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Irmalinda, 37

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About Me

I'm looking for my best friend, that person that I want to be around often, think about when they're not near and want to share myself with. I'm not in a rush to find this man and friends made along the way are great but that is my ultimate goal and I'm not willing to settle. I am an independent, responsible, creative single mother of 1 daughter. She is very important, of course, and is a main focal point in my life. I know how to balance my grownup time with family time and I hope you do too. I am very honest and reliable and am looking for the same in a man. Knowing what direction your life is going, goals and the drive to fulfill them is very attractive. I am a pretty serious person but love to have fun. Dancing, day-trips, camping, live bands, movies, shopping, anything that will get me out of the house and having fun, laughing and spending time with those I enjoy most. I love surprises (the good kind) and me not having to make all the decisions and plans makes me feel apart of something *** the ring leader. I have tattoos and I like tattoos. My tattoos are my designs and are for me only; they are only visible if I want them to be. I am an artist but I don't have much time to work at it anymore...hopeful for the future though. I love to read, my Kindle is always nearby. I love all music, just depends on my mood. 80's are my favorite; Def Leppard, Blonde...but anything from heavy metal to country can get me singing, probably off key too. He actually asks questions and makes comment contributing to the conversation. Genuinely is interested in my responses. Has a great sense of humor and laughs freely. Is open, creative, responsive and fun and/or romantic. Let's the date unfold naturally *** forcing, rushing or pressuring.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marlyn

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    First of all, I keep seeing all these headliners " I'm a real man looking for a real woman" or " want someone real" Um ok.. Or like Pinocchio " I'm a real boy!" Does a dishonest person admit to lying"? And does a fake person admit to being fake? :P And do you ever get tired of messaging people, and they never respond... and you want to be like " Yo to hell with this site, F yall, IM REAL! And out of here!" lol People don't respond all the time because, people are freaking crazy, and if you try to be polite and say you aren't interested, you get that crazy nut that takes it way too personal and has to respond with a bevy of insults to your looks, your intelligence, your teeth, oh and your offspring!Ok I'm done being silly, Now for the long part. Boring facts about me: I graduated school last September, I'm not quite where I want to be yet, but I have my goals set, and my mind is focused on them. I'm closer to them than I have been in a long time, and I'm content and happy with that. The start of it all is that my school is out of the way, now to push for the rest. I have a 15 year old son, Id say he is my world like everyone else does, but I believe that's a given. He does eventually need a good role model, but you have to get past me first. The kind of person I think I am: I'm very honest, and caring, and that's usually my downfall. As evident with my profile, I can talk a lot, especially if I like someone. It's just my way of getting to know people, and letting them get to know me. I've been told I over think things, I most admittedly do. Don't read too much into it.What's more, I probably have more intelligence than your average meetville fish, so if you like to cast your line and snag as many as you can, please pass me by. I'm all about quality over quantity any day.I'm curvy, I will never be model thin, if you like stick women, then you wont like me. I try to see the best in everyone, but sometimes I get sick of always being the nice person, thats when you see my head rotate ***degrees and I spew fire, beware! The kind of person others probably see me as: Quite possibly, crazy, psychotic, and slightly neurotic, I'm afraid to ask!P.S. I'm hiding a wicked sense of humor somewhere in all of this, just you wait and see! I'm a sweetheart and I'm able to agree to disagree when need be. On that note, enough about myself, what about you? I generally see the same type of likes on a guys profile, if you've seen one, you've generally seen 98 % of them all. I love camping, I love anything outdoors, I love the gymn. "yawn" Who doesnt like to camp at times? The type of guy that Id LIKE to attract is someone real, honest to others and themselves. Someone that watches me when I sleep as if there is no tomorrow without me. Like he is amazed that we found each other. I want what I will possibly never find, it might not be out there for me, who knows. People say that trust is earned. I say you have my trust until you break it. That doesn't mean I will give you the routing number to my bank account. Just means I will treat you like I've never had my heart broken before. And sorry gentlemen, if you have 3 or 4 or more kids, please pass me by. Nothing against you I promise, you just need a woman with more patience than I have. I myself have 1 kid and he is almost grown so its been a long time since I've been around small kids and never more than 2 at a time even when I babysat my cousins as a teen. I'm just being honest and saying up front you need a better woman than I know myself to be. Keep in mind that, just because a person wasn't right for you doesn't mean they aren't a good person. It just means they werent the one for you. If you see something you like feel free to leave a message, Ill respond when I can, even if its for friendship ... after all friends has to come before anything else! I keep adding to this monstrosity of a profile. Some find it entertaining, some find depth in it that is totally unintentional. I haven't found what I'm looking for, and honestly I hope I don't pass it by when its staring me in the eye. But people are so busy looking for the perfect one they often lose sight of whats real. Doesn't mean I'm jaded, or too picky, I promise you I'm not. I just want to live, love, laugh, and enjoy life. I'm 40 and I'm stubborn and hard headed. But it is what gets me up every morning. Surprise me.When men attempt bold gestures, generally it's considered romantic. When women do it, it's often considered desperate or psycho.

  • Jaelynn

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I\'m unique by my sense of humor. I love to laugh! My friends describe me as silly, crazy (in a good way), funny, caring and loving. I have a huge heart. Search for kind people, who are still capable of having childish fun.

  • Genevie

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Hey there to all of you single men! I'm an educated, independent, positive, and outgoing woman that's looking for someone I can meet, have an awesome friendship with that will hopefully grow into something more. I'm tired of games and have been ready to find my soul mate! I hope to not offend anyone, but, please, for the love of all that is good in this world, please have confidence, security in yourself, a job, a sense of humor and not be addicted to any illegal drugs or alcohol. Doesn't seem like too tall of an order, but, you would be surprised! I'm not into bars/clubs but am certainly not opposed to hanging out at one every once and a while to throw some back and watch a Steelers game!! I'm not a perfect 10, but I am a good woman! I'm very caring, love my friends and family and very rarely meet anyone I can't get along with. So, there it is. Wanna know more? Hope to hear back! Take care and good luck!UPDATE: Only serious inquiries, please. My pictures are recent and I'm really not into wasting time texting with no intention of ever meeting. Either I just have the absolute worst luck on this crazy site, or it really is just full of whackos! Any normal, but not boring, men left? There has to be at least one! Are you him? Something casual.

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