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Dyan, 40
United States, Arizona, Queen Creek

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A friend suggested I try this site....so here I am. We are here on this earth to love and learn from one another. To listen, share, accept and take away from each experience a better, loving, respectful and grateful existence. A world community. Oh yeah..and laugh our *ssess off! You're welcome. I am creative in many ways: fine arts, performance arts, cooking, writing, etc...I am passionate about the humanities and humans. I enjoy meeting new people, making and more importantly nurturing friendships and always having a great time. If something wonderful should come of it, that's a bonus.I currently am back in school pursuing two degrees: Visual Communications and BFA in Acting. I enjoy fitness and am interested in spending more time with experienced outdoors men and women. I workout often, because I'm hooked on building strength, sustaining a healthy lifestyle and I love how it makes me feel. I recently learned to row, I've just tried sea kayaking and love it.Who am I looking for? Someone who really cares about himself, has amazing self esteem and self confidence. Respects and values himself and most definitely respects and values others including our beautiful planet. Someone who has a loving, accepting and supportive community of friends and loved ones that he is active in nurturing. Someone who is secure in himself and in his current living situation. A man that meets new people with an open heart and mind. Who is gracious, generous and loves to know more about me. We may not have the same interests. That's cool with me. More to learn and experience, but I will not be interested in someone who is not interested in others, only wants to hear themselves speak, does not accept strong women, human rights and equality or is *** humanity or is frightened of the world at large. I know how important health is. It's really all you have. A man who is committed to his physical and mental health is a must. You do not need to be a mountain climber or an Iron Man, but I totally support it. If you care about what you put into your body, I'm on the same recycled paper page. Having fun is very important.I get to know people pretty slowly. I am someone who is patient and appreciates someone else's patience. Friends last often longer than romantic interludes, so I'd rather build a relationship based on friendship that may have many romantic interludes. I find the more you explore, appreciate and value someone the romantic rewards are immeasurable and worth the investment. To be completely clear...I'm easy going, but not easy. Ok I've said it. Let's *** a tiny bit online, but I prefer face to face interactions. There's only so much that comes across in 2D and I prefer 3D. I actually love sculpture and art *** a must. It will take only moments to see if we have a spark. We'll get along, believe me I'm trained in the art of conversation, but do we have that elusive "thing" or "it"? I'm very easy going, but I do have some boundaries on a first date and here are some of them lovely lads:Please do not ask me to meet you at your home and play video games.A first date does not include contacting me 15 minutes before and suggesting the Horseshoe.More than basic grooming is a must. I'd rather not smell you before I see you.(Too harsh?)No films. Although I'd love to be in them, you cannot speak to anyone during a film. And if you have, I have probably dirty-look-shhhd-you! When you see me online, no matter your initial judgement, I am confident, experienced and a sophisticated woman. I can laugh at myself and with others, but please do your best to remember that you are not meeting me on your couch on a monitor, while you are in your pants, eating Cheetos. (Please don't sue me Cheetos Brand for this reference)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electro Hip-Hop
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