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Melva, 33

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About Me

Into stealing pirate ships and sailing to deserted islands maybe saving a whale or two?? I'm down :) There are two things I can't live without, laughter and hugs! I'm told I'm an amazing cook and I believe it :) I'm looking for someone who likes to be active and who will tolerate me working out ***hours a day so that I can reach my fitness goals. We would both benefit in the end :)... I love the gym and my dance classes but I also like to swim and ride my bike go hiking etc. It being almost summer I love beaches and Bon fires I go with friends and even by myself at times. I love all kinds of music! Music is a part of my everyday life...I might be blurting out some silly song I just made up or just playing the guitar or blasting Gangster Rap in my car. I love all kinds of music.... 80's, Country, Hip Hop, Classical Rock, Reggae. I just love it all!Smiling and laughing are my favorite. I have the worlds worst deep down belly laugh. I'll never be able to go to a comedy club! Ever! Saddens me deeply heheheI'm more spiritual than religious and I have my own view and I expect you do also. I carry positive energy everywhere I go and I can bring light into the darkest places with just a smile :-) just be happy! My all time favorite quote comes from my 3 year old niece..... "lets play and you be you and i'll be me" everyone should live this way! Disclaimer: i'm a work in progress....I'm always late and it takes me 2 hours to get ready but I can be ready in 30min if needed. I get side tracked and I always over think things. I have absolutely no sense of direction! I'm always lost and which ever direction i'm facing i consider North. Right? I'm into adventures and love a good challenge! I'm very strong willed and never give up on what I really want. I have self confidence about me that you wont find in any other. My heart is big (to a fault). I'm sorry upfront but if you fall I will laugh and if you get hurt in the process I will laugh even harder! I love sports but I know nothing about them. My friends taught me to play pool... The white ball goes in the hole "i win" nice friends I have. It's safer to stand in front of me rather behind me when I'm playing darts. My golf club usually fly's farther than my ball. Bowling anyone? I got a strike once... In the lane next to mine. Does that still count? Now, what I can do is throw a football and kick a soccer ball, surf, snow board, wake board, volley ball... ok the volley ball might be a joke but i get confused between volley ball and tennis. Love Me or Hate Me... Either way i'm always on your mind! P.S. I know this is probably the longest profile you'll ever come across on meetville but lets be honest and admit that your some what saddened by the fact that it's over??? Come on... Showing a little emotion is okie :) Conversation over wine would be good but I would prefer something different something that makes us BOTH uncomfortable and insecure! Maybe... Shark diving? YES! let's go SHARK DIVING! That sounds like a blast! If we survive we can lay in the sand laughing about how we almost "ALMOST" died. Good times...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Merilyn

