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Quella, 29

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I'm a mom, I have 2 children full time. I CAN make time for dating if I feel you're worth it and if there's potential... I'm not 21, single and kid free like I once was. So if I'm talking to you, I'm most likely interested, and if you want to take me out, I'll need to know when so I can make arrangements for my children. But I can't up and leave whenever I want. My kids come first! And if I want to spend time with you, I WILL make time for you by making arrangements for my kiddos. If you can't accept that, then don't waste my time! Don't waste my time and act interested if we meet, all to stop acting interested. We're adults, keep it real! You'll gain much more respect than acting like a douche and pretending you're interested if you're really not!You SHOULD *** you possess any of the following; Honest, trustworthy, faithful, smart, funny, loyal, can take a joke, serious, romantic, passionate, sweet, NOT in the military (I have my reasons why), you're between the ages of 29-; realize that thick is SEXY, treat women with respect, dig cuddling, know how to communicate & how important it is, especially if you're tatted (not a requirement though), taller than me (I'm 5'6"), DON'T do drugs, DON'T sell drugs, friendly, know the difference between there - their - they're, and your - you're, family is important to you, you like tattoos, good with kids, would like to have kids some day, have goals, would like to get married later on in life, like going out, believe that actions speak louder than words, have manners, can give compliments, music is important to you, into PDA, believe that little things DO matter, not afraid of commitment...First and foremost, I have 2 beautiful children, a son and a daughter. They are and will always be the most important people in my life!!!I am loyal in every way imaginable. In relationships, I have always been the faithful and the honest one. And I expect and deserve the same in a man. I am friendly, sarcastic and funny. I can laugh at stupid things for no reason and I'm not afraid to laugh at myself! I am responsible and take care of my own. I have been out on my own since I was 16 years old and know how to take care of myself and my kids. I have a job... I expect any guy I am with to have one as well. Experience has taught me that people learn to take advantage of others when they're not working and I don't want to be placed in that kind of a situation again. I am crafty, I am artistic and know how to make all sorts of things. I LOVE music. I can relate to it in any way. I am strong and caring and supportive. I know how to be crazy and fun all rolled into one. And I know when to let that side of me show... I'm a girl of many hair colors and I always pull them off well. I like to keep things different! ;) I am a BIG fan of the little things and believe that the little things DO matter!!! They definitely make this girl happy!I don't believe that you need to spend money to always have a good time! I like random road trips, just for the hell of it. I prefer the beach and ocean over the lake or river any day! Big fan of bbq'ing on nice warm summer nights. Cooking together in the kitchen while sipping wine and talking about our days. I enjoy trying new places to eat. I love to cook and I'm really great at it. Bowling is a blast, even though I suck and will probably fall on my ass on the lane at least once during the game. But I will still laugh and have fun! I love movies, either going to them or renting one and having a cozy night inside. I also love going to concerts... I could go on and on... Coffee on a nice day. Bowling. Shooting range? Paintballing? Worse case scenario, surprise me... Girls like surprises, it shows them you know how to put forth the effort!!! NO movies on a first date! You can't get to know someone in a movie! I'm not a big fan of dinner on a first date either. I feel it puts too much pressure and that takes the fun out of the date. Plus I don't want any man feeling like he needs to go that much out of his way. If we decide on a 2nd date, then I'll let you take me to dinner! ;) Ha ha.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    Maybe the internet is where the good men are hiding out... I'm still plenty more tough than your native Cali girl, but my NY fam thinks I've turned into a wimp.. I'm guessing the truth is that I fall somewhere in the middle. I'm extremely kind and nurturing - shirt off my back type of person. Which makes me vulnerable and susceptible to being taken advantage of, but whatever, it comes with the territory. I'll never stop giving. As previously mentioned, I'm tough.I can change my own tire and I'm not afraid of power tools, but I will still turn heads in a pair of heels. I'm adventurous and curious, I love honest/stimulating conversations about anything. Particularly science, nature, psychology, political trends and entrepreneurial endeavors. I try to spend my days growing, learning, improving, reading everything I can get my hands on, appreciating the now, indulging in simplicities, saying "yes" as often as possible, smiling at every possible moment, exploring new food, wine, cities, books and people. I believe that less is usually more, and most of us already possess everything we need to be happy. (With the exception of certain things that I don't consider music. *cough*LilWayne*cough*). Actually, I put a good deal of time into listing my "interests" up top, so if you're curious as to what type of activities/music/etc. I like, you can find them up there.Things I don't like are:Smokers, spelling/grammar errors, liars, people who aren't nice to strangers, people who blame others/the world for their misfortunes, people who don't like children, roaches, cilantro (I'm allergic), most of today's Top 40, those new baggy leggings some girls are wearing that are loose on the top and tight at the bottom (wtf??), the fact that chivalry is probably dead, super picky eaters, owners of poorly behaved dogs, bath tubs, and tequila. .......Up until this point I've always said/thought I knew exactly what I wanted - and maybe I do. Maybe that's exactly what I'll end up with. But at this juncture in my life I'm really open to just seeing where the wind takes me. Don't get me wrong, I very much want to fall into all-consuming love with a super sexy, romantic, man's man and make a bunch of babies one day, but I believe there's a lot of truth to that saying "Man plans and God laughs". So I'm just going with it for now.When it comes down to it, I'm really just an ordinary girl (ordinary = pretty unique and actually kind of wonderful), looking for an ordinary guy to have some extraordinary experiences with. And I think where ever that takes us is right where we're supposed to be.And as we bid adieu, I leave you with this:"When you're tired of relationships, try a romance." As long as the conversation is interesting and full of laughter, the rest doesn't really matter, right?

  • Kiana

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    Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 23-33

    I love food, so much that I am studying it on a molecular level.I'm idiosyncraticWhich means I am consistently inconsistent. Not your typical crazy B...but still crazyyou've been warned.and some of you will still message me. why?Because like myself, you seek a challenge, thrive on chaos and need the adrenaline rush of something new and exciting.Plus the unknown is dangerous and intriguing.Here's some of my dislikes:-Dudes that have 74.5 pictures of their abs. I get it. You have a 12 packI'd take a skinny little punk over a beefy gym-addict any day of the week, sorry. -Messages that say "hey" only. or "what up" only. It will take more than 7 letters to get my attention.-Requests to "hang out". I don't know you. You don't know me. I could just keep your address on file and go in while you're not there and steal all of your shit, so don't be stupid. I'm not gunna come over to your house at midnight to "hang out" so don't bother asking.I will talk to anybody, unless I don't feel like it. I drink, Smoke, and do other morally questionable things, but not with strangers. Likes:-Pictures of you with your dogs/cats. That sh*tmelts my heart away.-Honesty. duh. if you just wanna hook up just say that and we can talk about why you're on here in the first place. -Politeness-Playful banter-Philosophical debates/conversations-Caffeine-guys with tattoos-guys with mohawksIf you wanna know anything else, just ask. *Cheers Msg me if you would like to have a conversation. I dont respond to 'hey' or 'sup' .Mmmmkayy?? Dry people off at the beach, the pool, or after a rain. Yea.

  • Windy

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    Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-36

    Lets start off by saying guys...please put on a shirt. I need you to come at me with more than a nice body. Is that a plus, yeah but have a personality as well. Also, yes I'm in the military and I'm around it all day. Please don't start the conversation off with that.I am really down to earth and very blunt. I like to have fun and hate drama. All I want in life is to be successful and for my son and I to be happy. Depends on the person.

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