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Pearline, 40

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About Me

"For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone." ~Audrey HepburnWant to feel butterflies again...I am looking to meet friends first and if a relationship develops even better. I believe a relationship is like many things and you get out of it, what you're willing to put into it. We reap what we sow... Without proper care and feeding, failure is inevitable. I am very calm, easy going and laid back. I get along well with just about everyone. I'm the mother of two, wonderful sons. They live with their father but spend holidays and part of the summer with me. I have always had a soft spot in my heart for bad boys but only from an image perspective. He must be successful in his chosen career, responsible, and open to a committed relationship if it reaches that point. I am not interested in hooking up or flings. I'm serious about finding someone charming, fun, witty, with a great sense of humor to share life with. If you aren't on the same page, keep looking... & Good luck to you. :) I enjoy going places and trying new things. Life is too short to waste time not living it. I enjoy reading, traveling, cooking, dining out, live music, going to the beach, walks in the park and spending time outdoors when the weather is nice. I like to have fun, period and that is more about who you are with than what you're doing usually. :) Aspirations: like to own/ride a Harley & Ha!Thank you for taking time to read my profile if you are interested in getting to know me.... Please let me know. If my profile offends you then you don't get me at all.., it says more about my sense of humor than anything. ;) p.s. I'm kind of a stickler for spelling and grammar. If you need an editor, I'm your woman. Ha. If you can't spell your profession, same thing... I know spell check doesn't catch it if you spell manager m-a-n-g-e-r so check it twice! :) Manger is what baby Jesus slept in. I know, I'm hardcore, right? Ha. My mom says don't correct people, it's rude & they hate it but I just can't help myself... These things jump off the page and scream at me. I corrected my English teacher in college! p.s.s. if you have shirt off, bathroom pics... It could be a deal breaker. Definitely don't want to see certain things in the background. Ha. If you're showing off tattoos or muscles... I'm not impressed... I'm more impressed with what you have to say, how well you entertain me, & whether you can make me laugh, keep me laughing and are willing to do what it takes to make me happy. If you are the one, no other woman will love you more or treat you better than I will. That is a promise... p.s.s.s. if you are discussing what you and others did or are doing or creating a caption for a pic of you and others... Here's the thing about whether it's I or me... Forget about the others and say the sentence without them. (i.e. This is a picture of my sons and I. Is this grammatically correct? NO! Why? ...because without them in the picture... This is a picture of me. NOT - "This is a picture of I.") If you totally get what I'm saying and think I'm an angel for it... You could be the one! Ha. One last tip, I before E except after C and in words like sleigh, weigh, height, freight... See the pattern here? "eigh." Don't get all defensive and feel the urge to curse me out in a message that contains all kind of errors either. If you don't see the humor in this or get it then we would not hit it off... I'm sorry. I won't really check all your messages. Haha. Don't be surprised if I make mistakes sometimes too... I'm human. ;) I'm speaking in generalities here. ;) I'm open to anything really... Coffee, drinks, walk in the park or downtown. It would be nice if it is a relatively quiet place so we can chat. I do enjoy being taken out for dinner! Jack Fry's is my favorite restaurant but I also like trying new places too. Comedy clubs & live music are great too!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Delana

