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Shirlee, 32

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About Me

So here are my general thoughts on online dating. I see this as quite simply a way of meeting people that you might get along with (and possibly date) who you wouldn't have met otherwise. I'm not a big fan of the whole, let's do all the small talk online or over the phone - isn't that what first dates are supposed to be for? Plus then, at least if there is no connection you haven't already used up all the easy topics! I say, if we think we might have a connection, let's just meet, have a drink, and maybe see where things go. As Popeye would say, "I y'am what I y'am." I'm passionate about what I care about, empathetic, I try not to take myself or the world too seriously and I can easily laugh and myself and the ridiculous that is life sometimes, and I'm looking for someone who can as well. Overall, I'm looking for a guy who is witty, fun, and who could never be described as generic. I love intelligence without pretentiousnes and kindness with a sense of humor. Though it doesn't need to happen tomorrow, ultimately I am looking for a relationship and I'm looking for someone who wants the same. On a lighter note... "This guy goes to a psychiatrist and says, "Doc, my brother's crazy; he thinks he's a chicken." And the doctor says, "Well, why don't you turn him in?" The guy says, "I would, but I need the eggs." Well, I guess that's pretty much now how I feel about relationships; y'know, they're totally irrational, and crazy, and absurd, but, uh, I guess we keep goin' through it because most of us... need the eggs."-flicks in general...;.... Food: Sushi, Steak, Wine, Cheese, Bacon Other Stuff: Sociology, Fresh Flowers, Organization Stores (it's weird, I know), Flea Markets, Photography, Animals, Brunch Generally I like to meet somewhere for drinks and apps, if we like each other, we can continue to dinner, if not, we go our separate ways!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Amber

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    A little about me, hmm... well I'm a busy mom with kids who are very sporty. Most of my time is spend being involved with my children an their sports. I'm looking to find a great man to share our lives with. I'm an independent woman who strives to give my children a good life. I'm very family orientated an would like to find a man who is to. I enjoy trying new things, an love to travel when I can. I'm not into the bar scene, an would perfer a man who isn't either but do enjoy dancing an having a nice dinner. I'm currently working on my BA in Criminal Justice, my thoughts were to continue in law enforcement but have recently had a change of heart, I'm leaning more towards working with abused an neglected children. Anyways when I have spare time i like to go for walks, spend the day at the beach, go to a car show or even a monster truck show. An yes i love football an hockey.. yup, weird huh? I love trying to get out an explore as much as the world as i can. A first date should entail a chance to have conversation, so we get a chance to know each other. So grabbing coffee or a lunch or even a walk would be a great way to start.

  • Jeanette

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    ***IF YOU ARE ONLY ON HERE IN PURSUIT OF VAGINA, PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME!!*****Does dating even exist anymore? Let's try to pronunciate slowly. D-A-T-I-N-G. I believe it's this obsolete thing where guys pick girls up and go out (yes, I actually said GO OUT) with them for awhile and they actually get to know eachother and see if things progress? I could be wrong on this, but from what I remember, that's what D-A-T-I-N-G entails. It, however, does not entail you sending me pictures of your junk, inviting me over your house the first few times we get together, and expecting sex because you bought me dinner. Wow, what a foreign concept. I'm kinda lost...??34 Year old female from NY, standing 5'8" tall with a very voluptuous figure. I have meat on me, so if you're not a carnivore, we won't work ;) I love to cook! And I'm damn good at it, so I definitely want a man who appreciates a good woman who can throw down in the kitchen (amongst other places)..heheI'd also like to say that I am a REAL female, meaning I was born with a vagina which is more than I can say for a lot of what I see on here lmao. Wow, I said vagina twice already, no wait 3 times now. I'm such a perv.If you don't have a picture, don't message me. This isn't ***scanning pics on aol. So "my scanner broke " as an excuse went out the window years ago lmao. Everyone has a picture, there is no reason you shouldn't.I'm interested in meeting tall, attractive men who are interested in dating with the intention of it possibly leading to something more serious. I AM NOT HERE FOR ONE NIGHT STANDS OR A FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS TYPE DEAL. I DO NOT THINK I CAN MAKE THIS ANY MORE CLEAR! I like TALL (Meaning 6ft and over..Hey I love to wear heels, but I have been known to make exceptions ;), White or light skinned Spanish, educated, well built guys... I also love when a guy has a scruffy look going on with some sweats/jeans a t-shirt and a fitted cap. I am definitely an arms girl! I love big arms. A sense of humor is a MUST. You have to be able to laugh at yourself (and others, lol) if we are going to click. I am not into the metrosexual thing at all. I want a man who looks like a man. A little hair on your chest never killed nobody. Tattoos are also a plus. I also like shaved heads, light eyes, and goatees. But,the most important thing, is a man who treats me with respect, knows how to appreciate a woman of quality, and is a gentleman. I don't know why you're on here, but I am on here to ACTUALLY meet in person eventually. If you want a penpal or just pictures, I'm not your girl. I don't want to have an online relationship with you and have your online babies. I want to see YOU in the flesh.I have been on and off of this site for awhile because I refuse to settle. I have a strong personality and I know what I want. There is no point in being with someone just to avoid being alone. I'd rather enjoy my own company than put up with bullsh*t or be with someone who I don't get along with. With that being said, I also have a very sweet, submissive, feminine side as well. I'm a complex person with multiple facets to my personality.I generally like to exchange *** I've heard every long drawn out story as to why almost every dude on here doesn't have a *** buying it. So, go do a clean sweep of your *** back to me. Hopefully anything where you don't wind up pissing me off lol

  • Bevin

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I'm a pretty laid back and independant woman. My sense of humor can be very sarcastic at times. I love being outdoors, working out, I enjoy watching sports and going to see bands or concerts. My family, friends and pets mean everything in the world to me. I want to date but I hope to find a person to have a relationship with. I don't want to play games or have someone lead me on. If we go out & you're not interested, just tell me. I'd rather you be honest. I am definitely not a girly-girl. You will rarely see me dress up in something other than jeans. My hair is up in a ponytail most of the time. I do care about my looks but I feel that don't need do my hair and put on make-up every time I leave my houseI listen to all kinds of music but I am into rock more than anything else. If you want to know anything else about me, just ask.If you have jealousy issues or have a problem with a girl having guy friends, we will not get along at all. If you smoke cigarettes or just looking for a sexual encounter don't even bother contacting me Dinner, a few drinks or a trip to the park if it's nice out

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