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Caetlin
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Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 37-47
Hiya...I'm in the process of updating my profile on here as a lot has changed since I wrote this a few years back and I am not getting many responses from the type of men I'm interested in dating.To begin with, I have always been very athletic. I've played ice hockey for almost 30 years now, mostly on guys teams. I'm still currently playing and I love it. I started playing soccer 7 years ago, and have progressed to the point of being decent. I now play soccer ***times a week on men's, women's and co-ed teams and hockey once a week in a men's league. I also started running last year. I completed 12 races between 5K and 10K last year. My goal for this year is to run my first half- I had always hated running, so this has been a huge accomplishment for me.Despite my continuous participation in sports, I became heavier than I wanted to be and I have spent the past year getting into much better shape. I've lost 33 lbs in the last year thru sports, P90x and Insanity. It's been a great journey and I'm happy with my results even though I am still a few pounds away from my goal. I'm now within the appropriate BMI range for my height. The built descriptions on here are pretty generic, so if I had to describe myself, I would say I am short and curvy, with a mostly athletic build, but as is the case with most folks my age, I'm not as lean as I'd like to be. Because I have changed so much since I posted this, I am still in the process of updating my photos.I have 7 cats, you may as well know that up front. I'm not a collector, rather I worked for an animal rescue group as a foster and have adopted a few of the cats that weren't adoptable to other people. I love animals, but I don't intend to adopt any more at this point. If you have a problem with cats or that I have 7, probably best not to bother contacting me.I like to write sometimes. I used to write short stories and poetry, but haven't for a while. I love movies and music and collect both. I'd love to meet someone who likes theater, especially musicals.Now that my weight and health are under control, I'm now working on systematically organizing and changing my home. I've done some work in the past and I am looking forward to doing some additional repairs and updates. I have some great ideas once I get the time and money to start moving forward. I am not really sure what I am looking for, as I have been on my own for a while. I'm actually fine with being on my own, but like most folks, I'd like to find a guy who can share in all of the good things in life. I'm definitely open to friendship, and dating possibly. To be straight with you from the beginning, I like to take the time to chat with someone before meeting up for a date, so if you are in a hurry, I'm probably the wrong girl for you.In a guy, I am looking for a non-smoker, lite or non-drinker, and non-drug user. It's a must that you can accept the cats because I have made a commitment to care for them and it's not an option for me to give them up. It doesn't matter to me if you have kids, I've had a lot of experience caring for kids and I like them. If you're the type that can't be faithful, please don't bother contacting me. I'm looking for a partner in a relationship. I know this site has a reputation for being a hook-up site. I just want to emphasize that I am not here looking for a hook-up. If I don't find someone on here, I'm okay with that.I am employed and have worked for the same company for 10 years. I believe that speaks to my loyalty as well as my work ethic. I'm in search of a guy who can be my partner in all things.I'd love to meet a guy who's honest and straightforward and isn't afraid to be blunt, because I am the type who'll tell you things straight out.Honesty is important...and patience since I myself am not that patient. I'd just like to meet someone educated, mature, nice, and fun, who I'm attracted to and who's attracted to me..someone who makes me happy and giddy...and who feels like that around me :) I hope to find the type of guy who is passionate about the things and people that he loves and is compassionate towards others.I'm usually very busy between my sports and just trying to keep up with things around the house, so if I am not immediately available to do something, that's probably why. I hope to find a guy who can respect my other commitments and who doesn't need to smother me constantly. I think it's really important for both partners to have their own interests, friends and time and also to be able to spend time together.So if you're a good guy, nice, faithful, and willing to get to know me before trying to push me into something, then feel free to contact me...A few things that do not interest me:Guys with motorcycles...sorry, it's not my thing. If you care about it enough to post a picture of your motorcycle on here, we probably aren't a good match.Hunting - I don't mind the outdoors, and even though its not my thing for the right guy, I'd camp occasionally. But I don't like anything about hunting.Anyone who lectures me about how I should respond to messages on here. My time is valuable, and while I appreciate that you take the time to say hello, if I'm not interested (or if I am busy), I won't respond to your message. I know we're all different in how we'd like to handle messages from people that don't interest us, this is how I handle it.Guys that are much older or much younger than I am.Long Distance relationships - been there, done that, and it doesn't work, especially for a gal like me who doesn't like driving more than she has to. I like movies...always a good option... I don't know. I really am not picky.
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Marlie
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Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
I believe that old fashioned values such as chivalry, integrity and respect should still exist within the world of dating...My children are 18 and 9 and I love being a Mom very much. I feel blessed for the life I have and excited for the adventures that lie ahead!....I'm still single because I haven't found that spark! Sparks are essential to move anything forward Xoxo First meeting is great over coffee and a nice walk :)
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Janele
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Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
Would someone amazing please message me??!! It's time we meetME:I have children. They are incredibly awesome.I love music, the outdoors, dancing, cultural events, fine dining, taking risks, meeting people, learning new things etc etc :) I can be a princess on occasion, but I love to kick back and bbq, go to the lake and that sort of thing. I appreciate intelligent discussion.I am an extrovert with introvert tendencies :). Hard working, mostly sweet, often silly and possessing a very big heart, I am a sensitive free spirit. My openness and sensitivity can lead to speaking my mind at times when it may be better kept to myself if you know what I mean, but hey....nobody's perfect :)Financially stable but don't require lots of money to be happy. I am quite happy to grab ice cream and/or walk in the park. I love to chat it up with people pretty much wherever I am, most times of the day. The occasional movie is nice. I rarely watch television, with the exception of news and a select show or two that make the odd appearance. Life is just too full most days for watching tv. For those who are intrigued by astrology...this is what's being said about my 'type': PISCES - The Partner for Life (February 19 to March 20)Caring and kind. Smart. Likes to be the center of attention. Very organized. High appeal to opposite sex. Likes to have the last word. Good to find, but hard to keep. Passionate, wonderful lovers. Fun to be around. Too trusting at times and gets hurt easily. VERY caring. They always try to do the right thing and sometimes get the short end of the stick. They sometimes get used by others and get hurt because of their trusting. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good sense of humor!! Thoughtful. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet. Good friend to others but needs to be choosy on who they allow their friends to be.Anais NinYOU:normal ?passionateintelligenta good communicatorstable good sense of humoura good job which provides you with a comfortable lifementally, emotionally and spiritually healthy? Could you possibly be good looking too? The person I look forward to meeting will have some similar traits/interests as myself, as well as be positive, romantic, intelligent, energetic, outgoing, family-oriented, kind and honest. Being thoughtful and a good listener means more than I can say. A strong sense of character is soooo important. If you are a genuinely happy person already, and enjoy being around people, we'll likely click. If you like to sing and/or play some kind of *** will have the makings of a fantastic date :) I appreciate gentleman-like qualities and generosity...the kind of generosity that is not put on to impress, but is a part of a person's true character PS,So experience has taught me that I need to make the following point, although I would not have thought this needed to be said: Since I have children, you MUST be ok with the potential for them to be in your life should things go in that direction at some point. While I am in no rush to jump into something, I am no longer just casually dating to pass the time. So if you have qualms about blended families or just children in general, you should probably find someone else because, really, why waste each other's time? Please have a good sense of what you are and are not looking for. Varies...something relaxed in a public place. Possibly coffee, drinks, taking in some sort of event....but let's not have it be a super noisy event :)