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Shannen, 38

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About Me

I am looking for a man who will appreciate me for who I am! I will never be skinny so if that is what you are looking please don't waste my time. I don't play games or invite drama into my life. I prefer not to associate with those who do. I'm not looking for someone to financially support me or to be a daddy to my kids. Just someone who isn't a liar or a player.I don't have very much free time away from my kids. If I choose to spend it with you understand that it is hard to come by. I am a single mom and a full time student. I am focused and goal oriented and am looking for someone who is the same. I have 2 children to support and am not interested in supporting a man too.I like to laugh and have fun, watch movies, read books, go to local sporting events.I like to travel and frequently drive to the next destination when possible. Somewhere VERY public just to be safe, for real somewhere we can talk and get to know each other more.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

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