyone has cell phones with cameras these days - take one and upload it to your profile. NO DRUGS – I am not ***friendly – allergic to it. So I am not looking for someone into drug use. Everyone has tried things in their past but if you cannot go thru you day to day without taking a hit of something – then I am not the person for you. I am not looking to get involved with drug addicts. I also do not drink or smoke. It is ok if you do but not heavy users. Regular smoke bothers me and I can usually smell it on you even if it has been a few hours since you smoked. Just know when to say when to your drinking, don’t have multiple DUIs on your record, and don’t be a heavy smoker. We should get along just fine if so.Still reading? GREAT! Ok - Now the Goods!About me - Single, Never Married, No Kids (unless you count my dogs ***of them - Update: now 2 as my boy passed away on ***, All Natural Female. My free time is split between the gym (work out ***days a week and compete in 5k runs or longer at least 4 times a year.), photography of nature, stars, or whatever I can find, and storm chasing/severe weather photography.My looks - Long naturally curly red hair that I sometimes straighten. Average to Plus Size build - working on making that just an average thing with all my training though. I have curves and most are in the right places - working on the ones that aren’t. Just kind of a plan Jane girl next door Tomboy type - but I know how to get dressed up too. I am extremely open, honest, and direct. Sometimes too honest and too direct. But, I believe in having the utmost integrity in everything I do both personally and professionally. I will never hide who I am or how I feel.I am adventurous, sexual, experimental, don’t like drama, don’t play games. I have a sense of humor, am a smart ass, love sports, and love to have fun. I like people who enjoy watching the Broncos on Sunday (don't get between me and my football!) and all night Friday night fun that carries over into Saturday morning in bed (yeh you know - remember I said I was honest!). I just enjoy having fun and am down for much of anything (I do have my limits).- was interesting), or maybe staying at home in bed all day (**). Just make sure I have a smile on my face and all is good. When the smile goes away, time for something new!So what are you waiting for? Why haven't you started writing that *** yet? Oh yeh – you don’t know what I am looking for huh? Well here goes…I am looking for something different, something real, something stimulating. I want to find someone who can find that spot on the back of my neck that will make my knees go weak when they kiss it. Someone who can make me melt with certain words or phrases they say to me. I want someone to want me. I am not looking to chase you. I am looking for you to chase me. Don’t worry I am not a sprinter so I am sure you can catch me easily enough.I want someone with a positive outlook on life, who knows how to enjoy life, who can go out or stay home, who can go watch a football game or spend the morning tackling a new hike I want to try or is willing to stay up all night watching a meteor shower with me while I am taking pictures. I tend to be attracted to taller people but I am open to girls of any height and guys as long as you are taller than me –so 5’8” or taller. If you are 6’4” or over – I have a slight weakness for you. Also have a weakness for bald men for some reason. I DO WANT TO MEET PEOPLE IN PERSON. I do not believe in spending endless weeks/months on end *** other. My ultimate goal is to meet anyone I connect with on at least a platonic level in person. And I prefer to do this within the first month if possible (schedules permitting). I am open to any kind of relationship from just friends that hang out, friends with benefits, lovers, something more serious. I believe in friends first and letting things just happen after that. I do not push. What is meant to be will be. I AM NOT LOOKING FOR JUST A BOOTY CALL! I am looking for honest on-going connections with people.I know that was long – but I assure you it was worth it. Lots of time has been saved for both of us now. Right? One last quick note guys and gals: I am a girl who has self respect and expects to be respected. If you do not get that concept, you might as well move onto the next girl because we will not get along. I give what First meet is required before a first date to be honest. A meet to me is picking a mutual spot like a park, public place, a parking lot even and meeting there for about 15 minutes. I feel that in 15 minutes you know enough to know if you are interested in planning something further on at least a potential friend level (or more) or if you are not interested at all. This does not mean they have to end after 15 minutes. Its just a starting point. First date, it can be pretty casual just meeting for dinner, at a park just to chat, watching a sporting event on TV at a sports bar, or a group gathering out with friends. I like making the first meet easy on us both - and going dutch too. After that, let's get creative together. Hmm - Storm Chase maybe?? What do you say? Take a chance on me!

  • Lashon

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Hi there, thanks for taking time our of your busy day to check out my profile :) you made a good choice lol, Well Its hard to sell yourself through just a few words and a picture but a little about me mmmm well I'd like to think of myself as pretty down to earth person, I like going out experiencing new things but I also just enjoy quite nights in. I'm looking for someone who is ready to try again and isn't afraid to take a chance, someone who has a kind heart and justs wants some happiness in their life. Trust and communication are a huge part of a relationship so if you have issues with either please pass me by I'm not for you, trust is earned not a given. I'm not interested in a booty call that is not why I'm on this site, I find it hard to meet people as I'm a little shy ( don't assume I wouldn't be interested if I haven't messaged you, I'm kinda old school and find it awkward to make first contact ) and I don't get the chance to go out that often. I'm a very open and honest person, I don't feel the need to lie, I'd rather be hurt by the truth then protected by a lie. Simply what you see is what you get I don't pretend to be something I'm not, I know my faults, I know I'm not perfect and I don't expect someone else to be either. I don't believe a picture does anyone any justice but at least send something if your going to message me, as a single Mom it sends red flags up when someone is hiding themselves, no ill intention maybe but it comes off creepy, your messaging me based on a few words and a picture, why shouldn't I have a visual as well? Who knows that's the fun part :)

  • Rory

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am somewhat shy at first in new social situations but then I warm up to people very quickly. I am divorced and have an amazing teenage daughter who is my number one priority. When I find time, I like to try new experiences such as skydiving, quading, and other new adventures. I love spending time outdoors hiking, playing sand volleyball, or doing yard work (except for the summertime). Some of my other interests include eating out, house parties, working out, camping, and going to the movies. I enjoy all types of music. I also enjoy sporting events, or having a drink with friends. As a teacher, I get more time off than most so I love to take advantage of this time and travel as much as finances permit. I am looking for someone who is happy, honest, genuine, and thankful for what they have. I also want someone who works hard, and plays hard too. Someone who is fun, spontaneous, and likes to go out, yet can stay at home for a romantic dinner and a DVD. Meet for a drink usually works good for a first date.

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