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Monta, 28
United States, Arizona, Lake Havasu City

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About Me

I ask for you to step out of your bubble of standard pick up lines and expectations. Use your mind, your imagination and intrigue me. I seek intellectual stimulation, creative inspiration and positive company. I'm here, there and fairly busy working on building my career & going to school. I intend to be single for quite a while. Intrigue is stimulated in my mind by a particular kind of man. In time I will be open to pursuing something serious with a man who has taken the time to be my friend first. I know what I want, I am not a spoiled brat or high maintenance. I'm a complex individual who is a dreamer with a practical side, easy going yet feisty, adventurer & hermit, *** a last minute multi tasking procrastinator who closes the deal. When I have deeper interest in a man I must know he is a good communicator, stable, supportive and successful in his own life & takes time to find interest in my life. I am a single mother of one and have never been married. I do not have drama attached to my family life and I ask that the same is for you if you have children. There is daily drama in most people's lives but I prefer to live in peace rather than war to set a good example for my daughter. I'm not interested in childish games, the unemployed, no car, bored, horny, shallow or easy guys. We all have challenges in life. I am seeking someone who is grounded from those experiences, not tormented by them. I want to involve healthy influences in my life. I spent the last 5 years getting in shape and changing my lifestyle and prefer to stay active. Stagnancy IS death! I don't have a mainstream "ideal" body due to past history of being over weight. I am confident in my skin & my curves despite what some might consider Imperfections. Narrow minded fools are not worth my time if they are looking at life in square terms. Preferences are natural, don't waste my time & I promise to not waste yours. I take pride in the lessons I've learned. I will admit I'm more attracted to taller men but I've been with all shapes and sizes. I would like to chat enough to get a sense of whom I might meet. I would like to date someone who can carry on a conversation, intrigue me and give me a sense of curiosity that does not dissipate too quickly. I am old school and would like to go on a date with a man who is going to respect me as a lady and treat me to a nice evening. I can honestly say I have rarely been spoiled by a man. I must say I'm starting to believe those kind of men exist. I have standards but that does not mean I'm a stick in the mud, nor is there a stick up my butt. I've experienced a variety of relationships and I'm not looking to fill a void. I want more than the mundane so I'm open to your suggestions. Ask me questions, tell me about your passions or hide in the shadows and never know. I could spoil the fun and tell you more about me but I'd rather be pursued with imagination, genuine interest and good taste. Plus wheres the challenge for you if I tell you everything? I prefer to remain some what of a mystery. That is until "you" are able to soften this stone heart of mine lol. This Piscean lady is a good catch ;). Possibly a mellow dive bar where we can chat & play pool? A nice walk through the city or by the river. The art walk, some good wine & dinner would be ideal as well. Intrigue me, I want to be surprised & date someone I can relate to in life.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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