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Birgit, 39

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About Me

I am working to avoid making the same mistakes I have made in the past, overcoming my fears, and keeping up my motivation after failure both the humorous and the sad.I want to find a worthwhile and long term relationship with someone who can make me laugh, make me smile, who I feel comfortable with just as I am right now!I am a handful, I am strong willed and opinionated. If you can handle me at my worst you will love me at my best... and trust me I AM WORTH IT! ;) I live life on the edge! I slam revolving doors! I push when it says pull! I rip tags off of mattresses! I'm not looking for a booty call so if you are keep on fishing but not in this pond!Nobody said life would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it. I am funny and intelligent and any man would be lucky to have me. Don't get me wrong I have my flaws just like you... for me moving into that area of a relationship is something that should start slowly, I have my issues and I am afraid of losing myself or "control" in my life because I have fallen for someone who I hardly know and who my not be able or willing to make changes in his life to be a part of mine...I'm a bit on the demented side humor wise that is. I'm sure there is more but I don't want to scare you off... I AM NOT LOOKING FOR JUST ANYONE I AM LOOKING FOR THE ONE the man that can make me melt when he looks in my eyes, who gives me chills down my spine when he kisses me, the one who I deserve and the one man who feels the same about me. Perhaps my next crush should be someone with a quick mind *** fast hands? When you go searching for a mate, it's best to find a person whose mental capacity is as stimulating as their sex appeal. I want the whole package. I know what I want in life and am not afraid to fight for it; I am a good woman looking to share my life in the company of an even better man. Sometimes it takes a sledgehammer to crack a nut, cause some of us nuts can have hard shells. I,m looking for a sledgehammer and I keep finding rubber mallets I want a guy that can plan an outrageous first date or just date in general like taking me to a jewelry store to try on engagement rings together pretending like we have know each other for years or someone who will take me to the dollar store and buy me anything I want, someone who will take me to a dark road in the middle of nowhere and come up with some random ghost story on the spot, a guy that will take me to a shoe store so he can watch me try on sexy heels and then buy me my favorite I think you get the idea dinner and a movie or coffee are great but when your out doing something like I suggested your forced to show your true personality under pressure.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am a catch if you prefer an angelfish over a goldfish! You know the ones I'm talking about...the ones looking only for gold! Not here, not me! I'm not looking to be supported but rather complimented! And please no dogfish...I'm tired of feeling like a suckerfish!I don't pretend to be someone I'm not, because I'm good at being me. I might not be proud of some of the things I've done in the past, but I'm proud of who I am today. I may not be perfect, but I don't need to be. Take me as I am or watch me as I walk away.I am a single mom of two teenage boys. They are my world and my priority and I have them 100% of the time. I am not ashamed of some of the "mistakes" I made when I was younger. I don't see them as mistakes but rather the choices that made me the strong, indepedent, resilient, mother I am today. I put myself through college as a single mom, have a great career and purchased my own house, so I guess I expect a man with the same motivation. I'm looking for a caring, fun-loving, good guy who has his crap together...if you don't have a job or if you live at home with mommy and daddy don't bother wasting your time. I enjoy a variety of different activities from anything outdoors to chilling on the couch drinking a beer while watching a good football game (esp USC! Go Trojans!) I'm the type of girl who isn't afraid of getting down and dirty and then getting cleaned up for a night out on the town. I am not looking for a man to make me happy but rather to be happy with a man.Oh, and if I view your profile and don't send you a message, don't assume I'm shy because if I'm interested I have no problems reaching out first. Its more likely that either I'm not interested or there is something in your profile that made me believe we would not be a good match. I'm pretty much open to anything except a movie on a first date. Don't really understand how you are suppose to get to know someone while watching a movie. Doesn't make sense to me. I find coffee or a drink as a good icebreaker and if there is a connection then I'm open for just about anything.P.S.~ Yes I am 38 so if there is even a remote chance that that will bother you, please don't contact me. Thx

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Life is short. I try to live it to the fullest. I work hard to play hard. Looking for someone who loves life, enjoys their family. If your still hung up on your super Ex-girlfriend, I am not for you. Keep moving You should skip by me if your separated. Just in case your wondering that mean's your still married. If your looking for a one night stand I'm not the one, I suck at it. If you are crazy...... If your wondering what that means, you probably are so keep moving...... Causal

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am a single lady who misses the feel of strong arms wrapped around me among other things. I spent a great deal of time this summer outdoors. I enjoy walks and hiking and a little running although I wouldn't say I excel there lol. I like to go out with friends and have some drinks and laughs. I love being social but not the center of attention. I also enjoy laid back evenings watching movies or reading. An ideal first date for me would be something involving activity and opportunity to talk and get to know eachother.

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