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About Me

IF YOU ARE AFTER SEX AND SEX ONLY DO NOT MESSAGE ME. I'VE HAD MANY GUYS ON THIS SITE ASK ME OUT YET WHEN I TELL THEM NO SEX THEY GET PISSY. WHAT HAPPENED TO GETTING TO KNOW A PERSON FIRST? I am a very honest,caring, and faithful lady that loves to have fun. I believe in the old fashion ways.I'm the type person that believes you must respect others to receive respect. I truly care about people and how they feel. This world has gone very careless and cold hearted these days. My biggest down fall in life is that I care way to much about the way I make someone feel with the things I do and say. The reason I say this is my biggest down fall would be due to people taking that and usen it against me, just to get what the want no matter the cost. There are way to many people like that. I just don't understand whats going on it there head. I guess that's a good thing that I do not understand it, other wise I might be one of them. But I will not let those people change the person I am. I just wish there where more people in today's world that would honestly care about others like that. More people that where honest, it's not that hard and that is one thing that is free. There would be a lot more people being much happier today and everyday. The USA most likely would not be in the shape or mess that it is in today. I would much rather be outside then in the house. The place I love being the most is at the lake. To me thatis the most peaceful place there is. So when I've got a lot on my mind I go there at night while it's quite,calm,and peaceful and set out under the stars watching the water repel. It's very relaxing!!!***\\\***Put this***On your***Profile if***Someone***\\\***You know***\\\***Who died***\***Of***\\***Cancer***\\\---or who maybe fighting it.REMEMBER THE FALLEN HEROS***!!!***Put this on your***!!!***page if you---!!!!!!!!!!!!!!***know someone in the***!!!***armed forces or to***!!!***show your support***!!!***and respect to all***!!!***our troops Have a nice dinner somewhere. If things where going great between the two of us and we enjoyed each others company. Then we would go to the lake, build a small fire under the stars,and watchthe waves from the lake fall upon the shore. As we spent time getting to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Synthia

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Life is good. It’s really good. There’s just one component missing. The perfect guy. Perfect *for me*, anyway… Perfection in general is boring and overrated. (Handsome, witty, sweet and a gentleman, though? Not overrated.:)Here’s the thing though… A lot of guys’ meetville profiles mention that they want someone who can “keep up” with them, and I am not looking for someone to keep up with or to keep up with me. I have a lot going on already. In addition to working quite a bit, we live in an incredible city; it’s hard not to want to be out exploring it every second of the day! Sporting events, the lakefront, restaurants, bars, museums… I’m looking to meet someone who will give me a reason to slow things down a bit. It would be super to meet someone who also has a great life and who will invite me to be a part of it and support whatever he’s into, but we don't have to share every interest or be out every night of the week together.… Fantastic! I’ll go out for wine night with the girls or stay in and read a book (dare I dream) and we’ll both be happy. But ideally, somewhere in the middle we’ll decide to stay in together and we’ll realize we don’t need to be “out and about” all the time to enjoy life in this city. Looking for a balance.I’m pretty well over the bar scene and 30, 40 and 50-something guys who are re-living college. Unfortunately that’s what my dating pool seems to have dwindled to but I am hopeful and optimistic that there is at least one guy left in the city who has grown up in lifestyle but isn’t afraid of getting a little silly with the right girl.Some additional facts you may or may not find useful:- I ditched my car about a year ago and am loving car-free life, so if you live outside the range of the CTA it could be tricky.-Though I am educated and have built a nice career and lifestyle for myself, I come from a very blue collar background downstate and carry those values with me. I like nice things, but I like great experiences more. - I have a cat.- I can be a bit of a contradiction. I've run with the bulls and jumped out of a perfectly good airplane, but spiders terrify me and I just got a new road bike that I refuse to put clipless pedals on because I'm afraid of falling off.-Bonus clue for those who actually read profiles: *** me must be ***characters or more in order to go through. That's about two standard sentences. If you're the guy, a couple sentences to make a good impression should be no problem.There is a lot more I could say about myself, but wouldn't it be more fun to sort it out over drinks or a walk through the zoo?Excellent. Good talk Russ. Drinks and a board game (Guthries!)? Wine tasting? A walk on the lakefront? The zoo? I'm pretty basic and am easily entertained in the right company. :)p.s. If I favorite you, it's not code for anything. It just means I'm interested but can't *** that particular moment.

  • Hyo

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Single mom of two girls, 15 and 8. Have been a nurse for almost 10 years. Love any outdoor activity. My favorite music is country but like all types. Looking for a best friend to turn into more. Anything else you want to know just ask. We can decide together.

  • Lavina

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Well, I'm a single mom of three teenage daughters. Now, if you're still reading, maybe you're the adventurous type too! :-) I've been divorced for ten years and think maybe it's time to give love another shot. I love to travel but staying home is always a good choice too. I work two jobs so for me to see the inside of my house is a relief some days. I love to ride horses, ride 4-wheelers, camp, hike, go for long walks, cuddle in the couch and watch a movie or just TV and cook. If you want to know more just ask!

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