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Don't like drama. Love to laugh, enjoy good conversation, friends, good joke, arts, books, travel, good food (will try anything as far it is not overcooked, can be raw, and despite my small frame and femininity can enjoy a good steak once in a wile). If you can cook or at least help me to cook it's a plus :). Have wide variety of interests, very good sense of humor, never boring. Can be very active but also enjoy quiet moments. Can really listen to other people without imposing my own opinion. Appreciate all good things in life and cherish every good moment. Very grateful to the people who is good to me, do not have enemies. Smart, sharp and wit (this is what the other people saying). My pictures are current. The way you see me on the pictures - it is the way I look every single day all my live (minus evening dresses and Halloween costume), can wear jeans if I really have to, but like to dress up (don't worry - I am not full of myself, some times can call myself an idiot but not going to allow anybody else to do so :) ). Really enjoy being a WOMAN. Very feminine but not uptight. Despite being in committed relationship for about 30 years, I'd used to be one women among guys (practicing surgery - it is mostly man's profession, sometimes very cynical), so I get guy's jokes and sense of humor. I am not prissy at all and you don't have to find "special woman subjects" in conversations. I can discuss fashion and shopping with my girlfriends if it is boring for you. I treasure commitment, intimacy, sharing, mutual respect and trust. Don't like to play games. The life has to be enjoyable for both sides, and I really believe in reciprocation. You are good to me, I definitely will be good to you. Soul-mates, partners in life. Both have to be genuinely interested in each other and try to make each other happy - reciprocation is a key word and it has to come from the heart...Have to be intellectually equal (I am not even talking about education - a person can be educated and have no intellect, but still - I do have 2 dr's degrees), otherwise - it doesn't work, no matter how hard and how long you'll try to make it work - eventually it will fall apart.- no initial, even very strong chemistry will work - it WILL fade away....I am looking for a "mensch" in my life, why also can make me smile and be my best friend.Also - I am a great believer in chemistry, so if I don't see your face, your eyes and your smile (AKA - NO PICTURE***I can not talk to you or you just can be married :). I am really tired of accusations in superficiality because I am refusing to communicate with people without pictures. I understand that the human soul is the most important thing, but in the same time I am absolutely sure that no sane man would contact me if I wouldn't have pictures posted, so please, let's level the playing field. Women are humans too. If you are a busy professional and have a life - it's as inconvenient for you as it is for me, sorry...Because I was raised as a Woman, I feel kind of strange contacting a man first - it's just my "thing", the rest of me is normal - lol-(if I checked your profile, it might be because I'd liked what I'd seen), so if you like my profile - make a move first, please, just a couple of your own words. I promise - I not going to be nasty... And if I am not answering - please don't hold a grudge against me. You can be the nicest person in the world for somebody else, but we all looking for somebody to light our fire, if it doesn't feel like it- it's just not happening, but some times worth to try, you never now. No harm done...PS. I am looking for my male counterpart and as you can see - I am taking care of myself. I expect the same from the man. When you look like a "schlepper" even on the first date - it's a turn off. It's not because I am shallow and can't see the man's soul behind the disheveled appearance. I want to be proud of the man I am with and it includes the whole package. Sorry, if I am offending anybody...PPS. My first language is Russian, I am fluent in English and very Americanized, long time in the country, but common culture and upbringing is very important to really click, soo... if you speak Russian - it's a big plus Nice and quiet, have to talk, let chemistry do the trick...

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I love SUP, hiking with my dogs, biking, yoga, working out, cooking, reading, coffee, the NFL, art festivals, and auctions, fairs, and just hanging out kind of fun. I go to church on Sunday's, and love being with my parents, friends, and get togethers at home where everyone can socialize. I like certain crafts and paint floor cloths.I have been a part of people's healing and helping educate others to become more healthy for the past 16 years. That is what I am most proficient at.Most types of music I enjoy with just a couple of exceptions. I prefer small venues to large concerts. Great talent in small places happen lots of times and are much more fun.We all are unique in many ways, the other person just needs to see it in others (me) and know that.NOOO SMOKING..no drama....please. Thanks Y'ALL ...Happy end to the search for all of us. A comfortable first meeting for me is over coffee, early to mid morning and chat to see if we are at ease and if it goes well set up maybe something of a more "real" date. First dates can be a bike ride, hot air balloon ride, dinner, a hike with my dogs, a SUP lesson, snow shoeing, or a yoga class meet up. Really there are endless endless things to do.

  • Meridith

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    **its sad that I have to add this but apparently I do.....I am not looking for a 1 night stand!!!**I'm a single hard working mom.....I work full time and own my own business...unfortunately that doesn't leave room for a lot of free time so when I get the chance I'm helping out my son with the things he's involved in and hanging out with friends....I like many different activities from reading to repelling...Life is full of challanges, most people are afraid to take a chance but i say... Bring it on!I'm looking for someone that is ok with the fact that I want to stand on my own two feet, i dont need someone to take care of me, however i would like someone to hang out with and share what life has to offer. Who knows maybe we'll become best friends or maybe even more.If you would like to know more send me a message.... I hope to hear from you soon Only time will tell

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