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Sudie, 38

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About Me

Please don't let "hopeless romantic" scare you off, they made me pick something, and I couldn't find one I liked. I hate being labeled :) They didn't have the option of girl next door. Which describes me pretty well, I think. Well, depending on your neighborhood, I suppose. I'm really not home all that much, activities and work keep me busy. However, I have a knack for finding time for other things that are important to me. I spend time with my son and friends, doing the typical things, going out to eat, movies, theme parks. I spend a lot of time with my family, I love my son, and plan on making the most of the time he will still spend with me (he's about to become a teenager, so I'm about to become the most uncool person on the planet). I don't need a partner, but would like one. I would love to find someone to go on adventures with, and most importantly share some laughs. I'm not a fan of drama in real life (tv is a whole other story - I work hard (3 jobs), but also play hard. I'm focused, detail oriented, but likes to see the big picture. I'm aware of politics but not super into them, I'm more focused on the local impact. Christian, kind, good hearted, funny (well I think so),and loves to laugh. Loves being outside, and fresh air. Old fashioned, I don't call guys until I really know them, I'm not sleeping with you until I trust you. I'm not flashy, and am shy. I'm not Barbie, and can't be bought. I see through most BS, and have a very low tolerance level. I'm a grown up with grown up responsibilities, I don't have time to play like that. What I'm looking for: a great guy. Kind, funny, confident (but not a jerk). Nice teeth (shallow yes, sorry). I really want someone that I really look forward to seeing, and talking to, and they feel the same way about me. I don't want to be a chore, nor for me to have another one.What I'm not really looking for: rude, arrogant, "I'm better than everyone else" guys. If you are proud of the fact that your a jerk, please keep moving. I don't need the attitude, and honestly, you are not that great. Any place we can talk and check each other out, but has a quick escape route. Not coffee, I get nervous enough on my own, the extra caffeine throws me over the top ;) I've had good luck at parks, free, nothing lost but time, and always something to look at. But, I'm open to anything.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kae

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I enjoy spending times with friends, maybe hit the bar for a few drinks and a game of darts or hanging out in the backyard with a grilled meal and great company. Of course you can never go wrong with a quiet evening in with a good movie.I enjoy reading from classics to thrillers and an occasional trashy romance.lolI love seafood, italian, sushi, and mexican food. A great steak as well. I enjoy watching shows like house and greys but love american pickers as well, and pretty much anything on the id discovery channel. I enjoy a lot of different types of music from country to korn and anything in between.I am ready to find my "match" I am a bit sarcastic at times in jest and hope he is that way as well. I want to find someone that is independent and self supporting. i want someone I can laugh with and enjoy all the things in life. Let's not call it a date, how about a casual meeting for lunch or dinner maybe even something as quick as drinks, a no pressure situation. I love anything around lake hefner especially at sunset.

  • Guendolen

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Hello,I never know where to begin on this..........So let's see, I'm at a point in my life where all is really good in my life. My job, health, friends/fam, my son---all is great. However as you can imagine, the one area lacking in my life is a person to truly share it all with. I never-ever thought dating would be this difficult. In my twenties, i met someone, thought they were cute---dated them and that was it. Wow-it's such a new world! We all have a lot of life that has to come together and mesh. We have long lists of qualities we want that special person to have --but ya know what---none of it matters what this or that is***because it all comes down to chemistry. Either we're going to have that something special in person or we're not. I dont' know if we're all beat up at this age or what, but i can't seem to find that special zest for life in another person that i feel i've still got left in me. People seem SPENT and hurt and used up. Come on people, let's not give up yet! :) Ok--but please don't *** your out of my age group--i prefer to stay 35 to ***no more--no less. I just do--things are too weird outside of that. And i'm not looking for any one night flings or any of that crap so dont' bother if that's what you're on here for. I really don't even like the online dating thing cause you can't tell anything from pictures--you need the in person interaction--but it's obviously come down to this...there's no way to meet people in this age group that i know of---so let's make the best of it and try to find that connection!I'm open to questions so let's chat!

  • Wanetta

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I grew up in a small-ish town in the 80's and did all the small town things there were to do. I love my "hair bands" - But I have many other musical tastes - which you could ask me about if you're curious.Did you see my White Sox picture? Yes, I'm a fan. However, I am nice enough to keep you company if you want to watch a Cubs game at home or at a bar, but I don't like going to Wrigley. Feel free to ask me why. I enjoy Bears games and sometimes a good Bulls game too. Do you play euchre or rummy? I do!I do all the usual stuff too. I exercise, eat meat and potatoes and some healthy stuff. I enjoy being in my jeans and being low-key, but equally enjoy getting all dressed up for a night out - dinner, dancing or a classical concert or performance art of some kind. As a midwesterner I make sure to take advantage of the great outdoors during good weather. Who doesn't like a good movie now and then too, especially in the winter? Having some travel plans to look forward to is also a good cure for the the doldrums of routines. I have a lot of interests and am curious about many things, but you'll have to get to know me to find out what they are.I tend to like people who are interested in and involved in the world around them. That means knowing what is going on in the world and wanting to make the world a better place, even if a small way. I believe you don't have to have a degree to be smart. I have one, but only because I decided to become a teacher and the state requires it. I worked for a long time without a degree and was very successful. I also know people who are "degreed" and who can't think there way out of a box.I'm looking for a great man, who has some things in common with me, is intelligent and successful and wants to get to know someone gradually and respectfully. Someone to have great conversations with, smile and laugh and occassionally have a good-spirited debate. Someone to be goofy with me, show me new things, try new things and enjoy the beauty of life. Someone who has goals and wants to eventually share his life with a best friend and partner.Could that be you? For a first date, I would prefer to do an activity like bowling or playing pool or darts which I think is more fun & gets you past the awkward conversation moments. I am rather shy at first, so it's more fun to have something to banter about. First dates are always awkward. I think it takes at least 3 or 4 dates to really see if you like someone. (Unless of course the first date is a really rude experience.)

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