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Shirlee, 32

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About Me

So here are my general thoughts on online dating. I see this as quite simply a way of meeting people that you might get along with (and possibly date) who you wouldn't have met otherwise. I'm not a big fan of the whole, let's do all the small talk online or over the phone - isn't that what first dates are supposed to be for? Plus then, at least if there is no connection you haven't already used up all the easy topics! I say, if we think we might have a connection, let's just meet, have a drink, and maybe see where things go. As Popeye would say, "I y'am what I y'am." I'm passionate about what I care about, empathetic, I try not to take myself or the world too seriously and I can easily laugh and myself and the ridiculous that is life sometimes, and I'm looking for someone who can as well. Overall, I'm looking for a guy who is witty, fun, and who could never be described as generic. I love intelligence without pretentiousnes and kindness with a sense of humor. Though it doesn't need to happen tomorrow, ultimately I am looking for a relationship and I'm looking for someone who wants the same. On a lighter note... "This guy goes to a psychiatrist and says, "Doc, my brother's crazy; he thinks he's a chicken." And the doctor says, "Well, why don't you turn him in?" The guy says, "I would, but I need the eggs." Well, I guess that's pretty much now how I feel about relationships; y'know, they're totally irrational, and crazy, and absurd, but, uh, I guess we keep goin' through it because most of us... need the eggs."-flicks in general...;.... Food: Sushi, Steak, Wine, Cheese, Bacon Other Stuff: Sociology, Fresh Flowers, Organization Stores (it's weird, I know), Flea Markets, Photography, Animals, Brunch Generally I like to meet somewhere for drinks and apps, if we like each other, we can continue to dinner, if not, we go our separate ways!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I am looking for someone to make me laugh! i have met guys who seem perfect, just havent been a perfect fit for me, or maybe i wasnt ready or they just weren't that into me lol. Honesty, laughter and communication are the most important. I've always been independent but am realizing life is crazy and goes by fast, I am just looking to find a guy that I can both be romantic with and describe as my best friend. Communication is a huge part of any relationship. Have to admit its not my strong suit but I am working on it! Something active and casual so you can get to know each other!

  • Miss

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I enjoy traveling and socializing with friend and family. I run competitively (on the treadmill and the person next to me doesn't know we are racing).I go to sporting events but I am still in my learning stage of sports...but always end up never watching the game :) I am career orientated, and I truly love what I do. I hope to find someone that also enjoys what they do. I have one son who 9. He is well-mannered and has been blessed with commonsense. When it comes to relationships, I tend to be a bit old fashion and still believe in the traditional man/woman roles which may or may not be uncommon nowadays. I am looking for someone that has a good heart and believes in common courtesy. Anything that doesn't scare me so much that I to want to run home, shut down my profile and never power on my computer again! Just kidding. Dinner and drinks would be fantastic.Perfect 2nd Date: You can teach me how to use the L and Metra and how to give mean looks to onlookers!

  • Allen

    Online

    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I'm pretty much a laid back kinda gal.. I love anything to do with the outdoors.. I have a son, he is 14.. We go fishing, Bowling, to the Movies, just hang out at the house shooting BB guns, playing with our dogs, going in the woods and things like.. When I get free time I like to go out with friends or just sit at the house and jam to the radio..LOL... I work in Home Health Care, I love helping the elderly and taking care of those who can't take care of them sevles.. My goal in life is to become a LVN.. It will take awhile, but I will accomplish it at my own pace.. I am me and all ME.. I dont act like someone I'm not. If you aren't true to who you are, you aren't really you.. I love all kinds of music just depends on what I'm doing and who I'm with to what I listen to..Don't message me looking for a hook up, or anything in that nature. I am NOT that kinda gal.. I respect myself better than that.. If you think on the third or fourth date you will get it then, dont think that either.. I want the person there for me.. I dont need a one night stand or anything like that, I have the one night stand under my mattress.. I dont need a man/woman for that, I want someone that will just want to be with me for me, not for sex.. Thanx.. UPDATE: DO NOT *** IF IM DTF. THE BOTTOM OF MY " about me" SAYS IT ALL. I'm NOT on here for a hook up, one night fling, or to make any kinda of fantasy come true. GET A LIFE OR FIND A INTERNET HOE THAT PLAINLY SAYS SHE IS HERE FOR THAT. I'm not. I want it all. A real man. Better yet, a man with a plan, not a boy with a toy. GET IT..?? GOT IT..?? GOOD..!! UPDATE AS OF October 14, ***.... Seriously............... whatever... why does every guy's conversation turn to holding or cuddling or been without sex so long.. I mean I know about all those things, I miss them too, but do y'all understand the more it's pushed on females, the less they want it..?! You don't even know me yet here you want to hold me... why.?! All cuz my pics. Well there's a lot, a lot more to me than the sex icon every one sees. I'm not here for that and don't want every conversation to turn like that.. if you honestly have nothing more to talk about that than, go read a book and expand your mind..!! For a first date...?!?!?! Humm, I'm really not sure, normally I leave that up to them, but if I had to choose what we did, it would be to go to a nice dinner, great place to talk and get to know each other, and maybe have a few drinks.

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