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Valery, 38

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About Me

The glass is half full kind of girl. Always looking on the bright side. Looking for someone who's happy MOST of the time and loves life.I love coffee any time of the day but it's pretty much mandatory in the AM. When I have free time, if I'm not meeting up with friends then I've been known to enjoy hot tea in the evenings with either a good book or good movie to accompany me. I'm a sucker for romantic comedies and Indie films. I love seafood, sushi, and pizza. Not necessarily in that order. I prefer reading non-fiction mostly. I have a deep love for all the arts so if what we're doing involves something artsy you are pretty much guaranteed a happy girl as your date. Yes my pictures are recent (from ***and most of you always comment on how young I look. So THANK YOU! Just lucky to look a little younger than I am I guess ;-)I am a full time single mom to a sweet 7 year old. She’s an incredible little girl and will always come first. She does have a set number of weekends with her father so that is the time when I can meet new people. I will not introduce anyone to her until we have made a real connection and the relationship has progressed to a deeper level. 7 years old is just too young to understand “dating” in my opinion. I’m not flexible on this so if it’s something you can’t understand, please pass me by. In addition to owning/running my photography business I also teach a photo class once a month, and volunteer for a non-profit organization three or so days a month for a couple of years now. However I've started a new chapter and am now focused on a second degree. This doesn't mean I have put down the camera(s). What else... So just about anything outdoors. I am also taking ballet again, shh... Don't tell anyone or they'll ask me to do a pirouette for them ;-) I love all kinds of music and all kinds of places to see live bands. I love weekend getaways and try to travel somewhere about every 6 to 8 weeks. And YES, I have my passport! The most important quality for me in another is honesty. It’s not about not telling lies. With honesty comes friendship, love, trust, respect, vulnerability, intimacy, patience, passion, and drive among others. Please pass me by if you’re not good at any of the following: Communicating, Self-Confidence, Kindness, Loyalty, Responsibilities, and Being Honorable.Thanks for taking a moment to read my profile!Jess Something as simple as coffee or a drink on a patio.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kimberely

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I'm at a point in my life where I'd like to have somebody to share my life with, and I'm ok by myself as well. Sharing my life with another isn't a need, it's a want to. It has to be the right fit - for both of us. Nobody should settle in life for less than they truly want - and we all deserve to love and to be loved. I value loyalty, honesty, integrity, and people who are true to their word. I've been told I'm a romantic and in many ways, I guess I am. A simple walk on the beach holding hands, a special dinner, flowers just because, that look that says I admire, respect and love you....I'm looking for somebody who is emotionally and mentally stable, who knows what they want and will go for it. Taking care of myself is important to me and I want somebody who does the same without having to be a fanatic about it. To be loved and cared for and to do the same for my partner is very important to me. I believe communication is one of the most important things in a relationship.I love to laugh and to make others laugh - I have a sense of humor and love to tease people and have fun.I like all sports - watching and participating - and have been an athlete my whole life.I believe you have to get to know somebody before you can make a committment, but there is also such a thing as chemistry that happens too....and that can be exciting and fun! I have two children that live with me and they are the best Gifts that God could have given me. My children are getting older now and I have more free time for myself. I would love to find a guy who is very outgoing, family Man, and just a happy person who loves life. I would love to find that special someone and hopefully develop into a strong, loving relationship. How awesome would that be?? Just want to enjoy what this World has to offer... The little things... Want to laugh more, smile more, learn more and devour life for what it is. Make more friends, make more love, and see my family more often.. Really not too much to ask for-- is it? Somewhere were we could talk, have a nice glass of wine .... :)

  • Luanna

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am very laid back and enjoy doing almost anything. I am the kind of girl who will try anything once. There is never a dull moment with me around. My friends describe as the life of the party, funny, loving, caring, and very down to earth. I love to make people laugh and have a good time. I can be angelic and devilish, depending on my mood....we live a musical sometimes...lol! I am looking for someone who is over the drama and wants to enjoy their life to the fullest. I am interested in meeting a great man and becoming friends first, then hopefully build on the friendship. My perfect mate would stimulate my mind, body and soul...in that order! I have spent my adult life taking care of other people, alot of projects, if you will. My ***new years resolution is to make time for myself and enjoy MY life to the fullest. I AM NOT looking for a new project! Anybody else that I choose to expend my time and energy on will be worthy of my time and energy. I am looking for a man who will give me back as much as I am willing to give....is that asking too much? If you are serious about a person and their feelings, you should be willing to give them 100%. Laughter is the best medicine and I am looking for a man with a great sense of humor! Sound like yourself? If so, please say hello. : ) Happy Fishing Guys...hope you catch exactly what you are looking for!A few of my favorite quotes: Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for." -Bob MarleyIts better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what your not." I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." —“All a girl really wants is for one guy to prove to her that they are not all the same.” ?“Diamonds are a girls best friend.” -- Marilyn MonroeI'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." —“Who said nights were for sleep?” --“All little girls should be told they are pretty, even if they aren't.” --“I am good, but not an angel. I do sin, but I am not the devil. I am just a small girl in a big world trying to find someone to love.” --“If you can make a girl laugh, you can make her do anything.” --“A wise girl kisses but doesn't love, listens but doesn't believe, and leaves before she is left.” --“It's better to be unhappy alone than unhappy with someone.” --“Ever notice how 'What the hell?' is always the right answer?” --“I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.” --;I generally avoid temptation unless I can't resist it" - Mae West Candlelight dinners, moonlit walks, picnics, hand holding, first kisses, snuggling on the couch with good movie and fire.

  • Brinda

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Thanks for checking out my profile. I'm not big into the bar scene; too many players looking for a good time!..we enjoy our beer), I'm just not sure I want to meet my future husband that way. I'm at the point in my life where I'm ready to begin the next chapter. I've found my dream job. I've grown into a fun, responsible, caring, interesting person and I'm ready to share my life with someone as equally fun, responsible, caring and interesting! Unfortunately, spending my days in a high school classroom doesn't provide me with the opportunity to meet many grown-ups! I want to meet someone with a job and a purpose in life, but he isn't defined by what he does for a living. Someone who'd be up for going to a sports bar, the zoo, a musical, a museum, a concert, a game (football, hockey, baseball, whatever!), or whatever else sounds fun that weekend. Someone who is polite to the waitress and a good tipper. Someone who will hand a dollar to the homeless man outside the restaurant and hold the door for a woman with her hands full of groceries. Someone who finds "Airplane" hilarious but will also watch "When Harry Met Sally" without rolling his eyes. Someone who wants to someday be a good husband and father.Are you the guy for me? If you agree with the following statements, you just might be. 1. 2.) People should NOT drive 58 mph in the far left lane. 3.) Hard core gansta rap is not the right music for a romantic evening, wedding, funeral, grandparent's birthday... 4.) NFL teams should not be able to run out the clock at the end of the fourth quarter by taking a knee. They get paid millions of dollars a year...I want to see 4 full quarters of play!

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