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Arla, 40
United States, Arizona, Show Low

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About Me

Rewriting this profile. No fluff. Just the good, bad and the ugly of me. Maybe weed out all but the genuine relationship seekers, who want a 'real' person. I don't tan, get my nails done, and am not a Barbie. Even on my best day, I can't even come close to being a Barbie. I am a single mom with two children ***and 11). I work very hard at my job Monday through Friday, and have my children 50% of the time, so my spare time is important to me.I admit it's sometimes difficult to juggle owning a home and maintaining it, raising two kids with their activities, caring for all our pets, and my job....so work with me.There is no hopping a plane at a moments notice to head off on spontaneous adventures. The logistics of what I would have to go through to make sure the animals were boarded or cared for makes this completey unrealistic. And who can really do this anyway? So if you're looking for a spontaneous woman looking for action and adventure....I'm just not your girl. I USED to ride a motorcycle, but the daredevil in me is now semi-retired. If you eat, sleep, and breath fitness....again I'm not for you. I'm a beginning runner and eat healthy as a rule, but I can throw down a steak and a beer with the best of them. I am definitely a low maintenance kind of girl. I don't need a lot of frills to be happy. I am practical...maybe to a fault. I have a bachelors degree in Biology with a minor in Anthropology. I know...how did I go from biologist to software test engineer? Long story!!!! On a positive note, I can be a lot of fun, and I LOVE to laugh. Laughter is huge in my house. Just looking for the right person to accept me for who I am, and try out something called 'happiness' with. coffee or dinner is fine! Maybe meet up to do something outside if it's nice.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Golf Collecting
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