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Alayna, 40

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About Me

Well... I love the heat as I grew up in snow mostly. If you don't love movies, you won't like me. I'm a huge movie buff whether just renting and hanging out at home or going to the theater. Popcorn is a food group!!!! I also like grabbing a bite with friends, BBQ's, concerts, festivals, wine tasting events and weekend road trips to Cali when I get the chance. For music I like alternative, dance, pop, mainstream, and blues. I prefer pubs and dive bars to loud clubs. It's better when you can actually have a conversation with the person your with. Real Estate is my passion and I'm hoping to find someone who is passionate about what they do as well. Life's too short to be doing things that don't make you happy. I'm adventurous and love trying new places and things to do. Vegas is awesome for having so many restaurants and events to explore. Just need a partner in crime to share some fun experiences with. I'm a Mom of 2 kids who I have Sunday to Wednesday which are the world to me. I do real estate so I can work around their schedules and spend the most time with them I can. So... I'm looking for someone who has Thursday, Friday or Saturday time off to date or hang out. It's an industry town and a lot of people have Monday and Tuesday off, which won't work too well. I'm also not looking to have more kids and start a new family... just want to have fun and work on a committed, honest, balanced relationship that brings happiness to both our lives. It's ok if you have kids too as long as you are available on the weekends. Kids come first and I don't expect to take your time away from yours either. I'm looking for someone to spend time with, not a texting pen pal. I don't mind texting back and forth a little to make plans but prefer to meet for coffee or a drink right away. If the chemistry is there great, if not then we can both move on. Chemistry or attraction is very important, it's either there or not. I'm not a super model but I work out and swim so I expect someone who takes care of themselves as well. You also need to have a job, place and a vehicle. If you read this far and like my profile please *** lets get to know each other:) For a first date, I'm cool with meeting for coffee to see if there is a spark. If there is and we want to date again, I'm open to dinner or a movie or both. I'm not a picky eater, I love anything from Mexican to Sushi.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Aislin

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    **just because my profile says I'm online- doesn't mean I'M online. I let a few friends use my profile for "browsing". Don't worry- they don't check my ***!***So, I will answer the top 3 questions I get in ***, just so we are on the same page:1.No, I don't date men that are more than a few years younger than me. ***is my limit....2. No, i'm not mormon and no, I don't date active Mormons. Been there, done that, got the tee shirt.....yea, done with that.3. Why am I still single? I'm picky, and I don't want to settle. I'm looking for something special that you can only find once. I don't care how long it takes.Also, if you are a guy who is near my age and your "range" of girls you want to date includes girls in their 20's- then i'm definitely not the girl for you. I I know the difference age/life experience makes, and if thats where you are at, we are in two different places in life.Whew! Glad that's done! Moving on.....I seriously LOVE MY LIFE! I am truly happy person, energetic (okay, maybe hyper is a better word) super independent and confident. You get what you get with me, I don't believe in pretending to be someone that i'm not. What I am NOT is a party girl, high maintenance or needy. I learned that I have to do everything myself if I want it to get done. Maybe the right person can help me change my way of thinking ;)?What I am looking for? Good question! I will know it when I find it! You never know who you might meet and how they might affect your life. I've been alone for a LONG time and I know that I'm at the point where I want to share things with someone else. I'm a busy and crazy active girl and I always have fun stuff going on that I want to share with someone else. But I also like a little old fashioned romance and I hate being the only one doing the "inviting", which seems to be the case after the first date. I like Men with confidence and who go after what they want. I appreciate a man who takes "control" and wants to be in charge, whatever the situation. I am type A in business, but I don't want to be the "pants" in a relationship. I like a MAN who is rough around the edges, likes to get dirty, can take me in the backcountry and "wow" me with his outdoor skills. (I do have a "type" that I tend to go for- rugged with the facial hair...looks hot in jeans and a tee shirt and baseball hat. But I've been wrong before! Maybe that's the problem?)I am a 2nd degree black belt in Taekwondo and in 1st degree in tactical self-defense. Im looking for a new school to train with right now...and I'mMissing training!!(No, I won't kick your ass, so don't even ask) and I also see a trainer 2 days a week. So that being said, being active and being in somewhat good shape is important to me. I need someone who can keep up or even better- challenge me to keep up with them!!I have a daughter and she is my priority and my heart. She is with me most of the time and we are always doing something to keep us entertained and busy (when we aren't at tkd that is). She is also a 2nd degree black belt and she trains with me. We are super close and frankly, she totally rocks! I think that kids are the best thing ever!I absolutely LOVE water- and if I could live on a boat, I probably would. I am an advanced scuba diver and I love to go on dive trips. I have been to some greats destinations, but there are so many more I need to see! Never dove before? Okay, yes, I will be patient and wait for you to get certified.Some of my favorite activities? I love concerts (especially outdoors), REAL games (I am a season ticket holder), movies, just playing around at the park, long drives, anything in the mountains (hiking, camping, bbq-ing,), snowmobiling, boating, scuba, four- First dates are always interesting- so whatever makes you comfortable! I don't like coffee though- so lets not make it a coffee date, please?I'm always looking for something new to try.....

  • Jesus

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Women are like apples the best ones are at the top of the trees. The Men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. ***, they just get the rotten apples that are on the ground that aren't as good, but easy. So the apples at the top think there is something wrong with them, when, in reality, they are amazing. They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree... I've been blessed with a good life, but my search for someone to share it with has lasted far too long! I enjoy doing so many things, but everything is better when you do them with someone you like. I live in southern IN, in the country, this is where I will most likely stay due to my career & the school systems. I'm not looking to be taken care of, I've done a fine job on my own...I just want someone on the same page to share life with. If you are more than an hour away, it's probably not going to work... I believe on a first date it should be somewhere quite enough to talk. Maybe dinner & and a walk.

  • Felicitas

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Im laid back...enjoy getn to know sifferent people.....dont do drama!!! And no....im not into younger men!!... dumbasses and pervs need not apply!! Guys....always remember the first ....words spoken are always remembered..... make them count!!real girls aren't perfect and perfect girls aren't real!

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