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    We don't give out our hearts and friendship to play games with. Bottom line -- I desire a Christian husband and children to pour my life and love into.NOTE: Like most people -- I am posting on this site with my own specific preferences and personal desires. Without at least, meeting the basic preferential criteria there won't be a mutual attraction or match. Respectfully, I ask that you REALLY READ my whole profile before contacting me. New friends are great, but I am looking for a MATCH.JUST FOR THE RECORD:> I RARELY drink any type of alcoholic beverage.> I'm NOT desperately lonely, bored, or in distress. Not in need of someone to rescue me or pay my bills.> I'm NOT looking for someone to work on my car, my house, my land, or my life. I'm doing ok.> I'm on this site in hopes of connecting with a SINGLE WHITE CHRISTIAN MAN, whose desire is to become b e s t f r i e n d s AND p a r t n e r s - f o r - l i f e....( Some people call that a "husband" ).... My prayer is to connect with a Caucasian man who is serious about his Christian faith and relationship with God and family -- Who loves both, children and animals, as I do.> If you're just into "BIG Chicks" don't even bother writing... We are NOT a Match!! Dealing with the consequences of my past unhealthy choices has taken longer then I'd hoped, but it's working well!! (My "gym" membership is not to meet "Jim"!!) Wait till you see my new pictures! But if I'm out of your "radius" now - No problem. No reason to contacting me after my new pics are posted, either. Bottom line - If we don't match in basics, we're not a match.> If you are over weight or just right, don't let that alone stop you from contacting me. I was a cheerleading, played volleyball, basketball, baseball and soccer on teams for years. But I had a few injuries - some health issues - made bad choices and I got fat. Believe me. I understand, things can change! Still, when it comes to choices - I am very serious about living healthy. You must be too in order to be a Match! (It's about our future together.)I LOVE and WANT CHILDREN, but don't have any, yet. I hope to have my own wheither by birth or adoption asap. Although I cherish my role as an "Aunt" I want to be a "mom". I'd love to have a big family to care for. So, if you DON'T WANT children there is no need to contact me. If you do want children or already have custody of your own, but want more -- Keep reading....As a Christian, I love the Lord Jesus. I am loyal in devotions regarding my relationship to God, family and friends. I'm also serious and sincere in interacting kindly and caring towards others. Being considerate and respectful of other people's feelings, beliefs, wants, needs and personal boundries is part of who I am. As well, I appreciate the same courtesy.Though I'm VERY tender hearted, I am also a tough lady. I'm not stubborn, but I stand respectfully firm for what I believe is right. I'm confident, but not stuck-up or arrogant. Obviously not without faults, but I am stable in my personal life and career. One of my strengths is being fairly flexable. Though I'm a planner and goal oriented, I also enjoy spontaneity. Being a mature woman, I take responsibly for my choices. Rather then blame others for my mistakes, I deal with and learn from them.I am not a whiner! 'Hate being around people who seem to enjoy complaining! I prefer spending my time with fun people, who are kind, thoughtful and easy going. That's the type of person I choose to be. I'm happier for it!! I am also a very caring and generous person. I have solid boundries, yet I am charitable to a fault sometimes. But I do have a low-to-no tolerence for such things as pettiness, drama, greed, selfishness, arrogance, cruelty, hatefuliness and violence.To me life is not a game, but God made plenty of room for fun in it! And I am a fun friend with a good sense of humor. I'm also a strong woman of character and integrity, so all my "fun" is LEGAL!! (Lol... The only thing I smoke is BBQ.) I love "safe" adventure. I like trying new things - Seeing new places - Meeting new people. But I still appreciate the tried & true... Like faithful friends and favorite places. 'Love the outdoor activities from backyard to beach to mountians -- I love it all. Also like doing almost all the "Girly stuff" too. There is a time for cuddling by the fireplace, watching "Chick Flicks" or maneuvering the mall maddness that just excites my heart!There are to many fun things I enjoy doing to list them all. Then there is my wonderful crazy family to share!My dear father was born in Germany and still has family there. My beloved Polish/Ukrainian stepdad is a "Yankee" I have a big family, who live all over the USA and in Europe. I was blessed to have a muticutual upbringing. It was great! Though I enjoy travel throughout the states and abroad, siteseeing and visiting a host of family and friends - Though I enjoy various hobbies, outings, sports and music - As well, I am blessed to have reached many of my goals and aspirations. Still, my greatest desire is to share the joys and challenges of life with God's match for me -- as I pour my life and love into him and our children.I've never been married. It's exciting and kind of scary at the same time for me! So while I'm actively waiting -- Trusting God -- I'm looking forward to finally meeting my future husband and "best friend".Put this on your***!!!***page if you---!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!***know someone in the***!!!***armed forces or to***!!!***show your support***!!!***and respect to all***!!!***our troops Something we decide together.

  • Micki

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Please understand I have a small child, who is only 6 (& she is y I strive to be my best).... No active father..I'm mommy and daddy ***& we are a pkg deal...no ifs ands or buts. I've sacrificed alot trying to be the best mommy I can be..I also care for my 80 yr old mom and work full time... Now moving along.........1st of all I'm a practicing Christian, who believes the word and does my best to live by it....that scares alot of people off, but that is ok too.I love the Lord and want my life to be a reflection of that love. I do not always succeed at this, but I give it a heckuva shot. Prefer to date people with my like mindedness on this subject!My heart is guarded, I'm not cold, but I have to protect it because of the worthiness of my love...it's rare and extravagant...any man prooving himself worthy of it has truely obtained something special...plz dont interpret this as vanity because I am not vain at all....Fyi: if all ur pictures are of u at a club, bar or posing with a bottle of Henney, Ciroc or any other Liquor then u aren't ready for me....those things have their place, but not ***with me.....xoxoxoUpdate: if ur a redneck that has issues with my preference for non-Caucasian men or the fact that my daughter is bi-racial.....oh well guess what bite me cause I'm not interested anyway!!!! Somewhere we can sit and chat for a bit..possibly grab a coffee and some convo!PREFER TO ONLY DATE OUTSIDE MY RACE!!

  • Mignon

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    So i have been sitting here wondering his to re-do my profile. I've come up with this plan. Sports....watching live is better than televised. I will cheer you on. Two left feet makes me the worst player ever, but i will give it my all. Make up and dressing up is not a high priority for me, but will occasionally look great when the occasion calls for it. Jeans and a shirt is my comfort level. I like to run. Its fun. I do have a job that i enjoy. It helps me provide a good life for me and my four children. Socializing is great when i have the time. I have at least one kid with me all the time.What i do for fun and on my time off. Go to movies, write poetry, take interesting pictures, bake yummy goodies. Honest thing insert here. I am not one of those girls that is looking to be taken care of. I do not care what you do to make money as long as you enjoy what you do. I am fiercely independent and some may say jaded because of all the crap I've seen and been told. Friends first and more if we click. If you have gotten this far.....gold star for you!!!! you have no picture....please don't message me. seems only fair.

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