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Ardelia, 39

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About Me

I’m told I have a nice smile, that I look like I’m in my early 20s (I often get carded) but probably the most flattering compliment I get is that I’m a nice, sweet girl with a good heart. I’’I was laid off about ***years ago and after about a year of unemployment, thankfully, I was still in good enough shape to join the military. I have about a year and a half left on my contract and I’m on the fence about getting out because the economy doesn’t seem that promising yet.Why am I still single? I meet a lot of bachelors who want to stay bachelors, divorcees who say they never want to get married again, and guys who have grown kids and don’t want to have anymore. Simply put, I’m looking for someone that has some common interests, you’re open to falling in love, getting married, maybe starting a family. Therefore, on the weekends, I like to take it easy, dress up, and go to a nice restaurant, lounge, bar, wine-tasting event, a good movie. If we make it past the first date, I’m also up for an occasional light hike, game of tennis, or swimming like at a water park or elsewhere. I might even be convinced to go on a camping trip once we’ve known each other for a bit.I’m not really into clubs, dive bars, extreme sports, watching sports, going to church and because I’m in the military, anyone who smokes pot.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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