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Hertha, 39
United States, Arizona, Sahuarita

Offline, last seen Wed, 26 Nov 2025 18:26:10

About Me

Looking for someone to spend time with. Lets get to know each other, become friends, see what happens. I would love to find that special someone eventually, but I'm in no rush. Must be very open-minded. If you don't figure out the reason on your own, you will be enlightened.....eventually. I love learning about new things: cultures, places, history, food. Music is a big factor in my life and I attend many concerts and shows throughout the year. Heavier metal and rock appeal to me the most but I don't limit myself to that. However, I dislike country and rap (and all its genres with a passion) I don't have any hobbies but I do love to read. I would really like to meet someone that will introduce me to doing and learning new things.Just as a side note, I do not date, nor am I interested in African American men. Its just my preference. P.S. Bald, tattoos, foreign accent, anyone that works in law enforcement, all plusses. This is random stuff I like all meant in fun (although true) but definitely not requirements.Pet peeves: people that don't take the time to read profiles, posting pics of 1. you with some sort of dead animal, 2.your dog,3. your car,4. your house, 5. your kids. Starting conversations with some sort of inappropriate comment, using your *** you're, grammar and spelling errors, not using punctuation.Ok, these are must haves:Your own place to live, Mom & Dad's house does not countCar, don't even bother if you don't have your own vehicle or can't drive, I don't care what the reason isJob, as in employed, you receive a paycheckNo criminal record, once again I don't care what the reason is/was or how long agoI know everyone says this, men included, but don't bring your drama and I won't bring mineMaybe my standards are too high, but I know what I want and what I don't. I know what works for me. Also, if you don't like slightly larger women please pass me by. I put up all these preferences so we don't waste each others time, so really I'm doing us both a favor. Nothing irritates me more than talking with someone for weeks, finally meeting, and then never hearing from them again. I wish you all good luck in whatever it is you're looking for. Dinner and a nice place to talk? Maybe you're more creative and interesting than me, I look forward to meeting you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Hardcore Chinese French Korean Dirt Bike Racing
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