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Ilda, 29
United States, Wisconsin, West Bend

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About Me

I'm blunt! Simplified version for the simple minded...Single.. Caucasian.. Male. No ghettos. No rednecks. A provider (I refuse to pay for everything, and don't expect you to either), physically active (not overweight but you don't need to be ripped), preferably taller than 5' 10 because sometimes I wear heels. Have to have a pic smiling (pretty teeth are important to me) If I viewed your profile and didnt message you, sorry I'm most likely not interested.Also, my most recent body photo is from last summer. I post body shots bc i know girls are the best at making themselves appear to be skinnier than they really are. I have lost about 20 lbs since the most recent body shot.I don't spread my legs....if your are looking for a lay, go to a local bar! And even if we go on a date or two or three, it doesn't mean we are having sex. I respect my body and if you cannot do the same and respect me for my decisions, then you are not the guy for me. I have tattoos and piercings. I am who I am and I have what I have for MY reasons. I like guys who have tattoos and piercings. Yet I am NOT THAT shallow ;) If we have similar interests, I won't mind a "" If you are over the age of 35, dont contact me, no offense. Don't take any offense to my profile....and if you do, I'm NOT for YOU! I hide nothing. I am very open and honest, obviously. I am a very social girl who doesn't mind going out for drinks, I am a former bartender, lol. I am a female, so I am a romantic. Cuddling is a BIG thing for me! I love being surprised with the little sweet things. I enjoy going to shows and watching bands. I love music. I kind of play guitar and I love karaoke.! I like hardcore, punk, rockabilly, psychobilly, and rock music. I cannot stand rap and barely tolerate modern country. Please do not contact me if i am OBVIOUSLY out of your style. Just trying to keep from wasting both of our times.I absolutely LOVE baseball!!!! And yes, I am an Astros AND Cardinals fan! Don't hate! And I like the Phillies too.....STRONGLY dislike the Yankees. Talk baseball to me! I plan on going back to graduate school to get my masters and PhD in psychology. I don't know how long it will take to get back, but it is my next goal in life (along with eventually getting married lol).I may seem shallow and like a you-know-what, but like I said, I am open and honest. I'd rather not hide anything from the start to SEEM like the perfect girl. If you don't like what you read, don't be an immature idiot and waste our time sending me a message telling me you don't like it....move on and best of luck! I would honestly like to meet first before declaring a first date. A first date puts a lot of pressure on us both. If we meet and get along and would like to start dating, we can discuss the first date then :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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