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Caitlin, 38
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Saying I am different than most people doesn't really mean much. You have to want to get to know me to see that I truly am..... In short, I have depth. I see and experience things with passion, those things that most people just *** don't appreciate. I have been through heartache and loss like everyone experiences in this life. I, however, do not let it define me. I embrace and accept things as they come. Good or bad. I stumble, I get back up, brush myself off, and go right back at it. I have had a very blessed and amazing life and the good has far outweighed the bad. I think people tend to forget about the good things. About all the people who have been and are loving and supporting and have stuck around. The ones that come and go hurt you, but if you make a list of the ones that have stayed and loved you, I bet it’s a hell of a lot longer!!!!!! Life is one crazy ride. Live it, love it, and be happy!The following is a general idea of what I look for. In all honesty, I can't really say that I look for these exact things or that ONLY these things will work. You just never know until you meet someone EXACTLY what you are looking for...Have a picture, a recent one. If you have no pic. I can only assume you are hiding something. If you have an interest, show it. Everyone wants attention from the people they care about. Be respectful. You're an adult so please behave as one.Photos of you half naked (or worse) are not required or needed. I don't care if you have one on your profile but don't send me one. I certainly won't be sending you one of me like that.If you really want something, be willing to work for it. If you can live without it, let it go.Take care of yourself and your appearance. If you aren't happy with you, how can I be?Have a sense of humor. Laughter is what keeps you sane in an insane world.Know yourself worth. Here again, if you don't, how can I?Don't expect perfection. I sure don't. Have a heart that you are completely willing to give to another. If you can't you are still hung up on the past. LET IT GO.Actions speak louder than words. Don’t say anything if you have no intention of backing it up.Be yourself and don't take it personally if I am not feeling a connection with you... It takes a hell of a lot more than some ***, phone calls, and one date to determine if you really have something worth trying for. Have the capability and desire to look past the photos and the fact that most real women aren't Barbie. I certainly am not!! Curvy, voluptuous... can be surprisingly sexy! I am not looking for Ken, It is all about attitude and confidence gentlemen. When someone has that, it is amazing how attractive they can be.Have compassion and concern for people. . Our world is lacking way too much in that area.Know the value of family. Mine is amazing and they mean the world to me. Don't pass judgment because it is not your place.Have faith that the best is yet to come!!!!!!!!!!!! "The first chapter... always exciting... but the second chapter... that is where the depth comes in"There are two kinds of people in the world. There is the victim who blames everything and everyone but themselves for their problems, OR, The survivor. Who rises above and overcomes not matter how much work it takes... I am a survivor. I was born into this world kicking and screaming and that's how I will go out. Do not contact me if you:1. Drink like a fish or do ANY kind of illegal drugs or abuse legal ones 2. Have a criminal record 3. Don't have a vehicle or DL.I have my reasons for these 3 things and they are good ones so don't send me a nasty *** it. It is not about judgment. It is about what I choose NOT to have in MY life or my child's life.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American Italian Korean
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