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There comes a time in a woman's life when she is just tired spiritually.....tired of meaningless sex & so-called relationships, shaded trust, games, and men who try to play my heart against what its worth. I'm tired of relationships that have no merit or value that which a relationship can be built upon. Tired of relationships that have no foundation to stand upon besides sex. Just tired of men who think every woman is out to hurt him as the ones before me. I have no interest in breaking hearts or getting my heart broke because I've been on both sides of the fence when it comes to that. I'm not a hard person to please and the only kinda man that I seek is a man whom knows he can go from bawlin to broke and still knows he will be loved regardless of da situation. No interest in the so-called bad gangtas but major interest in the everyday kinda man. So to cut this intro short......if anything I said interests you then send me a message. A lil convo ain't never hurt anybody :-) So you ask what am i looking for? A real man that never stops trying to show a girl he cares about her, even if he already has her. What i think? People judge too fast, people assume too much. People just need to open up the books and disgard the covers.(looks arent everything) Am I happy you ask? The smile on my face doesn't mean my life is perfect, it just means I appreciate what I have and what God has blessed me with. How I live my life??3 C's of Life.? Choices? Chances? Changes ~ You must make a choice to take a chance or your life will never change. ? ?I've made MISTAKES in my life. I've let people take ADVANTAGE of me, & I accepted way LESS than I DESERVE. But I've LEARNED from my bad choices & even though there are some things I can NEVER get back & people who will NEVER be SORRY, I'll know BETTER next time & I WON'T SETTLE for anything LESS than I deserve?.. THINK YOUR INTERESTED?Than, Tell me some of ur best features that would make me want to get to know u? (Living the single life isnt actually that bad, its the urge u get of wanting to hold that special someone. I wish someone would prove me wrong, that this site isn't a waste of my time. Or should I say there arent any more gud guys out there in this world of nitemares.)I'm not looking for a moocher/loafer if I can get out and work 7 days a week rain or shine or sick or healthy u can do ur part n work atleast 5 days a week. I don't work this much for a man to bank on my dollars so don't ask me to buy u some shoes or autoparts or even get a major credit card for u. I have kids they r my responsibilty if ur not grown enough to manage ur own. Go back to ur parents. I'm looking to be the girlfriend/ wife of a gud man, not ur moma. Suprise me

