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Marlyn, 40
United States, Arizona, Sahuarita

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First of all, I keep seeing all these headliners " I'm a real man looking for a real woman" or " want someone real" Um ok.. Or like Pinocchio " I'm a real boy!" Does a dishonest person admit to lying"? And does a fake person admit to being fake? :P And do you ever get tired of messaging people, and they never respond... and you want to be like " Yo to hell with this site, F yall, IM REAL! And out of here!" lol People don't respond all the time because, people are freaking crazy, and if you try to be polite and say you aren't interested, you get that crazy nut that takes it way too personal and has to respond with a bevy of insults to your looks, your intelligence, your teeth, oh and your offspring!Ok I'm done being silly, Now for the long part. Boring facts about me: I graduated school last September, I'm not quite where I want to be yet, but I have my goals set, and my mind is focused on them. I'm closer to them than I have been in a long time, and I'm content and happy with that. The start of it all is that my school is out of the way, now to push for the rest. I have a 15 year old son, Id say he is my world like everyone else does, but I believe that's a given. He does eventually need a good role model, but you have to get past me first. The kind of person I think I am: I'm very honest, and caring, and that's usually my downfall. As evident with my profile, I can talk a lot, especially if I like someone. It's just my way of getting to know people, and letting them get to know me. I've been told I over think things, I most admittedly do. Don't read too much into it.What's more, I probably have more intelligence than your average meetville fish, so if you like to cast your line and snag as many as you can, please pass me by. I'm all about quality over quantity any day.I'm curvy, I will never be model thin, if you like stick women, then you wont like me. I try to see the best in everyone, but sometimes I get sick of always being the nice person, thats when you see my head rotate ***degrees and I spew fire, beware! The kind of person others probably see me as: Quite possibly, crazy, psychotic, and slightly neurotic, I'm afraid to ask!P.S. I'm hiding a wicked sense of humor somewhere in all of this, just you wait and see! I'm a sweetheart and I'm able to agree to disagree when need be. On that note, enough about myself, what about you? I generally see the same type of likes on a guys profile, if you've seen one, you've generally seen 98 % of them all. I love camping, I love anything outdoors, I love the gymn. "yawn" Who doesnt like to camp at times? The type of guy that Id LIKE to attract is someone real, honest to others and themselves. Someone that watches me when I sleep as if there is no tomorrow without me. Like he is amazed that we found each other. I want what I will possibly never find, it might not be out there for me, who knows. People say that trust is earned. I say you have my trust until you break it. That doesn't mean I will give you the routing number to my bank account. Just means I will treat you like I've never had my heart broken before. And sorry gentlemen, if you have 3 or 4 or more kids, please pass me by. Nothing against you I promise, you just need a woman with more patience than I have. I myself have 1 kid and he is almost grown so its been a long time since I've been around small kids and never more than 2 at a time even when I babysat my cousins as a teen. I'm just being honest and saying up front you need a better woman than I know myself to be. Keep in mind that, just because a person wasn't right for you doesn't mean they aren't a good person. It just means they werent the one for you. If you see something you like feel free to leave a message, Ill respond when I can, even if its for friendship ... after all friends has to come before anything else! I keep adding to this monstrosity of a profile. Some find it entertaining, some find depth in it that is totally unintentional. I haven't found what I'm looking for, and honestly I hope I don't pass it by when its staring me in the eye. But people are so busy looking for the perfect one they often lose sight of whats real. Doesn't mean I'm jaded, or too picky, I promise you I'm not. I just want to live, love, laugh, and enjoy life. I'm 40 and I'm stubborn and hard headed. But it is what gets me up every morning. Surprise me.When men attempt bold gestures, generally it's considered romantic. When women do it, it's often considered desperate or psycho.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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