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Birgit, 39

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About Me

I am working to avoid making the same mistakes I have made in the past, overcoming my fears, and keeping up my motivation after failure both the humorous and the sad.I want to find a worthwhile and long term relationship with someone who can make me laugh, make me smile, who I feel comfortable with just as I am right now!I am a handful, I am strong willed and opinionated. If you can handle me at my worst you will love me at my best... and trust me I AM WORTH IT! ;) I live life on the edge! I slam revolving doors! I push when it says pull! I rip tags off of mattresses! I'm not looking for a booty call so if you are keep on fishing but not in this pond!Nobody said life would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it. I am funny and intelligent and any man would be lucky to have me. Don't get me wrong I have my flaws just like you... for me moving into that area of a relationship is something that should start slowly, I have my issues and I am afraid of losing myself or "control" in my life because I have fallen for someone who I hardly know and who my not be able or willing to make changes in his life to be a part of mine...I'm a bit on the demented side humor wise that is. I'm sure there is more but I don't want to scare you off... I AM NOT LOOKING FOR JUST ANYONE I AM LOOKING FOR THE ONE the man that can make me melt when he looks in my eyes, who gives me chills down my spine when he kisses me, the one who I deserve and the one man who feels the same about me. Perhaps my next crush should be someone with a quick mind *** fast hands? When you go searching for a mate, it's best to find a person whose mental capacity is as stimulating as their sex appeal. I want the whole package. I know what I want in life and am not afraid to fight for it; I am a good woman looking to share my life in the company of an even better man. Sometimes it takes a sledgehammer to crack a nut, cause some of us nuts can have hard shells. I,m looking for a sledgehammer and I keep finding rubber mallets I want a guy that can plan an outrageous first date or just date in general like taking me to a jewelry store to try on engagement rings together pretending like we have know each other for years or someone who will take me to the dollar store and buy me anything I want, someone who will take me to a dark road in the middle of nowhere and come up with some random ghost story on the spot, a guy that will take me to a shoe store so he can watch me try on sexy heels and then buy me my favorite I think you get the idea dinner and a movie or coffee are great but when your out doing something like I suggested your forced to show your true personality under pressure.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Ok here it goes. I'm a happy, fun, huge hearted but also have a responsible side girl looking for a guy with a good sense of humor, caring, sweet, fun and handsome. I have an awesome 13 year old son who is a huge part of my life but I still have space for someone sweet.I really enjoy going 4x4 on atv's or lifted trucks, suv's or jeep. Love it all. I Love to train in MMA. Love to watch the UFC. l have a great respect for classic cars. I own my own project car. And love to work on it myself. I have a great interest in animals. Exotic's has my main interest but love all animals. I also love to play pool, dance, work out, hike, camping. Or just sit at home and watch movies. I'm really sick of drama so if that's you stop now and hit the back button. Lol... I truly just want someone honest and knows what they need and want. Ok they say to mention what music I like. I am a dancer so I do like hip hop, but I also love tons of different music. Jane's addiction, nickel back, cranberries, kesha, def leopard, Metallica, exc....Tons of different music. Well if I sound interesting to you please let me know. I can think of many different dates that would be awesome.

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am always working to develop professionally while keeping a balance between being a mother, a friend and time for myself. I have a love/hate relationship yard work, which has meant learning how to string the weed wacker and other yard tool related things. I didn't say I was good at it, I just like to tackle it. I started a little garden this summer and am excited to see how it goes : ) I enjoy getting outside to ride my bike downtown to get food or a drink or go for a jog. However I am not militant about anything in my life so I don't have a strict schedule of exercise I abide by, just when it feels good. I am pretty laid back, I like to go barefoot in the sun, listen to music, don't mind getting dirty and throwing my hair in braids. I can also polish up if need be. I have friends in high places as well as in low places. I have a great family and truly, great kids. My kids will always have first dibs on me and my time, though I do make appropriate space for friends, dating and alone time.I tend to get a lot of messages from young men. Please don't message me if you want kids or are in your 20's. I'm 36 and have all the fine lines to prove it. I even have sun damage (dammit). My oldest has rotated around the sun 16 times and my youngest 8 times. I'm really looking for like-minded, realistic, real-life type of people. You don't have to be educated, but be intellectual. If you wear your hat sideways, ever, please don't message me, there are other ways to prove your "youthfulness" : ) Now, hat on backwards, that's a different story...that I can take and even welcome. I like feeling dirty and part of the earth as well as taking advantage of vacuumes, laundry detergent, and soap. I like a clean home. But if we are playing, lets get dirty! * Disclaimer: I'm health conscious 90% of the time, but the other 10% is not something to brag about.* disclaimer # 2: I get a lot of messages/comments about the piano and guitar in one of my pics. I do not play any ***, they are my sons. I am not musically talented just pro music! A first date should be very laid back just to check the chemistry. With that said, no hard feelings about learning more about ourselves as individuals and about others. Ya win some and lose some and maybe one of these first dates will lead to a second date. If not, then we respectfully continue our paths, and I do hope there's still some gentlemen out there....

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Ok i am kasey , I have 2 AWESOME kids, I work hard , have a Cleanin bizzz. I am Loving , Loyal , Honest, bit shy at first, then i open up n watch out lol... Independent, have few Close Friends, MY FAMILY they are my World. I may be a little old fashioned, Im a bit Domestic, Love taking Care of my Home, and my Family, love workin on home projects, spendin time with my people, maybe headin up the creek on a nice day, goin for a soak, piknik, few beers, lil sun. watchin kids play n have blast, thats like a perfect day off. Love the outdoors. Looking for someone who is AMBITIOUS, HONEST, LOYAL, FUN FUN FUN, CARING, a friend, partner, n hopefully more.. im pretty easy to please... ok this is very lil about me, but if ya wanna know more please do ask.. Thanks :) , NOT INTO GAMES OR CEREAL DATERS... thats that :) lets talk bout it and find out

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