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Marlyn

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    First of all, I keep seeing all these headliners " I'm a real man looking for a real woman" or " want someone real" Um ok.. Or like Pinocchio " I'm a real boy!" Does a dishonest person admit to lying"? And does a fake person admit to being fake? :P And do you ever get tired of messaging people, and they never respond... and you want to be like " Yo to hell with this site, F yall, IM REAL! And out of here!" lol People don't respond all the time because, people are freaking crazy, and if you try to be polite and say you aren't interested, you get that crazy nut that takes it way too personal and has to respond with a bevy of insults to your looks, your intelligence, your teeth, oh and your offspring!Ok I'm done being silly, Now for the long part. Boring facts about me: I graduated school last September, I'm not quite where I want to be yet, but I have my goals set, and my mind is focused on them. I'm closer to them than I have been in a long time, and I'm content and happy with that. The start of it all is that my school is out of the way, now to push for the rest. I have a 15 year old son, Id say he is my world like everyone else does, but I believe that's a given. He does eventually need a good role model, but you have to get past me first. The kind of person I think I am: I'm very honest, and caring, and that's usually my downfall. As evident with my profile, I can talk a lot, especially if I like someone. It's just my way of getting to know people, and letting them get to know me. I've been told I over think things, I most admittedly do. Don't read too much into it.What's more, I probably have more intelligence than your average meetville fish, so if you like to cast your line and snag as many as you can, please pass me by. I'm all about quality over quantity any day.I'm curvy, I will never be model thin, if you like stick women, then you wont like me. I try to see the best in everyone, but sometimes I get sick of always being the nice person, thats when you see my head rotate ***degrees and I spew fire, beware! The kind of person others probably see me as: Quite possibly, crazy, psychotic, and slightly neurotic, I'm afraid to ask!P.S. I'm hiding a wicked sense of humor somewhere in all of this, just you wait and see! I'm a sweetheart and I'm able to agree to disagree when need be. On that note, enough about myself, what about you? I generally see the same type of likes on a guys profile, if you've seen one, you've generally seen 98 % of them all. I love camping, I love anything outdoors, I love the gymn. "yawn" Who doesnt like to camp at times? The type of guy that Id LIKE to attract is someone real, honest to others and themselves. Someone that watches me when I sleep as if there is no tomorrow without me. Like he is amazed that we found each other. I want what I will possibly never find, it might not be out there for me, who knows. People say that trust is earned. I say you have my trust until you break it. That doesn't mean I will give you the routing number to my bank account. Just means I will treat you like I've never had my heart broken before. And sorry gentlemen, if you have 3 or 4 or more kids, please pass me by. Nothing against you I promise, you just need a woman with more patience than I have. I myself have 1 kid and he is almost grown so its been a long time since I've been around small kids and never more than 2 at a time even when I babysat my cousins as a teen. I'm just being honest and saying up front you need a better woman than I know myself to be. Keep in mind that, just because a person wasn't right for you doesn't mean they aren't a good person. It just means they werent the one for you. If you see something you like feel free to leave a message, Ill respond when I can, even if its for friendship ... after all friends has to come before anything else! I keep adding to this monstrosity of a profile. Some find it entertaining, some find depth in it that is totally unintentional. I haven't found what I'm looking for, and honestly I hope I don't pass it by when its staring me in the eye. But people are so busy looking for the perfect one they often lose sight of whats real. Doesn't mean I'm jaded, or too picky, I promise you I'm not. I just want to live, love, laugh, and enjoy life. I'm 40 and I'm stubborn and hard headed. But it is what gets me up every morning. Surprise me.When men attempt bold gestures, generally it's considered romantic. When women do it, it's often considered desperate or psycho.

  • Cacia

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I try to keep things pretty low key and don't keep a hectic schedule. Not to say I don't like going out and having fun, I do. I love seeing bands play and trying new restaurants in addition to hiking and camping. I just don't to do all of that every day. I like enjoying time at home and feeling comfortable enough with someone to do just that. I have a great job that gives me weekends and evenings off. Looking for someone who is fun and enjoyable to be around, not uptight or pissed at the world. I live life by the Golden Rule and truly believe you get back what you put into the world and you should treat others as you would like to be treated. I would like to find someone to be my companion, best friend and be the man that makes my heart skip a beat and body tingle. ummm could you plan it, please ;)

  • Enedina

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Just me and the peanut gallery. Single mother of 3 Living life and workin. My kids are first. I am a very active mother, and have lots of games for my kids. I love sports. I'm that Sunday football watching, porch sitting kinda girl. And I love it. I am married to my boys and work. I love music. I love just about any music it soothes the soul. Long drives just singing to the radio enjoying life is one of my favorite things. My horses,tail gating, someone playing guitar and spending time with my kids,are some of my favorite things...but sometimes mama needs a night out. I can get away when I feel like its worth it. I don't need a daddy or a babysitter. Im the good morning, have a great day person. If you don't work don't bother . I already have 3 to support. I'm a very fun loving person always laughing. My friends are very important to me. Someone is out there to fill that. But i will not settle. I have had a rough year but will prevail!:-) If u can make me smile you got me, but remember its a package deal my boys are my world. They would also like to see me happy. Ihave full custody my oldest almost 18 my youngest 10. Let's go watch my boys kick some butt this football season. Looking for the one I know is out there.....no hurry. I will never take an I love you to my babies or goodnight mama for granted. Life as you know it can change in a ***'m here for a reason let's fiqure out why shall we????P.s. I am a very outspoken tell it like it is gal. If you don't wanna know don't ask. Just sayin Dinner and a long walk or just a tailgate and good music under the stars or even a sports event I love it all.

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