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Shaylee, 33

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About Me

ok let me update this a little. I am a very responsable hard working mother of 3. After moving around alot in the past 10 years i have finally found my home. family is very important to me. I love the outdoors except for when its cold. I listen to all types of music and am always open to hearing something new. i guess im not much of a girly girl im not afraid to get my hands dirty or to break a nail, which is good seeing as i dont have long nails to begin with. Im not high maintenance at all, im to busy spending every penny i have just to make sure my kids have what they need I come last and wouldnt want it any other way. I was raised in what most people would call a tv family, my parents are still married, me and my sister grew up eating dinner together at the table at a set time every night and saying grace before the meal. I try to raise my children in the same fashion. Im not looking for a "suger daddy" on here or to hook up with some guy just hitting drinking age. so if you wanna know anything else just ask. or if you think we have something in common send a message and we will talk. my idea of a first date would be to go out to eat at a nice restraunt and talk and get to know one another. if i have a good time and think we have things in common maybe i will kiss on the first date. but dont expect much more than that because im not that type of girl.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Merilyn

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Don't like drama. Love to laugh, enjoy good conversation, friends, good joke, arts, books, travel, good food (will try anything as far it is not overcooked, can be raw, and despite my small frame and femininity can enjoy a good steak once in a wile). If you can cook or at least help me to cook it's a plus :). Have wide variety of interests, very good sense of humor, never boring. Can be very active but also enjoy quiet moments. Can really listen to other people without imposing my own opinion. Appreciate all good things in life and cherish every good moment. Very grateful to the people who is good to me, do not have enemies. Smart, sharp and wit (this is what the other people saying). My pictures are current. The way you see me on the pictures - it is the way I look every single day all my live (minus evening dresses and Halloween costume), can wear jeans if I really have to, but like to dress up (don't worry - I am not full of myself, some times can call myself an idiot but not going to allow anybody else to do so :) ). Really enjoy being a WOMAN. Very feminine but not uptight. Despite being in committed relationship for about 30 years, I'd used to be one women among guys (practicing surgery - it is mostly man's profession, sometimes very cynical), so I get guy's jokes and sense of humor. I am not prissy at all and you don't have to find "special woman subjects" in conversations. I can discuss fashion and shopping with my girlfriends if it is boring for you. I treasure commitment, intimacy, sharing, mutual respect and trust. Don't like to play games. The life has to be enjoyable for both sides, and I really believe in reciprocation. You are good to me, I definitely will be good to you. Soul-mates, partners in life. Both have to be genuinely interested in each other and try to make each other happy - reciprocation is a key word and it has to come from the heart...Have to be intellectually equal (I am not even talking about education - a person can be educated and have no intellect, but still - I do have 2 dr's degrees), otherwise - it doesn't work, no matter how hard and how long you'll try to make it work - eventually it will fall apart.- no initial, even very strong chemistry will work - it WILL fade away....I am looking for a "mensch" in my life, why also can make me smile and be my best friend.Also - I am a great believer in chemistry, so if I don't see your face, your eyes and your smile (AKA - NO PICTURE***I can not talk to you or you just can be married :). I am really tired of accusations in superficiality because I am refusing to communicate with people without pictures. I understand that the human soul is the most important thing, but in the same time I am absolutely sure that no sane man would contact me if I wouldn't have pictures posted, so please, let's level the playing field. Women are humans too. If you are a busy professional and have a life - it's as inconvenient for you as it is for me, sorry...Because I was raised as a Woman, I feel kind of strange contacting a man first - it's just my "thing", the rest of me is normal - lol-(if I checked your profile, it might be because I'd liked what I'd seen), so if you like my profile - make a move first, please, just a couple of your own words. I promise - I not going to be nasty... And if I am not answering - please don't hold a grudge against me. You can be the nicest person in the world for somebody else, but we all looking for somebody to light our fire, if it doesn't feel like it- it's just not happening, but some times worth to try, you never now. No harm done...PS. I am looking for my male counterpart and as you can see - I am taking care of myself. I expect the same from the man. When you look like a "schlepper" even on the first date - it's a turn off. It's not because I am shallow and can't see the man's soul behind the disheveled appearance. I want to be proud of the man I am with and it includes the whole package. Sorry, if I am offending anybody...PPS. My first language is Russian, I am fluent in English and very Americanized, long time in the country, but common culture and upbringing is very important to really click, soo... if you speak Russian - it's a big plus Nice and quiet, have to talk, let chemistry do the trick...

  • Kat

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    On-line dating... hmmm. Well, I'm here to hopefully find that "connection" with an all-around awesome guy to enjoy life with & that has similar interests and goals. Maybe even fall in love if it's meant to be. Till then though, it would be great to meet some interesting people. What to say? #1, I like to laugh and enjoy my time surrounded by good company. Other than that... cold beers on a hot summer day, hot tubs any time of year, lounging watching a movie, nights out on the town, trying new restos, spending time with friends, new experiences, traveling etc... not to mention I feel that life is incomplete without a dog. I'm generally easy-going & feel that mutual respect should be given at all times. I'm typically attracted to the athletic, masculine, extreme sports type of guy (with or without tattoos), honest personality mixed with a good sense of humour, a kind-heart and someone who has his morals in check. My overall goal: to be successful and happy in all areas of my life. Take care! Stress free & no expectations.

  • Edit

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I love SUP, hiking with my dogs, biking, yoga, working out, cooking, reading, coffee, the NFL, art festivals, and auctions, fairs, and just hanging out kind of fun. I go to church on Sunday's, and love being with my parents, friends, and get togethers at home where everyone can socialize. I like certain crafts and paint floor cloths.I have been a part of people's healing and helping educate others to become more healthy for the past 16 years. That is what I am most proficient at.Most types of music I enjoy with just a couple of exceptions. I prefer small venues to large concerts. Great talent in small places happen lots of times and are much more fun.We all are unique in many ways, the other person just needs to see it in others (me) and know that.NOOO SMOKING..no drama....please. Thanks Y'ALL ...Happy end to the search for all of us. A comfortable first meeting for me is over coffee, early to mid morning and chat to see if we are at ease and if it goes well set up maybe something of a more "real" date. First dates can be a bike ride, hot air balloon ride, dinner, a hike with my dogs, a SUP lesson, snow shoeing, or a yoga class meet up. Really there are endless endless things to do.

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