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Theodora, 39
United States, Arizona, Sierra Vista

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and I didn't think it would be online! I'm not so easy going; I'm stubborn and opinionated; I'm honest and loyal. I enjoy my family and friends. I'm not here to make new friends! I have plenty of guy friends! So I need someone who is secure and confident with himself. I would like to find that best friend! I'm here to meet the right person for me, who I can't wait to see after a long work day and look forward to spending my evening as well as the weekends with. I like someone who has kind eyes and a beautiful smile. Smiling often is key! I like a kind heart and a wonderful sense of humor. Joking at inappropriate times or putting someone down to make yourself feel better is not funny or humorous! Chivalry is not dead in my eyes! Mannerism are a plus! I love the beach during the summer and play co-ed softball. I workout about ***times a week. During the winter, I love skiing and hanging out by a fireplace and watching movies (romantic comedies). Autumn is for fairs and wine tastings. Spring is that wakeup call that screams warning .. bathingsuit season fast approaching! I enjoy reading, mostly romance novels.OMG! I go from ***in less than a day, so I realized that I should update the profile to include a bit more of what I'm looking for! I tend to date Italian men (being Portuguese I'd like to find someone that understands and respects European culture). He's got to at least own a suit for those special occasions. Being single and never married with no children, I'd prefer to date men that have a similiar status. I'm not looking for someone who has a 6 or 12 pack and prefers to spend a great deal of time looking into a mirror; a 2 or 4 pack is fine; however, I don't care for men who enjoy being a couch potato and look like one too! If you enjoy drinking beer, that's fine, it just doesn't need to be a sitting around the waist for nine months. (Didn't I mention I'm not easy going .. add vain too!) I have never dated and would prefer not to date men who are African American, Asian and/or Indian. I have dated and would prefer NOT to date men who like wearing hawaiian shirts, listen to Jimmy Buffet and smoke pot; those currently dating or in a relationship; those confused about his sexuality; those looking for something casual and/or a noncommital relationship (I can find those without being on this site!). If you have cheated .. Ciao! Adios! Thanks for taking the time to read .. but Good Bye and good luck! I have no tolerance for cowards. Also, if you live in a foreign country (i.e.); however, I thought that was implied when I mentioned seeing and spending time with someone on weekends and after work. I'm not interested in helping anyone get a greencard. If your photo is dated before ***, I'm thinking you have been on this site since then and/or look way different now and not remotely close to the pic! I thank those ***for your sweet comments, and even thou I have dated younger, I'd rather not date younger or way younger .. If your age indicates that you are 37 but you look 57 in your pic, I most likely will not be interested. I think that should be it for now. I'm sure that there will be more to come. Didn't think I would have to write a novel, but if this eliminates those douchebags and jerkoffs that I wouldn't give the time of day to, then so be it! Did I just take myself from 60 back to 0 ? probably! coffee aka "cawfee"; a quick drink, appetizer optional

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Dance Chinese Indian Vietnamese Documentary Drama War Western Dance To Work Out
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    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    In no way is this in any set order just a go with the flow when I feel like adding to my profile. I am comfortable being out or staying in and watching a movie. I can dress up and wear my heels or I can be a jeans and tennis shoe kinda girl (usually slippers and I'm not talking house shoes lol - extra points if you know what I'm talking about)! I do prefer a bar than a club but have those crazy nights I want to let loose. I think I have a great sense of humor and love corny! I can be very sarcastic and quick on my feet. I'm the perfect boy mom so I think our sense of humor is very close of course I believe I'm funnier than them maybe not my youngest he cracks me up. I love being adventurous and will try anything twice - once to see if I like it and second to make sure my initial decision was right. I also love to cook and grill - not sure how my boys became such picky eaters when I love most food and love to cook new recipes.I have two teenage boys 13 and 15 who keep me on my toes and try to give me dating advice scary but funnyI'm not a big fan of facial hair- scruff is cool sometimes but full beards can't do I love to kiss and facial hair can sometimes be uncomfortable on my sensitive face. My needs are minimal affection, attention, communication and respect. My wants well those are negotiable. I think people confuse there needs with their wants :) I'm not looking for someone to complete me. A relationship consists of two whole individuals. I'm looking for someone complimentary, not supplementary.I do believe that you must have chemistry physical and mentally. You have to be attracted to each other physically and then personality which will either make you more attractive or less :) with that being said you must have a picture in your profile. Also, eyes are amazing and pics with sunglasses hide them from the world. Just like men say about women please have current pictures within the last year. Let's talk age I don't mind adjusting the age requirement a few years on both sides but that's about it. I would like a man who can take control in little things like dates (hint) and decisions. I want someone else to be in control once in a while being a single mom I'm always the one (don't ask my 15 yr old he thinks he is lol). If you do something at the beginning of a relationship I get used to it so don't do things at the beginning if you don't plan on doing things all the time :***questions I ask you:Where do you see yourself in five years? (Yes that question being established myself I need to know where you see yourself)What drives you in everything you do?More to follow :) or maybe not - if you got this far thanks for reading. Once you get to know me I'm a big clown who like to have fun and good around :)Submitted from mobile I'm hoping you can take control of this part :)

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    All American Girl looking for her All American Guy. I have a fun, loving, giving personality that enjoys hanging out with friends. I am all about a guy with a sense of humor but knows when to be serious too.I will say I love a guy that is smart and can carry on a good conversation. I like sports, especially baseball and it would be great to meet someone that enjoys that as well. I also enjoy doing anything outdoors a well as dressing up to go out on the town. I'm a very positive person and would like someone that is the same. :) My greatest love is my daughter, who is a junior in college. I am looking for someone who enjoys being outdoors, likes Rangers games, grilling out with family and friends, going to sit on a patio listening to music and people watching, or just hanging around the house. If you like the beach that's a plus. :) I have to say I'm big on honesty. I give it and expect it from others and if that's not you then best of luck and please pass me by. I try to workout daily but there are days here and there I don't get it in. If you want to know more please just ask. P.S. If I look at your profile but I don't message you it doesn't mean I'm not interested it just means I'm a bit old fashion and prefer that you contact me first. :) I'm up for anything.

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

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