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Shawnta, 52
United States, West Virginia, Wheeling

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About Me

Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections.?.... I believe this is the part that I am supposed to be witty and charming. I love adventure as much as I love being around the house. I have a passion for travel, cooking, being active and outdoors. I work out and am working very hard to go into my older years hanging on to that ?you can?t be in your 50?s? look. That does not mean I am vane, it just means I try to live a healthy lifestyle. I am super active and love the outdoors... This last year has been pretty exciting, I feel like I have grown up so much, became very grounded. Physically and mentally! Seems kind of odd to say that at 52 but it is so true. We are never too old to change into who and what we want to be. I am a mom to 2 fine young men that I'm very proud of. Now that my boys are older it has been a real transition getting to do a few things that are not "kid orientated". My sons are such a big part of my life, it is just the dynamics change as they get on with the next chapter of theirs. Now that I am playing my back 9, it is time to really do all the things I have dreamed of doing that I have not already done. It would be nice to have that person that one wants to grow old with to do those things with. I know you must have a list of things you would love to do too!I have been blessed with a wonderful career that allows me the freedom to work from any place I would like. I'm not into drama or games period! I am very clear on who I am, what I want and the importance of confidence, honesty, core values and flexibility. I am just me and as we all would like to think, we are that special me for that special someone! I am not into the bar scene at all! I do not drink, do drugs or smoke or find hanging out in a night club to be a good time! I think there are much better things to do with our time and our bodies.... It's a bit difficult to take a 3 dimensional life and put it in the 2 dimensional words of a profile. The best way to find out how simplistic or complex an individual is would be by getting to form your own opinion. Nothing I write will change what that face to face experience will offer. About the one I'm looking for... I am looking for someone who can rock a great pair of jeans as well as be dynamic in a suit or relax in sweats. Someone who is sound, honest and passionate and has a solid relationship with god. did I happen to mention emotionally available? And, have a great sense of humor! Have you learned and let go from your previous relationships? I sure would hope at this age we all have! Someone who believes that true love still exists.... Are you someone who is not into serial dating or just looking for a quickie? If you are looking for someone who is perfect, I am not it... I am 5' 9" and super curvy and just a regular gal! All my pics are VERY recent and I do not know how to use photo shop! Life is too busy and too short to have such little value for our most precious commodity that can not be replenished... TIME! I bet you read that in most of the profiles you have already gone thru. Funny how that works. If you are passionate, driven, positive, looking for a real one on one relationship, not into games or serial dating and have great balance between high energy and relaxing, confident, don't smoke and are grounded with who you are, what you do, what you want and where you want to be, then please contact me. I have the same to offer to the right partner and would love to share some special time together.I really believe you cannot choose love, love will choose you! Chemistry is not forced, it just happens. It is all about the company!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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