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Arlean, 36
United States, Arizona, Queen Creek

Offline, last seen Sun, 30 Nov 2025 22:39:15

About Me

Guess I need to update this:Just to clarify, for more reasons than one, I am NOT interested in any way shape or form if you are 'a few extra pounds' Sorry.. OR if you are going through a divorce, separated, recently single etc etc...again, no go. Boys much younger than me....again, not interested.Guys twice my age................nope.Nor am I interested in text buddies or endless *** never lead to actually meeting.Honesty is EVERYTHING.Please be mature and emotionally available.I’m looking for a relationship that is so strong and powerful that its mere presence is overwhelming and speaks for itself , the type of relationship that people will see and think, "I want what they have”. Whether we're dancing, enjoying the outdoors, cuddling or just being domestic, it surrounds us.As one of my friends always tells me, ";. :) So what I want is a man who will embrace me, for me and I will do the same for him. I want something special, my best friend, my partner, my lover and my world....... I am not interested in boyfriend after boyfriend. Im looking for just that one and until I find him I will stay me, single, content and looking. I will not settle.I am really Laid back, bubbly, picky, goofy, obnoxious, happy, dork, klutz, bimbo, air-....it just depends on what time of day it is.Im really down to earth and very old fashioned but live and think outside the box.Mainstream is not my thing.Mama to two great kids ***and 18). I cannot have anymore children.Im all over the map with likes, desires and dislikes. I'm city on the outside but country on the inside....Ive experienced them all, still doing it.Nobody is perfect, I know Im not, so if you think your gods gift then please pass me by.Just looking for my twin in life....or maybe my opposite. Ill know when I find him. Im always open to new friendships :)I wish Cancer didn't exist, Id still have my Daddy if it didn't.I have nothing nice to say about deadbeat parents.Diesel trucks...gotta luv 'em.....'nuff said. :)I love a good motorcycle ride. *IF* you are an experienced rider im always up to take the backseat!LUV LUV LUV going to the casino and people watching, having a drink and playing penny slots :)That being said... Number one, I am not perfect, I have my flaws but I do embrace them and strive to be better. Number two, I have two kids. My son is 12 and my daughter is 18. They are my rock that keeps me going. They come as a package with me, no exceptions, so if you dont like kids or want to be around them then we willl never work out. Number three, I have been to hell and back, more than once in my life. If you are not or can not be an understanding type that over looks the good, the bad and the ugly that some people unfortunately have as baggage then again, we will not work. Number four, I am a very open minded person... In all aspects of life. Number five, I am who I am, not going to change to please anyone else.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rock Sport Motorcycle Racing Tennis
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