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Tessa, 36

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About Me

OK so lets try this again...I am terrible with writting things about myself so bare with me!! Pretty much what you see is what you get. I am a 36 year old single mother of 2 teenage boys and a granddaughter(no comments) I work my ass off for everything that I have and I am proud of the person I have became in life. Unfortunately, I do not have a ton of spare time in my life, however would make time for someone special in my life if he is out there. I am far from a girly girl but I do know how to dress and act like a lady but my favorite appreal is jeans and a sweatshirt. Love some sports... Of course Yankees and my fav.*t and drama as much as possible. Main things I enjoy doing is listen to music, go to concerts, movies,camping, you know the basics. Lets see what else...OH...my family is my world! I come from a pretty large italian family that are around all the time. We all may be a little crazy but we are blood and will be there through everything. This think asks you to say what make you unique...truthfully I dont know. I just feel I am a regular person that is out there just trying to survive in this world. Im that person that would listen when i am needed, help when its wanted and love ya until you break my heart. (sad but true)I'm NOT hot or gorgeous. I DON'T have an amazing figure or a flat stomach. I'm FAR from being considered a model but, I'm ME. I eat food, I have curves, I have more fat than I should, I have scars, I have a history. Some people Love me, some like me, some Hate me. I have done good, I have done bad. I love my Pj's and... I sometimes go without makeup, I'm random and crazy, I don't pretend to be someone I'm not. I AM who I AM, you can love me or not. I won't change!! And if I Love You, I do it with all my Heart!!! I make no apologies for the way I am...............? I dont know we would have to figure that out if it gets that far!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ron

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    First to start I am such a spazz as my friends and family say. I also have my own way of talking i.e. chryssyism's meaning I use fun words to everything like amazeballs etc. I loved every second of it.-state ny ***, the tough mudder poconos ***and tough mudder upstate ny ***. I like to workout in my free time and I'm either in the pool swimming laps, running on a trail, hitting the weights or doing cross fit at the gym on post and going bananas on abstract things to build up strength and endurance.I am extremely comfortable either at home watching a movie and having play time with my nieces and having my hair pulled up in pony tails or piecy-poes (piggy tails) to dressing up and wearing heels and having my hair done with my makeup.First and foremost I like to play in the rain and splash in the puddles so if your up for it lets find some puddles and splash away.Ok so now the bs about relationships. I am NOT looking for a booty call, FWB or friendefits. I am not the woman that is into late night calls or "hey baby's come snuggle with me etc" for a 2nd date. I don't think that a date has to cost very much money if any. Its about having fun and getting to know each other and finding out if we both can stand to be around each other any longer than a few hours. With that said I don't mind if after a few dates (not meetings or coffee's) that we can then spend time relaxing doing stupid things like watching a football game or any sports (yes I love sports) or even a tv show that we both like either curled up on the couch or something.To make this crystal clear I will not have sex with you from the first date. You must show me that your someone of interest that I can open that part of my life to.!!!)Now I've been told I have too big of a heart and a sweetheart and that I would get hurt. So I'm really in search of a man that knows I'm sweet I can break but that he won't or will try not to break me and that when push comes to shove I can and will end all communication if this relationship gets stale and seeming to run its course.Now that I've said my peace.....I'm a very honest fun always smiling woman. I enjoy being with great people and not negative nellies or people that believe its best to use a man for his money. I am NOT looking for a sugar daddy i can pay my bills but I am looking for a man to spoil my big loving heart.I am NOT looking for a "booty call" that's not who i am. I believe in monogamy and waiting until we know each other to have those emotions to add to the sexual emotions.I also don't date men outside of my area. Pet peeve of mine...I truly dislike facial hair, pierced ears, thuggish wannabees aka wiggers (lol), men with bad grammar and who can't spell. We won't be a good match is you have any of these issues they are deal breakers.Besides that i like to read, go dancing and be around my friends. I have a son in college and really not looking to make more kids.I have my wonderful nieces in my life on a daily basis and they are a huge part of my world and that won't change.It is ok if you have children already that's never a issue in fact it is a big plus.So if your up to meeting a great well rounded beautiful red headed woman pay her bills and is extremely open and honest *** lets see where it goes. I love to be surprised. I like to stay active and doing things outside in the summer and also in the winter. Where we have such little time for summer here I appreciate as much time outside as possible but I am now beginning to train for the cold obstacles so winter cold is going to be my beotch. So maybe a swim, run or goofing off where we can sweat a wee bit and get some great adrenaline going on and end a great day on a positive note.

  • Matha

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    If you believe you are high quality in looks, personality and attitude, and over games, say "hello." Prove me wrong that I dont believe there are any honest guys on here serious about having an adult, dating relationship... Turn ons: intelligent conversation, sense of humor, romance, respect. Turn offs: Asking what size my chest is, childish little boys, male roosters(get it?), text buddies, standing me up on our date. coffee shop, dinner, a walk in the park or the beach

  • Fannie

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

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