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Guendolen, 39

United States, Arizona, Sierra Vista

Offline, last seen Sun, 16 Aug 2026 06:36:05

About Me

Hello,I never know where to begin on this..........So let's see, I'm at a point in my life where all is really good in my life. My job, health, friends/fam, my son---all is great. However as you can imagine, the one area lacking in my life is a person to truly share it all with. I never-ever thought dating would be this difficult. In my twenties, i met someone, thought they were cute---dated them and that was it. Wow-it's such a new world! We all have a lot of life that has to come together and mesh. We have long lists of qualities we want that special person to have --but ya know what---none of it matters what this or that is***because it all comes down to chemistry. Either we're going to have that something special in person or we're not. I dont' know if we're all beat up at this age or what, but i can't seem to find that special zest for life in another person that i feel i've still got left in me. People seem SPENT and hurt and used up. Come on people, let's not give up yet! :) Ok--but please don't *** your out of my age group--i prefer to stay 35 to ***no more--no less. I just do--things are too weird outside of that. And i'm not looking for any one night flings or any of that crap so dont' bother if that's what you're on here for. I really don't even like the online dating thing cause you can't tell anything from pictures--you need the in person interaction--but it's obviously come down to this...there's no way to meet people in this age group that i know of---so let's make the best of it and try to find that connection!I'm open to questions so let's chat!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lorena from Sierra Vista | Woman | 36 years old | Gemini
    Lorena

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    My interests are really all over the map and I am always open to new ideas.I love to travel and spent most of my 20's touring across North America and Europe for work.I come from a very close family and they are very important to me..as are my friends.I have a bit of a sarcastic side at times,so anyone I date would have to at least have an understanding of it. You must have a sense of humour. I'm big on the whole "laughing" thing ;)Please no games. Be honest..it is a must!! I have dealt with too much dishonesty in the past and see no need for it. Though I do state I am looking to date..that is just a stepping stone to what I am ultimately looking for which is a serious, long term relationship. You gotta start somewhere though!*If you message me and don't have pics, you won't get a response. I've posted mine..only fair if you do as well* I really dont get the whole "want to meet you" option on here. If you're interested, I would hope you put forth the effort to actually take a minute or two and message me directly. I very rarely check that anyway. dinner and drinks or just drinks ...pool..really there are so many options..try me!

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  • Laree from Sierra Vista | Woman | 40 years old | Libra
    Laree

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Anything out doors in the summer, sll kinds of music, It's funny a lot of guys on this site think they are so much better than people on here and wont give ya the time of day, the funny thing is we are all on here the same, I get messages and I know I don't respond right away its not that I don't want to I'm very busy at times, I will respond just give me time, Another thing is age and distance is a big factor in my search, yes i am 40, but I'm not attracted to older men, and I'm not attracted to young boys either, some where in the middle is good, Chances are if you live more than an hour away its not going to work, I put to much effort in long distance and it does not ever work in my favor, Yes I have kids so if thats a problem don't message me, and don't say kids are not a problem when they really are, I met people on here and it just didn't work for what ever reason, and some I still talk to as friends, Just to say no hard feelings for something that wasn't there, Good Luck on search,

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  • Eustolia from Sierra Vista | Woman | 39 years old | Virgo
    Eustolia

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am a very optimistic person. I try to see the best in life and focus on that. I am a devoted mother and family and friends are important to me.I enjoy spending time with friends and family, the beach and local lakes.Music makes life enjoyable.Art makes life beautiful. The right people in your life make life happy.I am a mother of two beautiful girls and they come first in my life. I try to live my life as an example for them and hope that anyone I meet will respect that about me. With that being said, if your intentions are not manerable please don't waste my time. Just being honest.I am at a point in my life where I know what I want and I'm not afraid to speak my mind. I am not perfect and will admit my faults. I strive to be a better person each day and live the life God has blessed me with. I want to find someone to laugh with and that I can enjoy spending time with. I am looking for friendship to start and if something more comes we will cross that bridge together. I am not looking for one nite stands of booty calls. I have more respect for myself than that. Coffee or lunch to talk and get to know eachother. Go listen to live music and dinner.

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