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Madelyn, 28
United States, Connecticut, Colchester

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About Me

If your pictures are OLD, please don't message me. You may think you look the same, but chances are pretty high that you don't look anything like you did in ***. (And if you are trying to misrepresent yourself, please be smart enough to crop out the dates from your old school photos...) Shanku, I appreciate it! ;)*********************Ultimately I'm looking for my missing puzzle piece. I'm happy on my own, but know there's no boundaries to how much happiness we attain. I would love to find that special someone to share life's biggest moments with. I'm looking for my best friend, someone who's got my back, and someone I can trust with my heart. A guy who complements my life, not complicates it. Someone who enhances my good qualities and compensates where I might lack [and vice versa].Character, integrity, loyalty, honesty and intelligence...that's what I'm looking for."...I'm quirky, silly, blunt, and broken. My days are sometimes too dark, and my nights are sometimes too long. I often trip over my own insecurities. I require attention, long for passion, and wish to be desired. I use music to speak when words fail me, even though words are as important to me as the air I breathe. I love hard and with all that I have, I want to believe everyone is a good person...and even with all these faults, I am worth loving."I volunteer at a local veteran's shelter and wish I had time to do more things of the like. My experience with those guys has been invaluable to me in terms of personal growth. I'll be heading to graduate school soon for my Masters in Art Therapy. I'd like to find someone who loves their career and maybe even feels like it gives them a sense of purpose in their life. Whether you love or hate your career, that affects everyone close to you, so I find this fairly important.*********There may be a possibility that I'm NOT the girl for you, IF you:-are needy, whiny, and/or struggle with simple day-to-day tasks-consider all your ex's "****es", "sluts", "skanks" or "dumb hoes" -have no life goals or no motivation-don't find continual learning/ personal growth important-would be okay sitting on the couch all day, every day-are a regular at your local bars-are socially inept; awkward-don't have a job/career/ or income of your own (trust fund babies welcome though...haha I'm only kidding!)-can't communicate (uh, arhg, err,and eh...do not count as competent communication skills)-aren't over your ex- girlfriend or wife-are looking for a girl that will assist in making your twisted sexual fantasies come to life.-aren't emotionally stable (tri-polars, schizoids, manics, and stalkers need not apply.) Anything that allows for us to strike up a good conversation! =)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Jazz Rap Salsa American Indian Mexican Thai
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