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About Me

Hello. I spent my adult life traveling through 50 countries and had some interesting adventures and met some wonderful people along the way.Like most people, I can’t be defined by what I do/have done for a living. My resume is, well, strange. I’ve done things that I’; like running bars and businesses in difficult environments. I’ve done things that I loved to do in order to “give back”; like running English classes and fund-raising campaigns. I’ve done things that I never thought were possible, so that I could be challenged and grow;…and discovered that, as in life, I am not much of a distance runner. I like to use my head and my hands at work and enjoy my new career as a massage therapist but still love my creative outlet of piñata making!My bucket list, that I started 15 years ago, keeps me motivated and is constantly evolving. A few years ago I managed to cross ‘SNOWBOARD’ off my list, which promptly had me add ‘SNOWBOARD AND LIKE IT.’ Still working on that one. It was my list that brought me to stare in awe at the Taj Mahal, to jump out of a plane, and to sing Karaoke. And it was the realization that some things are better shared that spurred me to add ‘LOVE’ back onto my list. Finally.Some important things to know about me: I’m easily bored and need challenge in my life. I’m not good with groups…or Capricorns.I’m attracted to big, strong men who are witty and wise.Every day I want to better myself and try to surround myself with like-minded people. I think before going through the awkwardness of a first date talking on the phone is a good idea...and an almost obsolete art form.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Im taking a shot at this. You just never know who you may meet. I have a couple sets of friends that have met on here and thought I would give it ago. Im looking for a long term/seriuos relationship. I have worked hard to get where I am and have my career, the only thing missing is to have someone to share life with. Definitely be at the lake alot this year as well, whether on the water(seadooing/boating) or on land.(camping/bonfires)Enjoy taking in live concerts,(mainly country), golfing, seadooing & boating, 4x4ing & taking in sports events. Like someone that makes me laugh and I make others laugh...Lifes to short to be unhappy! :)I can tell you more if you message me. Simply ask, I have nothing to hide. For those of you who read my profile, MUST BE SINGLE, Im not interested in some sorts of games that you are online for, whether it be your married or seeing someone! No thank you. Also, not on here for a quick hook up, you need that go to the bar and get your piece for the evening! All first dates are different, would have to wait and see what the date would like to do as well and make a decision from there...

  • Arin

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I love being outside walking, hiking that kind of thing...outdoorsy you know I love nature. I also love to play pool - even though I suck the majority of time (my Grandfather was a pool shark), and I have also recently taken up playing Grand Theft Auto - for some laughs. I Love to watch standup comedy and when I say love it, I mean LOVE it. I guess movies aren't really a hobby of mine, although when I do watch movies I am generally drawn to really only a couple genres, typically, horror, psychological thrillers, true crime, the occasional documentary, and some comedy - definitely NOT romantic comedies. I actually have a very broad range of interests, I think there are too many to describe in a nice, succinct manner here. Okay, goals, to get a job that is at the very least, adjacent to my field of study forensic psychology. Another goal would be to find someone who more than anything cracks me up on at least a daily basis, and who is intelligent, sweet, supportive, loves animals, honest, you know the standard qualities that every chick looks for...well maybe not all chicks?? What makes me unique, I don't really know, but I have a really awesome sense of humour, and what is most impressive is my 30lb siamese cat. Oh, I have also actually managed to catch a washer on fire due to my substandard level of domestication. I love music, and generally most kinds of music, the only kind I really have a violent visceral reaction to is country, especially the ultra twangy, hardcore crap...yes, I know too far), although the hair bands of the eighties also hold a special place in my heart. The first date, I believe should be low key and chill, to go somewhere fascinating/intimate and chat, and maybe even get in some people quality people watching time.

  • Natalie

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    1) I have an awesome career that I love. I'm always looking for the next challenge. Looking for a partner with an education and a career, not just a job where he hangs out for 8 hours a day.2) I enjoy intellectual conversation, clever sarcasm, and a quick wit. l love life and need a partner who will laugh with me. He may often laugh AT me too - see point 4.3) I like to ask a lot of questions as I am naturally curious about the world around me. My mom calls this nosy.4) I am very klutzy. Rollerblading = disaster.5) I manage a football program (a volunteer position, not my career) but don't really understand the game. I have learned that the ref meant to drop that little orange thing and you shouldn't pick it up and hand it back to him no matter how polite you are.6) I love to travel and have seen many amazing places. There is a long list of places I still need to see. A partner with a passport is a must!7) The only babies I desire have 4 legs, fur, and say "woof". I have two of the cutest rescue dogs around!8) I don't care for camping, fishing, or hunting. However, a day at the beach or cottage is fine; I eat fish; and I've been to a firing range and would gladly go back. If you want to get to know more about me, please message me! Have a great day! Somewhere we both feel comfortable and are able to talk without screaming "WHHAATTT???".

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