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Shalanda, 35

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About Me

I have been on this site for a little while now... and Ya I'm pretty much done with it. Guess I'm not what anyone out there is looking for. Honestly just kinda proves to me more that staying single is what's best. I have accomplished quite a bit on my own so I was just hoping to share life with someone...oh well A first date huh? I am at a loss...it has been way way way too long! Lol, I think maybe a nice conversation over a cup of coffee or other beverage would be nice. Just getting to know one another a little better. I could think of several romantic scenarios that could be nice and fun, but this is real life and not a fairytale.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Thu

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    So you would like to know a little about me? My friends would say I am full of energy and extremely positivity. I like to think that it is my passion for life and all the opportunties that lay before me that you can sense. Each day I try to practice positivity and thankfulness, even if it is over the simple things or maybe not simple, but smaller ones. I have a wonderful network of friends that I've built, a good family and friends that I've made my family. I believe that fostering friendships and relationships takes work, but makes life so much greater. What do I do? Well, I've learned to not let my work define me. However, I love what I do. I am always looking for ways to develop, challenge and learn. Can you keep up? With all that energy that my friends say I have, I use it to take care of my mind, body and yes soul :) I love hitting the gym, practicing yoga, going for a jog on the beach Most important things to me are balance, communication, trust and honesty. And that goes for everything...work, friends, family and relationships.

  • Jeannie

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Its impossible to state who I am in just a few sentences , but to those who are curious I am friendly, witty, smart, active, have a good sense of humor, doesn't that describe everyone ? lol. I am giving this a try to see what's out there, and who knows I just might find my match. I am looking for someone who shares the same outlook on life, similar goals and interests. Someone who is a best friend and a partner.!! If you do as well, that would be a huge bonus !! but not a deal breaker lol. If you would like to know more send me a message. Coffee or a drink. Something simple.

  • Allen

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I'm pretty much a laid back kinda gal.. I love anything to do with the outdoors.. I have a son, he is 14.. We go fishing, Bowling, to the Movies, just hang out at the house shooting BB guns, playing with our dogs, going in the woods and things like.. When I get free time I like to go out with friends or just sit at the house and jam to the radio..LOL... I work in Home Health Care, I love helping the elderly and taking care of those who can't take care of them sevles.. My goal in life is to become a LVN.. It will take awhile, but I will accomplish it at my own pace.. I am me and all ME.. I dont act like someone I'm not. If you aren't true to who you are, you aren't really you.. I love all kinds of music just depends on what I'm doing and who I'm with to what I listen to..Don't message me looking for a hook up, or anything in that nature. I am NOT that kinda gal.. I respect myself better than that.. If you think on the third or fourth date you will get it then, dont think that either.. I want the person there for me.. I dont need a one night stand or anything like that, I have the one night stand under my mattress.. I dont need a man/woman for that, I want someone that will just want to be with me for me, not for sex.. Thanx.. UPDATE: DO NOT *** IF IM DTF. THE BOTTOM OF MY " about me" SAYS IT ALL. I'm NOT on here for a hook up, one night fling, or to make any kinda of fantasy come true. GET A LIFE OR FIND A INTERNET HOE THAT PLAINLY SAYS SHE IS HERE FOR THAT. I'm not. I want it all. A real man. Better yet, a man with a plan, not a boy with a toy. GET IT..?? GOT IT..?? GOOD..!! UPDATE AS OF October 14, ***.... Seriously............... whatever... why does every guy's conversation turn to holding or cuddling or been without sex so long.. I mean I know about all those things, I miss them too, but do y'all understand the more it's pushed on females, the less they want it..?! You don't even know me yet here you want to hold me... why.?! All cuz my pics. Well there's a lot, a lot more to me than the sex icon every one sees. I'm not here for that and don't want every conversation to turn like that.. if you honestly have nothing more to talk about that than, go read a book and expand your mind..!! For a first date...?!?!?! Humm, I'm really not sure, normally I leave that up to them, but if I had to choose what we did, it would be to go to a nice dinner, great place to talk and get to know each other, and maybe have a few drinks.

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