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Marylin, 35
United States, Arizona, Payson

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I have been on here a while and feel the need to update my profile and makes some things very clear.I have no reason or desire to lie to you or lead you on. I am not here looking for a fling, to "hook up", or to be "friends with benefits". I am also not here to have any kind of anything with couples or a married person; I am just not that kind of girl.I am not completely closed off to the idea of meeting someone or finding something special, but I am skeptical and a bit guarded. I would just like to chat with/get to know others, as I find people quite interesting.About me: I am a mother of two teen girls and one teen boy. They come first before anyone or anything else; them and my puppy dog, Pinky. :)I have drama and baggage like everyone else. Everyone judges others, even if they say they don't, they do. I try to judge people by the way they treat me as well as those around them. I believe in things like "pay it forward", "do unto others as you would have done unto you", and "what goes around comes around". I am kind, caring, compassionate, accepting, loving, empathetic, patient, and have a sense of humor; these are things I look for in others as well. I am in no way perfect and have many changes to make; I have not accomplished as much as I feel I should have at this point in my life. I have "jacked up"/missing teeth and I have never weighed as much as I do now in my entire life, including when I was pregnant!! I have a long way to go, but I won't give up! :) I am also looking into going to college to improve myself , my odds, and to try to set a better example for my kids, to make a better life for us. Again.. a long way to go. :)I only have the 3 tattoos, but if I could afford it, I would be covered!! I love them, not only for myself, but on others as well. I am greatly disappointed in my chest piece and would like to get it fixed and things added to it one day. I also cannot, and do not, buy marijuana. However if it is offered, I will and do partake, thus the "social drug use" on my profile. I am completely convinced, and cannot be swayed, that marijuana should be legalized; there are far too many benefits, but unfortunately too many closed minds as well. A few other things you may want to know.. I have RA and feel a lot older than I am. There are days that I can barely move, but I am doing my best to cope with it. I am also on a "dread journey" and at this point (October '***I am about 6 months in. I said I would give it at least a year, which is how long they take to "mature", and am hoping that the craziness that is going on back there will make more sense and look better over the next 6 months!I am very shy, reserved, self-conscious, especially in person, until you get to know me better. I don't have any hobbies to speak of, but I do enjoy being outdoors in all season, excluding Winter; I am not a fan of being cold and tend to hibernate when it starts getting frosty outside.As far as music, I tend to gravitate towards 90's/alternative, but love most any kind of music. I am open to learning about, and listening to, anything new to me; though I may not like it, I will give it a chance! Music is magical and I cannot live without it! You may be wondering why I have written some of the things I have. I just want to weed out those that may not accept me as I am.. faults, quirks, baggage and all!That being said, I appreciate you taking the time to read my ramblings. If you're interested in chatting, send me a message and I will reply as soon as I can. :)Have an incredible day and good luck with whatever you may be searching for! :) If I actually had the courage to meet someone in person, I'm sure that we would find something that would make us both comfortable. Somewhere that we can have good conversation and lots of laughs in a relaxed atmosphere. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Caribbean Family & Kids Sport Soccer / Football Watching Sports
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