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Vanita, 30

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About Me

Hi! Thanks for stopping by. I decided to streamline the important items of what I'm looking for/not looking for. This isn't meant to offend anyone, rather to just be a direct guide to my preferences. Please read this before you message me! Happy Fishing! :) What I'm looking for:-Someone who knows the difference between your and you're; to, too, and two; there, they're and their. While this might seem trivial to some, we are adults. If you don't know the difference and can't use them correctly then I'm not interested. -Someone who is serious about getting to know me and not just looking for a one night stand or fling. -Someone who takes care of themselves. I'm going to the gym ***days a week depending on my schedule and would expect whoever I'm with to care at least that much about themselves and their health. This doesn't mean you have to be ripped by any means, I'm just looking for someone that will encourage me and take their physical appearance seriously as I'm working to improve my own. -Someone who has a career, car, and motivation to succeed. -Someone who wants kids. I want kids and if you don't, we aren't going to be a match. I don't mind if you already have kids (if there is no drama with their mother), but if you don't want any more then we are not a match. -Someone who likes tattoos. I have 5 and plan on getting more. -Someone who likes cats. I have one and he's awesome! (I also like dogs.) What I'm NOT looking for:-If you smoke, please don't message me (this includes cigarettes and pot. I have zero tolerance for either) -If you do drugs, please don’t message me. Also, I don't mind having a drink every now and then. If you drink every night or drink to get drunk please don't bother messaging me. -one night stands/sex based relationship. Don't get me wrong, sex is an important part to a relationship... but it's not the only part. I will not engage in sex or sexual acts randomly with just anyone. If that's what you're interested in, please don't waste my time. -someone who is going to waste my time. My time (and your time) is valuable. If you say you want to meet, pick a time and follow through. I don't want or need a pen pal and don't want to waste my time talking to you if you are just bored at work. I'm honest, almost to a fault. Tell me the truth, there's no point in lying! -A gamer. I don't play video games (honestly, I suck at them... even mario.) They are fun in small quantities, but I don't want to be with someone who has to have every new game and play it all night every night. -oh! And if any of your pictures are of you sporting the 'duckface'.... it's not cute when girls do it and it's not cute when guys do it either!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jerri

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    Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 23-33

    Hunting,fishing,swimming,cuddling music,poker,my kid

  • Valencia

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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    Well, I am the program director at a gymnastics facility. In all honesty, i love my job. I am very lucky to get up every day and do something i enjoy. I am very close with my big Italian family. Especially with my niece and nephews. I also have a dog and a cat. I have a BA in lib arts and a AA in musical theater. I still preform in theater productions for fun and enjoy helping out in the other areas of the theater, like costuming.I'll try anything once and twice if I like it. If you're worried about what people think about u I am most likely not the girl for you. It makes life more fun! For fun I preform in theater productions, dancing, go to the beach, among other things. Whats really important to me is honesty.thats all i can ask for because when you have that everything else falls in place. Lets get past the first ***

  • Wendolyn

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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    I am a divorced mother of two. My children will come first, but I would love to have a good man to share in our lives and grow to become someone I love as much as them. I am actively involved in my child's school on the PTO board and also volunteer at a nature center infirmary helping care for sick, injured, and orphaned wildlife. I have recently gone back to school (online, so I can "go" to class in my pajamas, on the couch, at midnight, watching Leno) in effort to obtain my paralegal certification after several years working as a legal assistant. I am quite the child when it comes to wildlife. It will never cease to amaze me to see a deer in my yard. While I see creatures in my yard every day (some pretty amazing ones some days!), I feel privileged each and every day I can witness them. It is even more of a privilege to be able to handle them when I work at the nature center. I love to watch certain shows and especially enjoy classic films. I have had two long-term relationships in my life, and I say this to emphasize that I don't do casual/flings. I am a one man girl and want to find that one person I can be with, be myself with, and not be afraid of. That being said, I have a history, like most people do, and I know what I don't want. Please, don't smoke, use/abuse drugs, have a criminal past, use me as your punching bag, and especially don't lie to me. Please, do have a healthy sense of humor. I love to laugh. Yes, I would like a father figure for my kids. They need a POSITIVE male in their lives. Someone who can help teach them things I cannot do alone. No, I will not let anyone meet my kids early on. They are my whole world, so I will keep them shielded until I feel comfortable and have a sense of longevity in a relationship. They don't need people coming in and out of their lives any more than I do, so don't even think about asking to meet them right away. Just believe that it isn't anything to be taken personally if I don't want you to meet them for a long time. They deserve the best. For me to get involved with someone requires an understanding that we are a package deal. I don't want to be with someone who merely tolerates them. I want them to have someone who genuinely wants to be a part of their lives some day: play ball, attend tea parties, help with homework, tuck them in, etc. I don't say this to scare anyone away, I say this to show that I am looking for a permanent relationship, a partner, and to ensure that if someone is interested in me they know they might take on this role if things work out well. I will say what I mean, and most of the time I will say things that need to be said in a tactful and thoughtful way. I try to be a good person, and I work hard to do the right things for my family. I'm just a real girl, with a real body (two children later, it is what it is), with real issues, and a real heart longing for someone who can appreciate it. I want to be with a man who can handle a woman who appreciates having her own identity while enjoying the companionship of a man who compliments her positive and negative traits. If you're still with me after that, and aren’t running scared, send me a message.*If you smoke, do not contact me.*If you cannot pass a background check or a drug test, do not contact me.*If you cannot write with real words, please don't contact me. I don't like "text-speak." "U" and "R" are letters. Letters are used to compose words. I enjoy words. My grammar may not be perfect, but I try to use language properly. No, I'm not a **** for not wanting to communicate when you send me a message with "ur" in place of "you're" or "your." I choose not to spend time with someone who will annoy me. It just wouldn't work between us.I will not accept being treated with anything less than love, respect, and dignity; and I shouldn't have to. I'm not perfect, but I'm worth it. On a first date, I would like to get a nice cup of coffee, or maybe dinner. A walk through a pretty park, any time of the year, creates a peaceful atmosphere for getting to know one another. Movies and concerts are not conducive to good conversation. Asking me to do something at 7:30 on a Saturday evening just tells me your first plans backfired. Please, don't be that guy. I don't expect anyone to only date me, but if your first plans are cancelled, suck up the lonely night; don't expect me to give up my comfy pajamas and tv (because this is the plan I made for myself if I have no other plans) as your second choice. Just don't lead me on, pretend you're interested because you haven't found anyone better yet, or break a date with me for someone else. We girls find out about these things one way or another. Be the kind of guy you would want your daughter to date. I want to date someone (one person) and have a relationship, but I'm not desperate. And don't pretend to be interested and imply you're interested in seeing me again if you're not. I can actually handle the truth and don't need to be be dropped like dead weight. You can say, "Hey, it was nice to meet you, but I'm not interested anymore." I really don't need to be told you want to see me again and stop communicating. Be civilized and honest. That's what you'll get from me.

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