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Sudie, 38

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About Me

Please don't let "hopeless romantic" scare you off, they made me pick something, and I couldn't find one I liked. I hate being labeled :) They didn't have the option of girl next door. Which describes me pretty well, I think. Well, depending on your neighborhood, I suppose. I'm really not home all that much, activities and work keep me busy. However, I have a knack for finding time for other things that are important to me. I spend time with my son and friends, doing the typical things, going out to eat, movies, theme parks. I spend a lot of time with my family, I love my son, and plan on making the most of the time he will still spend with me (he's about to become a teenager, so I'm about to become the most uncool person on the planet). I don't need a partner, but would like one. I would love to find someone to go on adventures with, and most importantly share some laughs. I'm not a fan of drama in real life (tv is a whole other story - I work hard (3 jobs), but also play hard. I'm focused, detail oriented, but likes to see the big picture. I'm aware of politics but not super into them, I'm more focused on the local impact. Christian, kind, good hearted, funny (well I think so),and loves to laugh. Loves being outside, and fresh air. Old fashioned, I don't call guys until I really know them, I'm not sleeping with you until I trust you. I'm not flashy, and am shy. I'm not Barbie, and can't be bought. I see through most BS, and have a very low tolerance level. I'm a grown up with grown up responsibilities, I don't have time to play like that. What I'm looking for: a great guy. Kind, funny, confident (but not a jerk). Nice teeth (shallow yes, sorry). I really want someone that I really look forward to seeing, and talking to, and they feel the same way about me. I don't want to be a chore, nor for me to have another one.What I'm not really looking for: rude, arrogant, "I'm better than everyone else" guys. If you are proud of the fact that your a jerk, please keep moving. I don't need the attitude, and honestly, you are not that great. Any place we can talk and check each other out, but has a quick escape route. Not coffee, I get nervous enough on my own, the extra caffeine throws me over the top ;) I've had good luck at parks, free, nothing lost but time, and always something to look at. But, I'm open to anything.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Theodora

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    and I didn't think it would be online! I'm not so easy going; I'm stubborn and opinionated; I'm honest and loyal. I enjoy my family and friends. I'm not here to make new friends! I have plenty of guy friends! So I need someone who is secure and confident with himself. I would like to find that best friend! I'm here to meet the right person for me, who I can't wait to see after a long work day and look forward to spending my evening as well as the weekends with. I like someone who has kind eyes and a beautiful smile. Smiling often is key! I like a kind heart and a wonderful sense of humor. Joking at inappropriate times or putting someone down to make yourself feel better is not funny or humorous! Chivalry is not dead in my eyes! Mannerism are a plus! I love the beach during the summer and play co-ed softball. I workout about ***times a week. During the winter, I love skiing and hanging out by a fireplace and watching movies (romantic comedies). Autumn is for fairs and wine tastings. Spring is that wakeup call that screams warning .. bathingsuit season fast approaching! I enjoy reading, mostly romance novels.OMG! I go from ***in less than a day, so I realized that I should update the profile to include a bit more of what I'm looking for! I tend to date Italian men (being Portuguese I'd like to find someone that understands and respects European culture). He's got to at least own a suit for those special occasions. Being single and never married with no children, I'd prefer to date men that have a similiar status. I'm not looking for someone who has a 6 or 12 pack and prefers to spend a great deal of time looking into a mirror; a 2 or 4 pack is fine; however, I don't care for men who enjoy being a couch potato and look like one too! If you enjoy drinking beer, that's fine, it just doesn't need to be a sitting around the waist for nine months. (Didn't I mention I'm not easy going .. add vain too!) I have never dated and would prefer not to date men who are African American, Asian and/or Indian. I have dated and would prefer NOT to date men who like wearing hawaiian shirts, listen to Jimmy Buffet and smoke pot; those currently dating or in a relationship; those confused about his sexuality; those looking for something casual and/or a noncommital relationship (I can find those without being on this site!). If you have cheated .. Ciao! Adios! Thanks for taking the time to read .. but Good Bye and good luck! I have no tolerance for cowards. Also, if you live in a foreign country (i.e.); however, I thought that was implied when I mentioned seeing and spending time with someone on weekends and after work. I'm not interested in helping anyone get a greencard. If your photo is dated before ***, I'm thinking you have been on this site since then and/or look way different now and not remotely close to the pic! I thank those ***for your sweet comments, and even thou I have dated younger, I'd rather not date younger or way younger .. If your age indicates that you are 37 but you look 57 in your pic, I most likely will not be interested. I think that should be it for now. I'm sure that there will be more to come. Didn't think I would have to write a novel, but if this eliminates those douchebags and jerkoffs that I wouldn't give the time of day to, then so be it! Did I just take myself from 60 back to 0 ? probably! coffee aka "cawfee"; a quick drink, appetizer optional

  • Mead

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I'm a pretty easy going and simple girl. I have a daughter and I own my own house. I have a bachelor's degree that has led me to have a great career.I like to cook, read, and of course everyone wants to travel. I was a flight attendant for a few years so I've been able to travel more than most. domestic mostly though. I would love to visit Europe one day. I like the outdoors, going to festivals/events. I just like to experience new things as much as possible. I go to the park with my girl a lot and go jogging or bike riding with her.I'm open minded, so I don't have too many "favorites". I like to try new things. However, I'm not a fan of horror movies (scary is ok) and I think most good music was made from the 70's to about ***. Definitely nothing much past then. I have a great family and a lot of friends that I spend as much of time with as I can. I'm not a homebody (maybe I would be more so with the right guy) and I try to get out as much as possible. I would so so much appreciate a good sense of humor over "muscles":) I prefer an intelligent conversation.I prefer a man that knows what he wants.Looking for someone of the same race.I'm an affectionate girl looking for a good catch. I am up for anything.

  • Zina

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am looking to see where this can take me. I am looking for a long term serious relationship. I am very loyal and want the same in return. I want a best friend. I am fun and outgoing. I make friends easliy and enjoy being around friends but I have to say that I stay at home most weekends. I work hard to have a good life and enjoy every minute of it. I like to try new things and will at least try something once. I enjoy going on vacations, the movies or just watching a movie at home. What I am looking for in a man? I want someone who I can depend on and who knows they can depend on me. I want someone who is family oriented. Has morals and wants to be with me and be happy with me. Overall, I want to be happy! I don't want any drama, just see where we can go from here.Oh! I am European. If you want to know more, just ask. ;) Gentleman: don't ask for more pictures or weird stuff. That does not interest me. I cannot stress enough that I want a good and NORMAL guy. I have kids and have to do what's right for them. I am honestly a good person with high morals and family beliefs. I have a good job, house and car. Just missing that someone special.

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