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Arin, 33

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Hi! I’m 33 and I'm the divorced mother of two children. My daughter is 10 and my son is 12. So please know that means I am looking for something that might turn into long term. I have found that humor gets us thru our worst problems and I have a tendency to use it in everyday life. I work full-time and do have a family so if you are looking for someone who will be around all the time I’m probably not the right choice for you. I have learned to be independent at this point in my life so that might be one of my downfalls (just so you are warned ahead of time). I’m really just looking for someone who I make happy and who makes me happy. I am a smoker but I don’t do drugs and I will not go out with anyone who thinks that drug use is acceptable. Wow now that you are probably thinking I’m completely negative about life in general, I try to be more positive ;)I love reading and books. I love kids and their smiles. I love seeing beauty in flowers and sunsets. I really am a happy person. I love hearing people laugh, it is always contagious! I love comedy and scary movies.I enjoy acting silly and having fun, there is always enough time to be serious later on, although I know to stop when it is inappropriate. I am shy at first meeting someone face to face or online, but seem to come out of it after I feel more comfortable so please, please be the initiator. Oh and only positive guys please. Some of you seem so angry and I'm don't want to spend all my time trying to make you laugh when it's an impossible mission.OK just as a random though or couple of thoughts...Where is your smile? Such swerious (spelt wrong on purpose) pictures! Smile big and be happy, laugh real loud! Guaranteed it will make you feel better. ;)I do like tattoos because I have 2, they ARE like potato chips, but mine aren't out there because I got them for my happiness.I'm not a big fan of heights oooorrrr stinkbugs (they drive me nuts, you kill one and then there all of sudden is 20 behind you.)I’m not big into sports but that is something I’m willing to change if you like them.I was originally a dog person but somehow or another I ended up with 3 cats, I don’t know how that happened…I really don’t have any ex’s in my life even my children’s father is off the grid except for an annual phone call so you don’t have anything to worry about.I think allergy season stinks, but I love that spring is finally here.Oh I love flowers but my thumb is completely black…maybe I love them too much? LOL I'm honestly happy just having an easy going first date with no stress.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

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